<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460817932747672680</id><updated>2012-02-16T00:49:24.650-08:00</updated><category term='utilitarinism'/><category term='Spike Milligan'/><category term='doubles'/><category term='hard times'/><category term='The Darkling Thrush'/><category term='Alonso'/><category term='Turner'/><category term='Ted Hughes'/><category term='nature'/><category term='Metaphysical'/><category term='civilization'/><category term='the importance of being earnest'/><category term='binaries'/><category term='bronte'/><category term='Criticism'/><category term='Mcgough'/><category term='Sick Rose'/><category term='Thomas Hardy'/><category term='Curnow'/><category term='Poetry'/><category term='O Mistress Mine'/><category term='rochester'/><category term='elizabeth gaskell'/><category term='Caliban'/><category term='Marvell'/><category term='The Tempest'/><category term='&apos;THE THOUGHT FOX'/><category term='The Definition of Love'/><category term='women'/><category term='Vegetarians'/><category term='Continuum'/><category term='gothic'/><category term='William Shakespeare'/><category term='utilitarianism'/><category term='Black'/><category term='Ogden Nash'/><category term='The Tempest P1'/><category term='jane eyre'/><category term='dickens'/><category term='John Donne'/><category term='blackpool'/><category term='Metaphysical Poetry'/><category term='Shut Out the Moon'/><category term='On Finding A Small Fly Crushed in a Book'/><category term='bullying'/><category term='Sylvia Plath'/><category term='literature'/><category term='Ariel'/><category term='Timeline'/><category term='Jungian'/><category term='foils'/><category term='character profile'/><category term='Prospero'/><category term='Biography'/><category term='Roger McGough'/><category term='wilde'/><category term='Checklist'/><category term='The Flea'/><category term='quotes'/><category term='men'/><category term='shakespeare'/><category term='Allan Ahlberg'/><category term='love'/><category term='Roald Dahl'/><category term='Analysis'/><category term='To His Coy Mistress'/><category term='Donne'/><title type='text'>Lit Craze!</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>mhema</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353140103300997311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='14' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_EYwDrZNu8jY/SwH0A0W0MRI/AAAAAAAAACE/-3lg8xLO4Rg/S220/poetry.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>108</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460817932747672680.post-279992874750473030</id><published>2011-03-18T00:40:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-18T00:40:50.078-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Roald Dahl'/><title type='text'>The Pig</title><content type='html'>In England once there lived a big&lt;br /&gt;                            And wonderfully clever pig.&lt;br /&gt;                            To everybody it was plain&lt;br /&gt;                            That Piggy had a massive brain.&lt;br /&gt;                            He worked out sums inside his head,&lt;br /&gt;                            There was no book he hadn't read.&lt;br /&gt;                            He knew what made an airplane fly,&lt;br /&gt;                            He knew how engines worked and why.&lt;br /&gt;                            He knew all this, but in the end&lt;br /&gt;                            One question drove him round the bend:&lt;br /&gt;                            He simply couldn't puzzle out&lt;br /&gt;                            What LIFE was really all about.&lt;br /&gt;                            What was the reason for his birth?&lt;br /&gt;                            Why was he placed upon this earth?&lt;br /&gt;                            His giant brain went round and round.&lt;br /&gt;                            Alas, no answer could be found.&lt;br /&gt;                            Till suddenly one wondrous night.&lt;br /&gt;                            All in a flash he saw the light.&lt;br /&gt;                            He jumped up like a ballet dancer&lt;br /&gt;                            And yelled, "By gum, I've got the answer!"&lt;br /&gt;                            "They want my bacon slice by slice&lt;br /&gt;                            "To sell at a tremendous price!&lt;br /&gt;                            "They want my tender juicy chops&lt;br /&gt;                            "To put in all the butcher's shops!&lt;br /&gt;                            "They want my pork to make a roast&lt;br /&gt;                            "And that's the part'll cost the most!&lt;br /&gt;                            "They want my sausages in strings!&lt;br /&gt;                            "They even want my chitterlings!&lt;br /&gt;                            "The butcher's shop! The carving knife!&lt;br /&gt;                            "That is the reason for my life!"&lt;br /&gt;                            Such thoughts as these are not designed&lt;br /&gt;                            To give a pig great piece of mind.&lt;br /&gt;                            Next morning, in comes Farmer Bland,&lt;br /&gt;                            A pail of pigswill in his hand,&lt;br /&gt;                            And piggy with a mighty roar,&lt;br /&gt;                            Bashes the farmer to the floor…&lt;br /&gt;                            Now comes the rather grizzly bit&lt;br /&gt;                            So let's not make too much of it,&lt;br /&gt;                            Except that you must understand&lt;br /&gt;                            That Piggy did eat Farmer Bland,&lt;br /&gt;                            He ate him up from head to toe,&lt;br /&gt;                            Chewing the pieces nice and slow.&lt;br /&gt;                            It took an hour to reach the feet,&lt;br /&gt;                            Because there was so much to eat,&lt;br /&gt;                            And when he finished, Pig, of course,&lt;br /&gt;                            Felt absolutely no remorse.&lt;br /&gt;                            Slowly he scratched his brainy head&lt;br /&gt;                            And with a little smile he said,&lt;br /&gt;                            "I had a fairly powerful hunch&lt;br /&gt;                            "That he might have me for his lunch.&lt;br /&gt;                            "And so, because I feared the worst,&lt;br /&gt;                            "I thought I'd better eat him first."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Roald Dahl&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3460817932747672680-279992874750473030?l=mhema-litluv.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/feeds/279992874750473030/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/2011/03/pig.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default/279992874750473030'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default/279992874750473030'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/2011/03/pig.html' title='The Pig'/><author><name>mhema</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353140103300997311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='14' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_EYwDrZNu8jY/SwH0A0W0MRI/AAAAAAAAACE/-3lg8xLO4Rg/S220/poetry.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460817932747672680.post-1560780893928589289</id><published>2011-03-18T00:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-18T00:40:06.196-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spike Milligan'/><title type='text'>Bazonka by Spike Milligan</title><content type='html'>Say Bazonka every day&lt;br /&gt;                            That's what my grandma used to say&lt;br /&gt;                            It keeps at bay the Asian Flu'&lt;br /&gt;                            And both your elbows free from glue.&lt;br /&gt;                            So say Bazonka every day&lt;br /&gt;                            (That's what my grandma used to say)&lt;br /&gt;                            Don't say it if your socks are dry!&lt;br /&gt;                            Or when the sun is in your eye!&lt;br /&gt;                            Never say it in the dark&lt;br /&gt;                            (The word you see emits a spark)&lt;br /&gt;                            Only say it in the day&lt;br /&gt;                            (That's what my grandma used to say)&lt;br /&gt;                            Young Tiny Tim took her advice&lt;br /&gt;                            He said it once, he said it twice&lt;br /&gt;                            he said it till the day he died&lt;br /&gt;                            And even after that he tried&lt;br /&gt;                            To say Bazonka! every day&lt;br /&gt;                            Just like my grandma used to say.&lt;br /&gt;                            Now folks around declare it's true&lt;br /&gt;                            That every night at half past two&lt;br /&gt;                            If you'll stand upon your head&lt;br /&gt;                            And shout Bazonka! from your bed&lt;br /&gt;                            You'll hear the word as clear as day&lt;br /&gt;                            Just like my grandma used to say!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3460817932747672680-1560780893928589289?l=mhema-litluv.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/feeds/1560780893928589289/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/2011/03/bazonka-by-spike-milligan.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default/1560780893928589289'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default/1560780893928589289'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/2011/03/bazonka-by-spike-milligan.html' title='Bazonka by Spike Milligan'/><author><name>mhema</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353140103300997311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='14' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_EYwDrZNu8jY/SwH0A0W0MRI/AAAAAAAAACE/-3lg8xLO4Rg/S220/poetry.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460817932747672680.post-6730465148264220372</id><published>2011-03-18T00:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-18T00:39:08.072-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Allan Ahlberg'/><title type='text'>Please Mrs Butler</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Arial; color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"&gt;                                                                     Please Mrs Butler&lt;br /&gt;This boy Derek Drew&lt;br /&gt;Keeps copying my work, Miss.&lt;br /&gt;What shall I do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Go and sit in the hall, dear.&lt;br /&gt;Go and sit in the sink.&lt;br /&gt;Take your books on the roof, my lamb.&lt;br /&gt;Do whatever you think.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please Mrs Butler&lt;br /&gt;This boy Derek Drew&lt;br /&gt;Keeps taking my rubber, Miss.&lt;br /&gt;What shall I do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep it in your hand, dear.&lt;br /&gt;Hide it up your vest.&lt;br /&gt;Swallow it if you like, love.&lt;br /&gt;Do what you think best.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please Mrs Butler&lt;br /&gt;This boy Derek Drew&lt;br /&gt;Keeps calling me rude names, Miss.&lt;br /&gt;What shall I do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lock yourself in the cupboard, dear.&lt;br /&gt;Run away to sea.&lt;br /&gt;Do whatever you can, my flower.&lt;br /&gt;But don't ask me!                                                                    &lt;br /&gt;                                                                   &lt;br /&gt;                                                                    &lt;span style="font-size: 20px;"&gt;                                                                         Allan Ahlberg                                                                     &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3460817932747672680-6730465148264220372?l=mhema-litluv.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/feeds/6730465148264220372/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/2011/03/please-mrs-butler.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default/6730465148264220372'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3460817932747672680/posts/default/6730465148264220372'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mhema-litluv.blogspot.com/2011/03/please-mrs-butler.html' title='Please Mrs Butler'/><author><name>mhema</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17353140103300997311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='14' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_EYwDrZNu8jY/SwH0A0W0MRI/AAAAAAAAACE/-3lg8xLO4Rg/S220/poetry.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3460817932747672680.post-6990635284575226263</id><published>2011-03-13T23:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-13T23:29:33.068-07:00</updated><title type='text'>VINDICATION of the RIGHTS OF WOMAN, Mary Wollstonecraft</title><content type='html'>When I began to write this work, I divided it into three parts,  supposing that one volume would contain a full discussion of the  arguments which seemed to me to rise naturally from a few simple  principles; but fresh illustrations occurring as I advanced, I now  present only the first part to the public.  &lt;p&gt;      Many subjects,  however, which I have cursorily alluded to, call for particular  investigation, especially the laws relative to women, and the  consideration of their peculiar duties. These will furnish ample matter  for a second volume, which in due time will be published, to elucidate  some of the sentiments, and complete many of the sketches begun in the  first. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 1&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;The Rights and Involved Duties of Mankind&lt;br /&gt;Considered.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       In the present state of society it appears necessary to go back to  first principles in search of the most simple truths, and to dispute  with some prevailing prejudice every inch of ground. To clear my way, I  must be allowed to ask some plain questions, and the answers will  probably appear as unequivocal as the axioms on which reasoning is  built; though, when entangled with various motives of action, they are  formally contradicted, either by the words or conduct of men. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       In what does man's pre-eminence over the brute creation consist? The  answer is as clear as that a half is less than the whole; in Reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      What acquirement exalts one being above another? Virtue; we spontaneously reply. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       For what purpose were the passions implanted? That man by struggling  with them might attain a degree of knowledge denied to the brutes;  whispers Experience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Consequently the perfection of our  nature and capability of happiness, must be estimated by the degree of  reason, virtue, and knowledge, that distinguish the individual, and  direct the laws which bind society: and that from the exercise of  reason, knowledge and virtue naturally flow, is equally undeniable, if  mankind be viewed collectively. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The rights and duties of  man thus simplified, it seems almost impertinent to attempt to  illustrate truths that appear so incontrovertible; yet such deeply  rooted prejudices have clouded reason, and such spurious qualities have  assumed the name of virtues, that it is necessary to pursue the course  of reason as it has been perplexed and involved in error, by various  adventitious circumstances, comparing the simple axiom with casual  deviations. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Men, in general, seem to employ their reason to  justify prejudices, which they have imbibed, they can scarcely trace  how, rather than to root them out. The mind must be strong that  resolutely forms its own principles; for a kind of intellectual  cowardice prevails which makes many men shrink from the task, or only do  it by halves. Yet the imperfect conclusions thus drawn, are frequently  very plausible, because they are built on partial experience, on just,  though narrow, views. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Going back to first principles, vice  skulks, with all its native deformity, from close investigation; but a  set of shallow reasoners are always exclaiming that these arguments  prove too much, and that a measure rotten at the core may be expedient.  Thus expediency is continually contrasted with simple principles, till  truth is lost in a mist of words, virtue, in forms, and knowledge  rendered a sounding nothing, by the specious prejudices that assume its  name. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      That the society is formed in the wisest manner,  whose constitution is founded on the nature of man, strikes, in the  abstract, every thinking being so forcibly, that it looks like  presumption to endeavour to bring forward proofs; though proof must be  brought, or the strong hold of prescription will never be forced by  reason; yet to urge prescription as an argument to justify the depriving  men (or women) of their natural rights, is one of the absurd sophisms  which daily insult common sense. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The civilization of the  bulk of the people of Europe is very partial; nay, it may be made a  question, whether they have acquired any virtues in exchange for  innocence, equivalent to the misery produced by the vices that have been  plastered over unsightly ignorance, and the freedom which has been  bartered for splendid slavery. The desire of dazzling by riches, the  most certain pre-eminence that man can obtain, the pleasure of  commanding flattering sycophants, and many other complicated low  calculations of doting self-love, have all contributed to overwhelm the  mass of mankind, and make liberty a convenient handle for mock  patriotism. For whilst rank and titles are held of the utmost  importance, before which Genius "must hide its diminished head," it is,  with a few exceptions, very unfortunate for a nation when a man of  abilities, without rank or property, pushes himself forward to  notice.-Alas! what unheard of misery have thousands suffered to purchase  a cardinal's hat for an intriguing obscure adventurer, who longed to be  ranked with princes, or lord it over them by seizing the triple crown! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Such, indeed, has been the wretchedness that has flowed from  hereditary honours, riches, and monarchy, that men of lively sensibility  have almost uttered blasphemy in order to justify the dispensations of  providence. Man has been held out as independent of his power who made  him, or as a lawless planet darting from its orbit to steal the  celestial fire of reason; and the vengeance of heaven, lurking in the  subtile flame, like Pandora's pent up mischiefs, sufficiently punished  his temerity, by introducing evil into the world. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Impressed  by this view of the misery and disorder which pervaded society, and  fatigued with jostling against artificial fools, Rousseau became  enamoured of solitude, and, being at the same time an optimist, he  labours with uncommon eloquence to prove that man was naturally a  solitary animal. Misled by his respect for the goodness of God, who  certainly-for what man of sense and feeling can doubt it!-gave life only  to communicate happiness, he considers evil as positive, and the work  of man; not aware that he was exalting one attribute at the expence of  another, equally necessary to divine perfection. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Reared on a  false hypothesis his arguments in favour of a state of nature are  plausible, but unsound. I say unsound; for to assert that a state of  nature is preferable to civilization, in all its possible perfection,  is, in other words, to arraign supreme wisdom; and the paradoxical  exclamation, that God has made all things right, and that error has been  introduced by the creature, whom he formed, knowing what he formed, is  as unphilosophical as impious. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When that wise Being who  created us and placed us here, saw the fair idea, he willed, by allowing  it to be so, that the passions should unfold our reason, because he  could see that present evil would produce future good. Could the  helpless creature whom he called from nothing break loose from his  providence, and boldly learn to know good by practising evil, without  his permission? No.-How could that energetic advocate for immortality  argue so inconsistently? Had mankind remained for ever in the brutal  state of nature, which even his magic pen cannot paint as a state in  which a single virtue took root, it would have been clear, though not to  the sensitive unreflecting wanderer, that man was born to run the  circle of life and death, and adorn God's garden for some purpose which  could not easily be reconciled with his attributes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But if,  to crown the whole, there were to be rational creatures produced,  allowed to rise in excellence by the exercise of powers implanted for  that purpose; if benignity itself thought fit to call into existence a  creature above the brutes,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n2"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;2&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  who could think and improve himself, why should that inestimable gift,  for a gift it was, if man was so created as to have a capacity to rise  above the state in which sensation produced brutal ease, be called, in  direct terms, a curse? A curse it might be reckoned, if the whole of our  existence were bounded by our continuance in this world; for why should  the gracious fountain of life give us passions, and the power of  reflecting, only to imbitter our days and inspire us with mistaken  notions of dignity? Why should he lead us from love of ourselves to the  sublime emotions which the discovery of his wisdom and goodness excites,  if these feelings were not set in motion to improve our nature, of  which they make a part,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n3"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;3&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  and render us capable of enjoying a more godlike portion of happiness?  Firmly persuaded that no evil exists in the world that God did not  design to take place, I build my belief on the perfection of God. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;       Rousseau exerts himself to prove that all was right originally: a  crowd of authors that all is now right: and I, that all will be right. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, true to his first position, next to a state of nature, Rousseau  celebrates barbarism, and apostrophizing the shade of Fabricius, he  forgets that, in conquering the world, the Romans never dreamed of  establishing their own liberty on a firm basis, or of extending the  reign of virtue. Eager to support his system, he stigmatizes, as  vicious, every effort of genius; and, uttering the apotheosis of savage  virtues, he exalts those to demi-gods, who were scarcely human-the  brutal Spartans, who, in defiance of justice and gratitude, sacrificed,  in cold blood, the slaves who had shewn themselves heroes to rescue  their oppressors. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Disgusted with artificial manners and  virtues, the citizen of Geneva, instead of properly sifting the subject,  threw away the wheat with the chaff, without waiting to inquire whether  the evils which his ardent soul turned from indignantly, were the  consequence of civilization or the vestiges of barbarism. He saw vice  tramping on virtue, and the semblance of goodness taking place of the  reality; he saw talents bent by power to sinister purposes, and never  thought of tracing the gigantic mischief up to arbitrary power, up to  the hereditary distinctions that clash with the mental superiority that  naturally raises a man above his fellows. He did not perceive that regal  power, in a few generations, introduces idiotism into the noble stem,  and holds out baits to render thousands idle and vicious. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Nothing can set the regal character in a more contemptible point of  view, than the various crimes that have elevated men to the supreme  dignity.-Vile intrigues, unnatural crimes, and every vice that degrades  our nature, have been the steps to this distinguished eminence; yet  millions of men have supinely allowed the nerveless limbs of the  posterity of such rapacious prowlers to rest quietly on their  ensanguined thrones.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n4"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;4&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       What but a pestilential vapour can hover over society when its chief  director is only instructed in the invention of crimes, or the stupid  routine of childish ceremonies? Will men never be wise?-will they never  cease to expect corn from tares, and figs from thistles? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It  is impossible for any man, when the most favourable circumstances  concur, to acquire sufficient knowledge and strength of mind to  discharge the duties of a king, entrusted with uncontrouled power; how  then must they be violated when his very elevation is an insuperable bar  to the attainment of either wisdom or virtue; when all the feelings of a  man are stifled by flattery, and reflection shut out by pleasure!  Surely it is madness to make the fate of thousands depend on the caprice  of a weak fellow creature, whose very station sinks him necessarily  below the meanest of his subjects! But one power should not be thrown  down to exalt another-for all power inebriates weak man; and its abuse  proves that the more equality there is established among men, the more  virtue and happiness will reign in society. But this and any similar  maxim deduced from simple reason, raises an outcry-the church or the  state is in danger, if faith in the wisdom of antiquity is not implicit;  and they who, roused by the sight of human calamity, dare to attack  human authority, are reviled as despisers of God, and enemies of man.  These are bitter calumnies, yet they reached one of the best of men,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n5"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;5&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  whose ashes still preach peace, and whose memory demands a respectful  pause, when subjects are discussed that lay so near his heart-&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;       After attacking the sacred majesty of Kings, I shall scarcely excite  surprise by adding my firm persuasion that every profession, in which  great subordination of rank constitutes its power, is highly injurious  to morality. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A standing army, for instance, is incompatible  with freedom; because subordination and rigour are the very sinews of  military discipline; and despotism is necessary to give vigour to  enterprizes that one will directs. A spirit inspired by romantic notions  of honour, a kind of morality founded on the fashion of the age, can  only be felt by a few officers, whilst the main body must be moved by  command, like the waves of the sea; for the strong wind of authority  pushes the crowd of subalterns forward, they scarcely know or care why,  with headlong fury. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Besides, nothing can be so prejudicial  to the morals of the inhabitants of country towns as the occasional  residence of a set of idle superficial young men, whose only occupation  is gallantry, and whose polished manners render vice more dangerous, by  concealing its deformity under gay ornamental drapery. An air of  fashion, which is but a badge of slavery, and proves that the soul has  not a strong individual character, awes simple country people into an  imitation of the vices, when they cannot catch the slippery graces, of  politeness. Every corps is a chain of despots, who, submitting and  tyrannizing without exercising their reason, become dead weights of vice  and folly on the community. A man of rank or fortune, sure of rising by  interest, has nothing to do but to pursue some extravagant freak;  whilst the needy gentleman, who is to rise, as the phrase turns, by his  merit, becomes a servile parasite or vile pander. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Sailors,  the naval gentlemen, come under the same description, only their vices  assume a different and a grosser cast. They are more positively  indolent, when not discharging the ceremonials of their station; whilst  the insignificant fluttering of soldiers may be termed active idleness.  More confined to the society of men, the former acquire a fondness for  humour and mischievous tricks; whilst the latter, mixing frequently with  well-bred women, catch a sentimental cant.-But mind is equally out of  the question, whether they indulge the horse-laugh, or polite simper. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       May I be allowed to extend the comparison to a profession where more  mind is certainly to be found; for the clergy have superior  opportunities of improvement, though subordination almost equally cramps  their faculties? The blind submission imposed at college to forms of  belief serves as a novitiate to the curate, who must obsequiously  respect the opinion of his rector or patron, if he mean to rise in his  profession. Perhaps there cannot be a more forcible contrast than  between the servile dependent gait of a poor curate and the courtly mien  of a bishop. And the respect and contempt they inspire render the  discharge of their separate functions equally useless. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It  is of great importance to observe that the character of every man is, in  some degree, formed by his profession. A man of sense may only have a  cast of countenance that wears off as you trace his individuality,  whilst the weak, common man has scarcely ever any character, but what  belongs to the body; at least, all his opinions have been so steeped in  the vat consecrated by authority, that the faint spirit which the grape  of his own vine yields cannot be distinguished. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Society,  therefore, as it becomes more enlightened, should be very careful not to  establish bodies of men who must necessarily be made foolish or vicious  by the very constitution of their profession. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In the  infancy of society, when men were just emerging out of barbarism, chiefs  and priests, touching the most powerful springs of savage conduct, hope  and fear, must have had unbounded sway. An aristocracy, of course, is  naturally the first form of government. But, clashing interests soon  losing their equipoise, a monarchy and hierarchy break out of the  confusion of ambitious struggles, and the foundation of both is secured  by feudal tenures. This appears to be the origin of monarchical and  priestly power, and the dawn of civilization. But such combustible  materials cannot long be pent up; and, getting vent in foreign wars and  intestine insurrections, the people acquire some power in tumult, which  obliges their rulers to gloss over their oppression with a shew of  right. Thus, as wars, agriculture, commerce, and literature, expand the  mind, despots are compelled, to make covert corruption hold fast the  power which was formerly snatched by open force.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n6"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;6&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  And this baneful lurking gangrene is most quickly spread by luxury and  superstition, the sure dregs of ambition. The indolent puppet of a court  first becomes a luxurious monster, or fastidious sensualist, and then  makes the contagion which his unnatural state spread, the instrument of  tyranny. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      It is the pestiferous purple which renders the  progress of civilization a curse, and warps the understanding, till men  of sensibility doubt whether the expansion of intellect produces a  greater portion of happiness or misery. But the nature of the poison  points out the antidote; and had Rousseau mounted one step higher in his  investigation, or could his eye have pierced through the foggy  atmosphere, which he almost disdained to breathe, his active mind would  have darted forward to contemplate the perfection of man in the  establishment of true civilization, instead of taking his ferocious  flight back to the night of sensual ignorance. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n1"&gt;[1] A lively writer, I cannot recollect his name, asks what business women turned of forty have to do in the world?&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n2"&gt;[2]  Contrary to the opinion of anatomists, who argue by analogy from the  formation of the teeth, stomach, and intestines, Rousseau will not allow  a man to be a carnivorous animal. And, carried away from nature by a  love of system, he disputes whether man be a gregarious animal, though  the long and helpless state of infancy seems to point him out as  particularly impelled to pair, the first step towards herding.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n3"&gt;[3]  What would you say to a mechanic whom you had desired to make a watch  to point out the hour of the day, if, to show his ingenuity, he added  wheels to make it a repeater, &amp;amp;c. that perplexed the simple  mechanism; should he urge, to excuse himself-had you not touched a  certain spring, you would have known nothing of the matter, and that he  should have amused himself by making an experiment without doing you any  harm: would you not retort fairly upon him, by insisting that if he had  not added those needless wheels and springs, the accident could not  have happened? &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n4"&gt;[4] Could there be a greater  insult offered to the rights of man than the beds of justice in France,  when an infant was made the organ of the detestable Dubois! &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n5"&gt;[5] Dr. [Richard] Price.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n6"&gt;[6]  Men of abilities scatter seeds that grow up and have a great influence  on the forming opinion; and when once the public opinion preponderates,  through the exertion of reason, the overthrow of arbitrary power is not  very distant. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 2&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;The Prevailing Opinion of a Sexual&lt;br /&gt;Character Discussed.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       To account for, and excuse the tyranny of man, many ingenious  arguments have been brought forward to prove, that the two sexes, in the  acquirement of virtue, ought to aim at attaining a very different  character: or, to speak explicitly, women are not allowed to have  sufficient strength of mind to acquire what really deserves the name of  virtue. Yet it should seem, allowing them to have souls, that there is  but one way appointed by Providence to lead mankind to either virtue or  happiness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If then women are not a swarm of ephemeron  triflers, why should they be kept in ignorance under the specious name  of innocence? Men complain, and with reason, of the follies and caprices  of our sex, when they do not keenly satirize our headstrong passions  and groveling vices.-Behold, I should answer, the natural effect of  ignorance! The mind will ever be unstable that has only prejudices to  rest on, and the current will run with destructive fury when there are  no barriers to break its force. Women are told from their infancy, and  taught by the example of their mothers, that a little knowledge of human  weakness, justly termed cunning, softness of temper, outward obedience,  and a scrupulous attention to a puerile kind of propriety, will obtain  for them the protection of man; and should they be beautiful, every  thing else is needless, for, at least, twenty years of their lives. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Thus Milton describes our first frail mother; though when he tells us  that women are formed for softness and sweet attractive grace, I cannot  comprehend his meaning, unless, in the true Mahometan strain, he meant  to deprive us of souls, and insinuate that we were beings only designed  by sweet attractive grace, and docile blind obedience, to gratify the  senses of man when he can no longer soar on the wing of contemplation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       How grossly do they insult us who thus advise us only to render  ourselves gentle, domestic brutes! For instance, the winning softness so  warmly, and frequently, recommended, that governs by obeying. What  childish expressions, and how insignificant is the being-can it be an  immortal one? who will condescend to govern by such sinister methods!  'Certainly,' says Lord Bacon, 'man is of kin to the beasts by his body;  and if he be not of kin to God by his spirit, he is a base and ignoble  creature!' Men, indeed, appear to me to act in a very unphilosophical  manner when they try to secure the good conduct of women by attempting  to keep them always in a state of childhood. Rousseau was more  consistent when he wished to stop the progress of reason in both sexes,  for if men eat of the tree of knowledge, women will come in for a taste;  but, from the imperfect cultivation which their understandings now  receive, they only attain a knowledge of evil. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Children, I  grant, should be innocent; but when the epithet is applied to men, or  women, it is but a civil term for weakness. For if it be allowed that  women were destined by Providence to acquire human virtues, and by the  exercise of their understandings, that stability of character which is  the firmest ground to rest our future hopes upon, they must be permitted  to turn to the fountain of light, and not forced to shape their course  by the twinkling of a mere satellite. Milton, I grant, was of a very  different opinion; for he only bends to the indefeasible right of  beauty, though it would be difficult to render two passages which I now  mean to contrast, consistent. But into similar inconsistencies are great  men often led by their senses. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'To whom thus Eve with perfect beauty adorn'd.&lt;br /&gt;'My Author and Disposer, what thou bidst&lt;br /&gt;'Unargued I obey; So God ordains;&lt;br /&gt;'God is thy law, thou mine: to know no more&lt;br /&gt;'Is Woman's happiest knowledge and her Praise.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;p&gt;       These are exactly the arguments that I have used to children; but I  have added, your reason is now gaining strength, and, till it arrives at  some degree of maturity, you must look up to me for advice-then you  ought to think, and only rely on God. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Yet in the following lines Milton seems to coincide with me; when he makes Adam thus expostulate with his Maker. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'Hast thou not made me here thy substitute,&lt;br /&gt;'And these inferior far beneath me set?&lt;br /&gt;'Among unequals what society&lt;br /&gt;'Can sort, what harmony or true delight?&lt;br /&gt;'Which must be mutual, in proportion due&lt;br /&gt;'Giv'n and receiv'd; but in disparity&lt;br /&gt;'The one intense, the other still remiss&lt;br /&gt;'Cannot well suit with either, but soon prove&lt;br /&gt;'Tedious alike: of fellowship I speak&lt;br /&gt;'Such as I seek, fit to participate&lt;br /&gt;'All rational delight-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       In treating, therefore, of the manners of women, let us, disregarding  sensual arguments, trace what we should endeavour to make them in order  to co-operate, if the expression be not too bold, with the supreme  Being. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      By individual education, I mean, for the sense of  the word is not precisely defined, such an attention to a child as will  slowly sharpen the senses, form the temper, regulate the passions as  they begin to ferment, and set the understanding to work before the body  arrives at maturity; so that the man may only have to proceed, not to  begin, the important task of learning to think and reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       To prevent any misconstruction, I must add, that I do not believe that a  private education can work the wonders which some sanguine writers have  attributed to it. Men and women must be educated, in a great degree, by  the opinions and manners of the society they live in. In every age  there has been a stream of popular opinion that has carried all before  it, and given a family character, as it were, to the century. It may  then fairly be inferred, that, till society be differently constituted,  much cannot be expected from education. It is, however, sufficient for  my present purpose to assert, that, whatever effect circumstances have  on the abilities, every being may become virtuous by the exercise of its  own reason; for if but one being was created with vicious inclinations,  that is positively bad, what can save us from atheism? or if we worship  a God, is not that God a devil? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Consequently, the most  perfect education, in my opinion, is such an exercise of the  understanding as is best calculated to strengthen the body and form the  heart. Or, in other words, to enable the individual to attain such  habits of virtue as will render it independent. In fact, it is a farce  to call any being virtuous whose virtues do not result from the exercise  of its own reason. This was Rousseau's opinion respecting men: I extend  it to women, and confidently assert that they have been drawn out of  their sphere by false refinement, and not by an endeavour to acquire  masculine qualities. Still the regal homage which they receive is so  intoxicating, that till the manners of the times are changed, and formed  on more reasonable principles, it may be impossible to convince them  that the illegitimate power, which they obtain, by degrading themselves,  is a curse, and that they must return to nature and equality, if they  wish to secure the placid satisfaction that unsophisticated affections  impart. But for this epoch we must wait-wait, perhaps, till kings and  nobles, enlightened by reason, and, preferring the real dignity of man  to childish state, throw off their gaudy hereditary trappings: and if  then women do not resign the arbitrary power of beauty-they will prove  that they have less mind than man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I may be accused of  arrogance; still I must declare what I firmly believe, that all the  writers who have written on the subject of female education and manners  from Rousseau to Dr. Gregory, have contributed to render women more  artificial, weak characters, than they would otherwise have been; and,  consequently, more useless members of society. I might have expressed  this conviction in a lower key; but I am afraid it would have been the  whine of affectation, and not the faithful expression of my feelings, of  the clear result, which experience and reflection have led me to draw.  When I come to that division of the subject, I shall advert to the  passages that I more particularly disapprove of, in the works of the  authors I have just alluded to; but it is first necessary to observe,  that my objection extends to the whole purport of those books, which  tend, in my opinion, to degrade one half of the human species, and  render women pleasing at the expense of every solid virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Though, to reason on Rousseau's ground, if man did attain a degree of  perfection of mind when his body arrived at maturity, it might be  proper, in order to make a man and his wife one, that she should rely  entirely on his understanding; and the graceful ivy, clasping the oak  that supported it, would form a whole in which strength and beauty would  be equally conspicuous. But, alas! husbands, as well as their  helpmates, are often only overgrown children; nay, thanks to early  debauchery, scarcely men in their outward form and if the blind lead the  blind, one need not come from heaven to tell us the consequence. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Many are the causes that, in the present corrupt state of society,  contribute to enslave women by cramping their understandings and  sharpening their senses. One, perhaps, that silently does more mischief  than all the rest, is their disregard of order. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To do every  thing in an orderly manner, is a most important precept, which women,  who, generally speaking, receive only a disorderly kind of education,  seldom attend to with that degree of exactness that men, who from their  infancy are broken into method, observe. This negligent kind of  guess-work, for what other epithet can be used to point out the random  exertions of a sort of instinctive common sense, never brought to the  test of reason? prevents their generalizing matters of fact-so they do  to-day, what they did yesterday, merely because they did it yesterday. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       This contempt of the understanding in early life has more baneful  consequences than is commonly supposed; for the little knowledge which  women of strong minds attain, is, from various circumstances, of a more  desultory kind than the knowledge of men, and it is acquired more by  sheer observations on real life, than from comparing what has been  individually observed with the results of experience generalized by  speculation. Led by their dependent situation and domestic employments  more into society, what they learn is rather by snatches; and as  learning is with them, in general, only a secondary thing, they do not  pursue any one branch with that persevering ardour necessary to give  vigour to the faculties, and clearness to the judgment. In the present  state of society, a little learning is required to support the character  of a gentleman; and boys are obliged to submit to a few years of  discipline. But in the education of women, the cultivation of the  understanding is always subordinate to the acquirement of some corporeal  accomplishment; even while enervated by confinement and false notions  of modesty, the body is prevented from attaining that grace and beauty  which relaxed half-formed limbs never exhibit. Besides, in youth their  faculties are not brought forward by emulation; and having no serious  scientific study, if they have natural sagacity it is turned too soon on  life and manners. They dwell on effects, and modifications, without  tracing them back to causes; and complicated rules to adjust behaviour  are a weak substitute for simple principles. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      As a proof  that education gives this appearance of weakness to females, we may  instance the example of military men, who are, like them, sent into the  world before their minds have been stored with knowledge or fortified by  principles. The consequences are similar; soldiers acquire a little  superficial knowledge, snatched from the muddy current of conversation,  and, from continually mixing with society, they gain, what is termed a  knowledge of the world; and this acquaintance with manners and customs  has frequently been confounded with a knowledge of the human heart. But  can the crude fruit of casual observation, never brought to the test of  judgment, formed by comparing speculation and experience, deserve such a  distinction? Soldiers, as well as women, practice the minor virtues  with punctilious politeness. Where is then the sexual difference, when  the education has been the same? All the difference that I can discern,  arises from the superior advantage of liberty, which enables the former  to see more of life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is wandering from my present  subject, perhaps, to make a political remark; but, as it was produced  naturally by the train of my reflections, I shall not pass it silently  over. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Standing armies can never consist of resolute, robust  men; they may be well disciplined machines, but they will seldom  contain men under the influence of strong passions, or with very  vigorous faculties. And as for any depth of understanding, I will  venture to affirm, that it is as rarely to be found in the army as  amongst women; and the cause, I maintain, is the same. It may be further  observed, that officers are also particularly attentive to their  persons, fond of dancing, crowded rooms, adventures, and ridicule.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n7"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;7&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Like the fair sex, the business of their lives is gallantry.-They were  taught to please, and they only live to please. Yet they do not lose  their rank in the distinction of sexes, for they are still reckoned  superior to women, though in what their superiority consists, beyond  what I have just mentioned, it is difficult to discover. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       The great misfortune is this, that they both acquire manners before  morals, and a knowledge of life before they have, from reflection, any  acquaintance with the grand ideal outline of human nature. The  consequence is natural; satisfied with common nature, they become a prey  to prejudices, and taking all their opinions on credit, they blindly  submit to authority. So that, if they have any sense, it is a kind of  instinctive glance, that catches proportions, and decides with respect  to manners; but fails when arguments are to be pursued below the  surface, or opinions analyzed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      May not the same remark be  applied to women? Nay, the argument may be carried still further, for  they are both thrown out of a useful station by the unnatural  distinctions established in civilized life. Riches and hereditary  honours have made cyphers of women to give consequence to the numerical  figure; and idleness has produced a mixture of gallantry and despotism  into society, which leads the very men who are the slaves of their  mistresses to tyrannize over their sisters, wives, and daughters. This  is only keeping them in rank and file, it is true. Strengthen the female  mind by enlarging it, and there will be an end to blind obedience; but,  as blind obedience is ever sought for by power, tyrants and sensualists  are in the right when they endeavour to keep women in the dark, because  the former only want slaves, and the latter a play-thing. The  sensualist, indeed, has been the most dangerous of tyrants, and women  have been duped by their lovers, as princes by their ministers, whilst  dreaming that they reigned over them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I now principally  allude to Rousseau, for his character of Sophia is, undoubtedly, a  captivating one, though it appears to me grossly unnatural; however it  is not the superstructure, but the foundation of her character, the  principles on which her education was built, that I mean to attack; nay,  warmly as I admire the genius of that able writer, whose opinions I  shall often have occasion to cite, indignation always takes place of  admiration, and the rigid frown of insulted virtue effaces the smile of  complacency which his eloquent periods are wont to raise, when I read  his voluptuous reveries. Is this the man, who, in his ardour for virtue,  would banish all the soft arts of peace, and almost carry us back to  Spartan discipline? Is this the man who delights to paint the useful  struggles of passion, the triumphs of good dispositions, and the heroic  flights which carry the glowing soul out of itself?-How are these mighty  sentiments lowered when he describes the pretty foot and enticing airs  of his little favourite! But, for the present, I wave the subject, and,  instead of severely reprehending the transient effusions of overweening  sensibility, I shall only observe, that whoever has cast a benevolent  eye on society, must often have been gratified by the sight of a humble  mutual love, not dignified by sentiment, or strengthened by a union in  intellectual pursuits. The domestic trifles of the day have afforded  matters for cheerful converse, and innocent caresses have softened toils  which did not require great exercise of mind or stretch of thought:  yet, has not the sight of this moderate felicity excited more tenderness  than respect? An emotion similar to what we feel when children are  playing, or animals sporting,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n8"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;8&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  whilst the contemplation of the noble struggles of suffering merit has  raised admiration, and carried our thoughts to that world where  sensation will give place to reason. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      Women are,  therefore, to be considered either as moral beings, or so weak that they  must be entirely subjected to the superior faculties of men. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Let us examine this question. Rousseau declares that a woman should  never, for a moment, feel herself independent, that she should be  governed by fear to exercise her natural cunning, and made a coquetish  slave in order to render her a more alluring object of desire, a sweeter  companion to man, whenever he chooses to relax himself. He carries the  arguments, which he pretends to draw from the indications of nature,  still further, and insinuates that truth and fortitude, the corner  stones of all human virtue, should be cultivated with certain  restrictions, because, with respect to the female character, obedience  is the grand lesson which ought to be impressed with unrelenting rigour.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      What nonsense! When will a great man arise with sufficient  strength of mind to puff away the fumes which pride and sensuality have  thus spread over the subject! If women are by nature inferior to men,  their virtues must be the same in quality, if not in degree, or virtue  is a relative idea; consequently, their conduct should be founded on the  same principles, and have the same aim. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Connected with man  as daughters, wives, and mothers, their moral character may be  estimated by their manner of fulfilling those simple duties; but the  end, the grand end of their exertions should be to unfold their own  faculties and acquire the dignity of conscious virtue. They may try to  render their road pleasant; but ought never to forget, in common with  man, that life yields not the felicity which can satisfy an immortal  soul. I do not mean to insinuate, that either sex should be so lost in  abstract reflections or distant views, as to forget the affections and  duties that lie before them, and are, in truth, the means appointed to  produce the fruit of life; on the contrary, I would warmly recommend  them, even while I assert, that they afford most satisfaction when they  are considered in their true, sober light. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Probably the  prevailing opinion, that woman was created for man, may have taken its  rise from Moses's poetical story; yet, as very few, it is presumed, who  have bestowed any serious thought on the subject, ever supposed that Eve  was, literally speaking, one of Adam's ribs, the deduction must be  allowed to fall to the ground; or, only be so far admitted as it proves  that man, from the remotest antiquity, found it convenient to exert his  strength to subjugate his companion, and his invention to shew that she  ought to have her neck bent under the yoke, because the whole creation  was only created for his convenience or pleasure. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let it  not be concluded that I wish to invert the order of things; I have  already granted, that, from the constitution of their bodies, men seem  to be designed by Providence to attain a greater degree of virtue. I  speak collectively of the whole sex; but I see not the shadow of a  reason to conclude that their virtues should differ in respect to their  nature. In fact, how can they, if virtue has only one eternal standard? I  must therefore, if I reason consequentially, as strenuously maintain  that they have the same simple direction, as that there is a God. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       It follows then that cunning should not be opposed to wisdom, little  cares to great exertions, or insipid softness, varnished over with the  name of gentleness, to that fortitude which grand views alone can  inspire. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I shall be told that woman would then lose many of  her peculiar graces, and the opinion of a well known poet might be  quoted to refute my unqualified assertion. For Pope has said, in the  name of the whole male sex, &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'Yet ne'er so sure our passion to create,&lt;br /&gt;'As when she touch'd the brink of all we hate.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       In what light this sally places men and women, I shall leave to the  judicious to determine; meanwhile I shall content myself with observing,  that I cannot discover why, unless they are mortal, females should  always be degraded by being made subservient to love or lust. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       To speak disrespectfully of love is, I know, high treason against  sentiment and fine feelings; but I wish to speak the simple language of  truth, and rather to address the head than the heart. To endeavour to  reason love out of the world, would be to out Quixote Cervantes, and  equally offend against common sense; but an endeavour to restrain this  tumultuous passion, and to prove that it should not be allowed to  dethrone superior powers, or to usurp the sceptre which the  understanding should ever coolly wield, appears less wild. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Youth is the season for love in both sexes; but in those days of  thoughtless enjoyment provision should be made for the more important  years of life, when reflection takes place of sensation. But Rousseau,  and most of the male writers who have followed his steps, have warmly  inculcated that the whole tendency of female education ought to be  directed to one point:-to render them pleasing. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let me  reason with the supporters of this opinion who have any knowledge of  human nature, do they imagine that marriage can eradicate the habitude  of life? The woman who has only been taught to please will soon find  that her charms are oblique sunbeams, and that they cannot have much  effect on her husband's heart when they are seen every day, when the  summer is passed and gone. Will she then have sufficient native energy  to look into herself for comfort, and cultivate her dormant faculties?  or, is it not more rational to expect that she will try to please other  men; and, in the emotions raised by the expectation of new conquests,  endeavour to forget the mortification her love or pride has received?  When the husband ceases to be a lover-and the time will inevitably come,  her desire of pleasing will then grow languid, or become a spring of  bitterness; and love, perhaps, the most evanescent of all passions,  gives place to jealousy or vanity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I now speak of women who  are restrained by principle or prejudice; such women, though they would  shrink from an intrigue with real abhorrence, yet, nevertheless, wish  to be convinced by the homage of gallantry that they are cruelly  neglected by their husbands; or, days and weeks are spent in dreaming of  the happiness enjoyed by congenial souls till their health is  undermined and their spirits broken by discontent. How then can the  great art of pleasing be such a necessary study? it is only useful to a  mistress; the chaste wife, and serious mother, should only consider her  power to please as the polish of her virtues, and the affection of her  husband as one of the comforts that render her task less difficult and  her life happier.-But, whether she be loved or neglected, her first wish  should be to make herself respectable, and not to rely for all her  happiness on a being subject to like infirmities with herself. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The worthy Dr. Gregory fell into a similar error. I respect his  heart; but entirely disapprove of his celebrated Legacy to his  Daughters. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      He advises them to cultivate a fondness for  dress, because a fondness for dress, he asserts, is natural to them. I  am unable to comprehend what either he or Rousseau mean, when they  frequently use this indefinite term. If they told us that in a  pre-existent state the soul was fond of dress, and brought this  inclination with it into a new body, I should listen to them with a half  smile, as I often do when I hear a rant about innate elegance.-But if  he only meant to say that the exercise of the faculties will produce  this fondness-I deny it.-It is not natural; but arises, like false  ambition in men, from a love of power. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Dr. Gregory goes  much further; he actually recommends dissimulation, and advises an  innocent girl to give the lie to her feelings, and not dance with  spirit, when gaiety of heart would make her feel eloquent without making  her gestures immodest. In the name of truth and common sense, why  should not one woman acknowledge that she can take more exercise than  another? or, in other words, that she has a sound constitution; and why,  to damp innocent vivacity, is she darkly to be told that men will draw  conclusions which she little thinks of?-Let the libertine draw what  inference he pleases; but, I hope, that no sensible mother will restrain  the natural frankness of youth by instilling such indecent cautions.  Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh; and a wiser than  Solomon hath said, that the heart should be made clean, and not trivial  ceremonies observed, which it is not very difficult to fulfill with  scrupulous exactness when vice reigns in the heart. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women  ought to endeavour to purify their heart; but can they do so when their  uncultivated understandings make them entirely dependent on their senses  for employment and amusement, when no noble pursuit sets them above the  little vanities of the day, or enables them to curb the wild emotions  that agitate a reed over which every passing breeze has power? To gain  the affections of a virtuous man is affectation necessary? Nature has  given woman a weaker frame than man; but, to ensure her husband's  affections, must a wife, who by the exercise of her mind and body whilst  she was discharging the duties of a daughter, wife, and mother, has  allowed her constitution to retain its natural strength, and her nerves a  healthy tone, is she, I say, to condescend to use art and feign a  sickly delicacy in order to secure her husband's affection? Weakness may  excite tenderness, and gratify the arrogant pride of man; but the  lordly caresses of a protector will not gratify a noble mind that pants  for, and deserves to be respected. Fondness is a poor substitute for  friendship! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In a seraglio, I grant, that all these arts are  necessary; the epicure must have his palate tickled, or he will sink  into apathy; but have women so little ambition as to be satisfied with  such a condition? Can they supinely dream life away in the lap of  pleasure, or the languor of weariness, rather than assert their claim to  pursue reasonable pleasures and render themselves conspicuous by  practising the virtues which dignify mankind? Surely she has not an  immortal soul who can loiter life away merely employed to adorn her  person, that she may amuse the languid hours, and soften the cares of a  fellow-creature who is willing to be enlivened by her smiles and tricks,  when the serious business of life is over. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Besides, the  woman who strengthens her body and exercises her mind will, by managing  her family and practising various virtues, become the friend, and not  the humble dependent of her husband; and if she, by possessing such  substantial qualities, merit his regard, she will not find it necessary  to conceal her affection, nor to pretend to an unnatural coldness of  constitution to excite her husband's passions. In fact, if we revert to  history, we shall find that the women who have distinguished themselves  have neither been the most beautiful nor the most gentle of their sex. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Nature, or, to speak with strict propriety, God, has made all things  right; but man has sought him out many inventions to mar the work. I now  allude to that part of Dr. Gregory's treatise, where he advises a wife  never to let her husband know the extent of her sensibility or  affection. Voluptuous precaution, and as ineffectual as absurd.-Love,  from its very nature, must be transitory. To seek for a secret that  would render it constant, would be as wild a search as for the  philosopher's stone, or the grand panacea: and the discovery would be  equally useless, or rather pernicious to mankind. The most holy band of  society is friendship. It has been well said, by a shrewd satirist,  "that rare as true love is, true friendship is still rarer." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This is an obvious truth, and the cause not lying deep, will not elude a slight glance of inquiry. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Love, the common passion, in which chance and sensation take place of  choice and reason, is, in some degree, felt by the mass of mankind; for  it is not necessary to speak, at present, of the emotions that rise  above or sink below love. This passion, naturally increased by suspense  and difficulties, draws the mind out of its accustomed state, and exalts  the affections; but the security of marriage, allowing the fever of  love to subside, a healthy temperature is thought insipid, only by those  who have not sufficient intellect to substitute the calm tenderness of  friendship, the confidence of respect, instead of blind admiration, and  the sensual emotions of fondness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This is, must be, the  course of nature.-Friendship or indifference inevitably succeeds  love.-And this constitution seems perfectly to harmonize with the system  of government which prevails in the moral world. Passions are spurs to  action, and open the mind; but they sink into mere appetites, become a  personal and momentary gratification, when the object is gained, and the  satisfied mind rests in enjoyment. The man who had some virtue whilst  he was struggling for a crown, often becomes a voluptuous tyrant when it  graces his brow; and, when the lover is not lost in the husband, the  dotard, a prey to childish caprices, and fond jealousies, neglects the  serious duties of life, and the caresses which should excite confidence  in his children are lavished on the overgrown child, his wife. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       In order to fulfil the duties of life, and to be able to pursue with  vigour the various employments which form the moral character, a master  and mistress of a family ought not to continue to love each other with  passion. I mean to say that they ought not to indulge those emotions  which disturb the order of society, and engross the thoughts that should  be otherwise employed. The mind that has never been engrossed by one  object wants vigour-if it can long be so, it is weak. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A  mistaken education, a narrow, uncultivated mind, and many sexual  prejudices, tend to make women more constant than men; but, for the  present, I shall not touch on this branch of the subject. I will go  still further, and advance, without dreaming of a paradox, that an  unhappy marriage is often very advantageous to a family, and that the  neglected wife is, in general, the best mother. And this would almost  always be the consequence if the female mind were more enlarged: for, it  seems to be the common dispensation of Providence, that what we gain in  present enjoyment should be deducted from the treasure of life,  experience; and that when we are gathering the flowers of the day and  revelling in pleasure, the solid fruit of toil and wisdom should not be  caught at the same time. The way lies before us, we must turn to the  right or left; and he who will pass life away in bounding from one  pleasure to another, must not complain if he acquire neither wisdom nor  respectability of character. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Supposing, for a moment, that  the soul is not immortal, and that man was only created for the present  scene,-I think we should have reason to complain that love, infantine  fondness, ever grew insipid and palled upon the sense. Let us eat,  drink, and love, for to-morrow we die, would be, in fact, the language  of reason, the morality of life; and who but a fool would part with a  reality for a fleeting shadow? But, if awed by observing the improbable  powers of the mind, we disdain to confine our wishes or thoughts to such  a comparatively mean field of action; that only appears grand and  important, as it is connected with a boundless prospect and sublime  hopes, what necessity is there for falsehood in conduct, and why must  the sacred majesty of truth be violated to detain a deceitful good that  saps the very foundation of virtue? Why must the female mind be tainted  by coquetish arts to gratify the sensualist, and prevent love from  subsiding into friendship, or compassionate tenderness, when there are  not qualities on which friendship can be built? Let the honest heart  shew itself, and reason teach passion to submit to necessity; or, let  the dignified pursuit of virtue and knowledge raise the mind above those  emotions which rather imbitter than sweeten the cup of life, when they  are not restrained within due bounds. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I do not mean to  allude to the romantic passion, which is the concomitant of genius.-Who  can clip its wing? But that grand passion not proportioned to the puny  enjoyments of life, is only true to the sentiment, and feeds on itself.  The passions which have been celebrated for their durability have always  been unfortunate. They have acquired strength by absence and  constitutional melancholy.-The fancy has hovered round a form of beauty  dimly seen-but familiarity might have turned admiration into disgust;  or, at least, into indifference, and allowed the imagination leisure to  start fresh game. With perfect propriety, according to this view of  things, does Rousseau make the mistress of his soul, Eloisa, love St.  Preux, when life was fading before her; but this is no proof of the  immortality of the passion. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Of the same complexion is Dr.  Gregory's advice respecting delicacy of sentiment, which he advises a  woman not to acquire, if she have determined to marry. This  determination, however, perfectly consistent with his former advice, he  calls indelicate, and earnestly persuades his daughters to conceal it,  though it may govern their conduct;-as if it were indelicate to have the  common appetites of human nature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Noble morality! and  consistent with the cautious prudence of a little soul that cannot  extend its views beyond the present minute division of existence. If all  the faculties of woman's mind are only to be cultivated as they respect  her dependence on man; if, when a husband be obtained, she have arrived  at her goal, and meanly proud rests satisfied with such a paltry crown,  let her grovel contentedly, scarcely raised by her employments above  the animal kingdom; but, if, struggling for the prize of her high  calling, she look beyond the present scene, let her cultivate her  understanding without stopping to consider what character the husband  may have whom she is destined to marry. Let her only determine, without  being too anxious about present happiness, to acquire the qualities that  ennoble a rational being, and a rough inelegant husband may shock her  taste without destroying her peace of mind. She will not model her soul  to suit the frailties of her companion, but to bear with them: his  character may be a trial, but not an impediment to virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       If Dr. Gregory confined his remark to romantic expectations of constant  love and congenial feelings, he should have recollected that experience  will banish what advice can never make us cease to wish for, when the  imagination is kept alive at the expence of reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I own it frequently happens that women who have fostered a romantic unnatural delicacy of feeling, waste their  &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n9"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;9&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  lives in imagining how happy they should have been with a husband who  could love them with a fervid increasing affection every day, and all  day. But they might as well pine married as single-and would not be a  jot more unhappy with a bad husband than longing for a good one. That a  proper education; or, to speak with more precision, a well stored mind,  would enable a woman to support a single life with dignity, I grant; but  that she should avoid cultivating her taste, lest her husband should  occasionally shock it, is quitting a substance for a shadow. To say the  truth, I do not know of what use is an improved taste, if the individual  be not rendered more independent of the casualties of life; if new  sources of enjoyment, only dependent on the solitary operations of the  mind, are not opened. People of taste, married or single, without  distinction, will ever be disgusted by various things that touch not  less observing minds. On this conclusion the argument must not be  allowed to hinge; but in the whole sum of enjoyment is taste to be  denominated a blessing? &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      The question is, whether it  procures most pain or pleasure? The answer will decide the propriety of  Dr. Gregory's advice, and shew how absurd and tyrannic it is thus to lay  down a system of slavery; or to attempt to educate moral beings by any  other rules than those deduced from pure reason, which apply to the  whole species. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Gentleness of manners, forbearance and  long-suffering, are such amiable Godlike qualities, that in sublime  poetic strains the Deity has been invested with them; and, perhaps, no  representation of his goodness so strongly fastens on the human  affections as those that represent him abundant in mercy and willing to  pardon. Gentleness, considered in this point of view, bears on its front  all the characteristics of grandeur, combined with the winning graces  of condescension; but what a different aspect it assumes when it is the  submissive demeanour of dependence, the support of weakness that loves,  because it wants protection; and is forbearing, because it must silently  endure injuries; smiling under the lash at which it dare not snarl.  Abject as this picture appears, it is the portrait of an accomplished  woman, according to the received opinion of female excellence, separated  by specious reasoners from human excellence. Or, they &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n10"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;10&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; kindly restore the rib, and make one moral being of a man and woman; not forgetting to give her all the 'submissive charms.' &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       How women are to exist in that state where there is to be neither  marrying nor giving in marriage, we are not told. For though moralists  have agreed that the tenor of life seems to prove that man is prepared  by various circumstances for a future state, they constantly concur in  advising woman only to provide for the present. Gentleness, docility,  and a spaniel-like affection are, on this ground, consistently  recommended as the cardinal virtues of the sex; and, disregarding the  arbitrary economy of nature, one writer has declared that it is  masculine for a woman to be melancholy. She was created to be the toy of  man, his rattle, and it must jingle in his ears whenever, dismissing  reason, he chooses to be amused. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To recommend gentleness,  indeed, on a broad basis is strictly philosophical. A frail being should  labour to be gentle. But when forbearance confounds right and wrong, it  ceases to be a virtue; and, however convenient it may be found in a  companion-that companion will ever be considered as an inferior, and  only inspire a vapid tenderness, which easily degenerates into contempt.  Still, if advice could really make a being gentle, whose natural  disposition admitted not of such a fine polish, something towards the  advancement of order would be attained; but if, as might quickly be  demonstrated, only affectation be produced by this indiscriminate  counsel, which throws a stumbling-block in the way of gradual  improvement, and true melioration of temper, the sex is not much  benefited by sacrificing solid virtues to the attainment of superficial  graces, though for a few years they may procure the individuals regal  sway. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      As a philosopher, I read with indignation the  plausible epithets which men use to soften their insults; and, as a  moralist, I ask what is meant by such heterogeneous associations, as  fair defects, amiable weaknesses, &amp;amp;c.? If there be but one criterion  of morals, but one archetype for man, women appear to be suspended by  destiny, according to the vulgar tale of Mahomet's coffin; they have  neither the unerring instinct of brutes, nor are allowed to fix the eye  of reason on a perfect model. They were made to be loved, and must not  aim at respect, lest they should be hunted out of society as masculine. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But to view the subject in another point of view. Do passive indolent  women make the best wives? Confining our discussion to the present  moment of existence, let us see how such weak creatures perform their  part? Do the women who, by the attainment of a few superficial  accomplishments, have strengthened the prevailing prejudice, merely  contribute to the happiness of their husbands? Do they display their  charms merely to amuse them? And have women, who have early imbibed  notions of passive obedience, sufficient character to manage a family or  educate children? So far from it, that, after surveying the history of  woman, I cannot help, agreeing with the severest satirist, considering  the sex as the weakest as well as the most oppressed half of the  species. What does history disclose but marks of inferiority, and how  few women have emancipated themselves from the galling yoke of sovereign  man?-So few, that the exceptions remind me of an ingenious conjecture  respecting Newton: that he was probably a being of a superior order,  accidentally caged in a human body. Following the same train of  thinking, I have been led to imagine that the few extraordinary women  who have rushed in eccentrical directions out of the orbit prescribed to  their sex, were male spirits, confined by mistake in female frames. But  if it be not philosophical to think of sex when the soul is mentioned,  the inferiority must depend on the organs; or the heavenly fire, which  is to ferment the clay, is not given in equal portions. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But  avoiding, as I have hitherto done, any direct comparison of the two  sexes collectively, or frankly acknowledging the inferiority of woman,  according to the present appearance of things, I shall only insist that  men have increased that inferiority till women are almost sunk below the  standard of rational creatures. Let their faculties have room to  unfold, and their virtues to gain strength, and then determine where the  whole sex must stand in the intellectual scale. Yet let it be  remembered, that for a small number of distinguished women I do not ask a  place. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is difficult for us purblind mortals to say to  what height human discoveries and improvements may arrive when the gloom  of despotism subsides, which makes us stumble at every step; but, when  morality shall be settled on a more solid basis, then, without being  gifted with a prophetic spirit, I will venture to predict that woman  will be either the friend or slave of man. We shall not, as at present,  doubt whether she is a moral agent, or the link which unites man with  brutes. But, should it then appear, that like the brutes they were  principally created for the use of man, he will let them patiently bite  the bridle, and not mock them with empty praise; or, should their  rationality be proved, he will not impede their improvement merely to  gratify his sensual appetites. He will not, with all the graces of  rhetoric, advise them to submit implicitly their understanding to the  guidance of man. He will not, when he treats of the education of women,  assert that they ought never to have the free use of reason, nor would  he recommend cunning and dissimulation to beings who are acquiring, in  like manner as himself, the virtues of humanity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Surely  there can be but one rule of right, if morality has an eternal  foundation, and whoever sacrifices virtue, strictly so called, to  present convenience, or whose duty it is to act in such a manner, lives  only for the passing day, and cannot be an accountable creature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The poet then should have dropped his sneer when he says, &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'If weak women go astray,&lt;br /&gt;'The stars are more in fault than they.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;     For that they are bound by the adamantine chain of destiny is most  certain, if it be proved that they are never to exercise their own  reason, never to be independent, never to rise above opinion, or to feel  the dignity of a rational will that only bows to God, and often forgets  that the universe contains any being but itself and the model of  perfection to which its ardent gaze is turned, to adore attributes that,  softened into virtues, may be imitated in kind, though the degree  overwhelms the enraptured mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If, I say, for I would not  impress by declamation when Reason offers her sober light, if they be  really capable of acting like rational creatures, let them not be  treated like slaves; or, like the brutes who are dependent on the reason  of man, when they associate with him; but cultivate their minds, give  them the salutary, sublime curb of principle, and let them attain  conscious dignity by feeling themselves only dependent on God. Teach  them, in common with man, to submit to necessity instead of giving, to  render them more pleasing, a sex to morals. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Further, should  experience prove that they cannot attain the same degree of strength of  mind, perseverance, and fortitude, let their virtues be the same in  kind, though they may vainly struggle for the same degree; and the  superiority of man will be equally clear, if not clearer; and truth, as  it is a simple principle, which admits of no modification, would be  common to both. Nay, the order of society as it is at present regulated  would not be inverted, for woman would then only have the rank that  reason assigned her, and arts could not be practised to bring the  balance even, much less to turn it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      These may be termed  Utopian dreams.-Thanks to that Being who impressed them on my soul, and  gave me sufficient strength of mind to dare to exert my own reason,  till, becoming dependent only on him for the support of my virtue, I  view, with indignation, the mistaken notions that enslave my sex. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I love man as my fellow; but his scepter, real, or usurped, extends  not to me, unless the reason of an individual demands my homage; and  even then the submission is to reason, and not to man. In fact, the  conduct of an accountable being must be regulated by the operations of  its own reason; or on what foundation rests the throne of God? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       It appears to me necessary to dwell on these obvious truths, because  females have been insulated, as it were; and, while they have been  stripped of the virtues that should clothe humanity, they have been  decked with artificial graces that enable them to exercise a short-lived  tyranny. Love, in their bosoms, taking place of every nobler passion,  their sole ambition is to be fair, to raise emotion instead of inspiring  respect; and this ignoble desire, like the servility in absolute  monarchies, destroys all strength of character. Liberty is the mother of  virtue, and if women be, by their very constitution, slaves, and not  allowed to breathe the sharp invigorating air of freedom, they must ever  languish like exotics, and be reckoned beautiful flaws in nature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       As to the argument respecting the subjection in which the sex has  ever been held, it retorts on man. The many have always been enthralled  by the few; and monsters, who scarcely have shewn any discernment of  human excellence, have tyrannized over thousands of their  fellow-creatures. Why have men of superiour endowments submitted to such  degradation? For, is it not universally acknowledged that kings, viewed  collectively, have ever been inferior, in abilities and virtue, to the  same number of men taken from the common mass of mankind-yet, have they  not, and are they not still treated with a degree of reverence that is  an insult to reason? China is not the only country where a living man  has been made a God. Men have submitted to superior strength to enjoy  with impunity the pleasure of the moment-women have only done the same,  and therefore till it is proved that the courtier, who servilely resigns  the birthright of a man, is not a moral agent, it cannot be  demonstrated that woman is essentially inferior to man because she has  always been subjugated. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Brutal force has hitherto governed  the world, and that the science of politics is in its infancy, is  evident from philosophers scrupling to give the knowledge most useful to  man that determinate distinction. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I shall not pursue this  argument any further than to establish an obvious inference, that as  sound politics diffuse liberty, mankind, including woman, will become  more wise and virtuous. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n7"&gt;[7]  Why should women be censured with petulant acrimony, because they seem  to have a passion for a scarlet coat? Has not education placed them more  on a level with soldiers than any other class of men? &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n8"&gt;[8]  Similar feelings has Milton's pleasing picture of paradisiacal  happiness ever raised in my mind; yet, instead of envying the lovely  pair, I have, with conscious dignity, or Satanic pride, turned to hell  for sublimer objects. In the same style, when viewing some noble  monument of human art, I have traced the emanation of the Deity in the  order I admired, till, descending from that giddy height, I have caught  myself contemplating the grandest of all human sights,-for fancy quickly  placed, in some solitary recess, an outcast of fortune, rising superior  to passion and discontent. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n9"&gt;[9] For example, the herd of Novelists. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n10"&gt;[10] Vide Rousseau, and Swedenborg. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 3&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;The Same Subject Continued. &lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       Bodily strength from being the distinction of heroes is now sunk into  such unmerited contempt that men, as well as women, seem to think it  unnecessary: the latter, as it takes from their feminine graces, and  from that lovely weakness the source of their undue power; and the  former, because it appears inimical to the character of a gentleman. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       That they have both by departing from one extreme run into another,  may easily be proved; but first it may be proper to observe, that a  vulgar error has obtained a degree of credit, which has given force to a  false conclusion, in which an effect has been mistaken for a cause. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       People of genius have, very frequently, impaired their constitutions  by study or careless inattention to their health, and the violence of  their passions bearing a proportion to the vigour of their intellects,  the sword's destroying the scabbard has become almost proverbial, and  superficial observers have inferred from thence, that men of genius have  commonly weak, or, to use a more fashionable phrase, delicate  constitutions. Yet the contrary, I believe, will appear to be the fact;  for, on diligent inquiry, I find that strength of mind has, in most  cases, been accompanied by superior strength of body,-natural soundness  of constitution,-not that robust tone of nerves and vigour of muscles,  which arise from bodily labour, when the mind is quiescent, or only  directs the hands. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Dr. Priestley has remarked, in the  preface to his biographical chart, that the majority of great men have  lived beyond forty-five. And, considering the thoughtless manner in  which they have lavished their strength, when investigating a favourite  science they have wasted the lamp of life, forgetful of the midnight  hour; or, when, lost in poetic dreams, fancy has peopled the scene, and  the soul has been disturbed, till it shook the constitution, by the  passions that meditation had raised; whose objects, the baseless fabric  of a vision, faded before the exhausted eye, they must have had iron  frames. Shakspeare never grasped the airy dagger with a nerveless hand,  nor did Milton tremble when he led Satan far from the confines of his  dreary prison.-These were not the ravings of imbecility, the sickly  effusions of distempered brains; but the exuberance of fancy, that 'in a  fine phrenzy' wandering, was not continually reminded of its material  shackles. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I am aware that this argument would carry me  further than it may be supposed I wish to go; but I follow truth, and,  still adhering to my first position, I will allow that bodily strength  seems to give man a natural superiority over woman; and this is the only  solid basis on which the superiority of the sex can be built. But I  still insist, that not only the virtue, but the knowledge of the two  sexes should be the same in nature, if not in degree, and that women,  considered not only as moral, but rational creatures, ought to endeavour  to acquire human virtues (or perfections) by the same means as men,  instead of being educated like a fanciful kind of half being-one of  Rousseau's wild chimeras.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n11"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;11&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      But, if strength of body be, with some shew of reason, the boast of  men, why are women so infatuated as to be proud of a defect? Rousseau  has furnished them with a plausible excuse, which could only have  occurred to a man, whose imagination had been allowed to run wild, and  refine on the impressions made by exquisite senses;-that they might,  forsooth, have a pretext for yielding to a natural appetite without  violating a romantic species of modesty, which gratifies the pride and  libertinism of man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women, deluded by these sentiments,  sometimes boast of their weakness, cunningly obtaining power by playing  on the weakness of men; and they may well glory in their illicit sway,  for, like Turkish bashaws, they have more real power than their masters:  but virtue is sacrificed to temporary gratifications, and the  respectability of life to the triumph of an hour. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women, as  well as despots, have now, perhaps, more power than they would have if  the world, divided and subdivided into kingdoms and families, were  governed by laws deduced from the exercise of reason; but in obtaining  it, to carry on the comparison, their character is degraded, and  licentiousness spread through the whole aggregate of society. The many  become pedestal to the few. I, therefore, will venture to assert, that  till women are more rationally educated, the progress of human virtue  and improvement in knowledge must receive continual checks. And if it be  granted that woman was not created merely to gratify the appetite of  man, or to be the upper servant, who provides his meals and takes care  of his linen, it must follow, that the first care of those mothers or  fathers, who really attend to the education of females, should be, if  not to strengthen the body, at least, not to destroy the constitution by  mistaken notions of beauty and female excellence; nor should girls ever  be allowed to imbibe the pernicious notion that a defect can, by any  chemical process of reasoning, become an excellence. In this respect, I  am happy to find, that the author of one of the most instructive books,  that our country has produced for children, coincides with me in  opinion; I shall quote his pertinent remarks to give the force of his  respectable authority to reason.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n12"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;12&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       But should it be proved that woman is naturally weaker than man,  whence does it follow that it is natural for her to labour to become  still weaker than nature intended her to be? Arguments of this cast are  an insult to common sense, and savour of passion. The divine right of  husbands, like the divine right of kings, may, it is to be hoped, in  this enlightened age, be contested without danger, and, though  conviction may not silence many boisterous disputants, yet, when any,  prevailing prejudice is attacked, the wise will consider, and leave the  narrow-minded to rail with thoughtless vehemence at innovation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The mother, who wishes to give true dignity of character to her  daughter, must, regardless of the sneers of ignorance, proceed on a plan  diametrically opposite to that which Rousseau has recommended with all  the deluding charms of eloquence and philosophical sophistry: for his  eloquence renders absurdities plausible, and his dogmatic conclusions  puzzle, without convincing, those who have not ability to refute them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Throughout the whole animal kingdom every young creature requires  almost continual exercise, and the infancy of children, conformable to  this intimation, should be passed in harmless gambols, that exercise the  feet and hands, without requiring very minute direction from the head,  or the constant attention of a nurse. In fact, the care necessary for  self-preservation is the first natural exercise of the understanding, as  little inventions to amuse the present moment unfold the imagination.  But these wise designs of nature are counteracted by mistaken fondness  or blind zeal. The child is not left a moment to its own direction,  particularly a girl, and thus rendered dependent-dependence is called  natural. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To preserve personal beauty, woman's glory! the  limbs and faculties are cramped with worse than Chinese bands, and the  sedentary life which they are condemned to live, whilst boys frolic in  the open air, weakens the muscles and relaxes the nerves.-As for  Rousseau's remarks, which have since been echoed by several writers,  that they have naturally, that is from their birth, independent of  education, a fondness for dolls, dressing, and talking-they are so  puerile as not to merit a serious refutation. That a girl, condemned to  sit for hours together listening to the idle chat of weak nurses, or to  attend at her mother's toilet, will endeavour to join the conversation,  is, indeed, very natural; and that she will imitate her mother or aunts,  and amuse herself by adorning her lifeless doll, as they do in dressing  her, poor innocent babe! is undoubtedly a most natural consequence. For  men of the greatest abilities have seldom had sufficient strength to  rise above the surrounding atmosphere; and, if the page of genius have  always been blurred by the prejudices of the age, some allowance should  be made for a sex, who, like kings, always see things through a false  medium. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Pursuing these reflections, the fondness for dress,  conspicuous in women, may be easily accounted for, without supposing it  the result of a desire to please the sex on which they are dependent.  The absurdity, in short, of supposing that a girl is naturally a  coquette, and that a desire connected with the impulse of nature to  propagate the species, should appear even before an improper education  has, by heating the imagination, called it forth prematurely, is so  unphilosophical, that such a sagacious observer as Rousseau would not  have adopted it, if he had not been accustomed to make reason give way  to his desire of singularity, and truth to a favourite paradox. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Yet thus to give a sex to mind was not very consistent with the  principles of a man who argued so warmly, and so well, for the  immortality of the soul.-But what a weak barrier is truth when it stands  in the way of an hypothesis! Rousseau respected-almost adored  virtue-and yet he allowed himself to love with sensual fondness. His  imagination constantly prepared inflammable fewel for his inflammable  senses; but, in order to reconcile his respect for self-denial,  fortitude, and those heroic virtues, which a mind like his could not  coolly admire, he labours to invert the law of nature, and broaches a  doctrine pregnant with mischief and derogatory to the character of  supreme wisdom. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      His ridiculous stories, which tend to prove  that girls are naturally attentive to their persons, without laying any  stress on daily example, are below contempt.-And that a little miss  should have such a correct taste as to neglect the pleasing amusement of  making O's, merely because she perceived that it was an ungraceful  attitude, should be selected with the anecdotes of the learned pig.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n13"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;13&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       I have, probably, had an opportunity of observing more girls in their  infancy than J. J. Rousseau-I can recollect my own feelings, and I have  looked steadily around me; yet, so far from coinciding with him in  opinion respecting the first dawn of the female character, I will  venture to affirm, that a girl, whose spirits have not been damped by  inactivity, or innocence tainted by false shame, will always be a romp,  and the doll will never excite attention unless confinement allows her  no alternative. Girls and boys, in short, would play harmlessly  together, if the distinction of sex was not inculcated long before  nature makes any difference.-I will go further, and affirm, as an  indisputable fact, that most of the women, in the circle of my  observation, who have acted like rational creatures, or shewn any vigour  of intellect, have accidentally been allowed to run wild-as some of the  elegant formers of the fair sex would insinuate. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The  baneful consequences which flow from inattention to health during  infancy, and youth, extend further than is supposed-dependence of body  naturally produces dependence of mind; and how can she be a good wife or  mother, the greater part of whose time is employed to guard against or  endure sickness? Nor can it be expected that a woman will resolutely  endeavour to strengthen her constitution and abstain from enervating  indulgencies, if artificial notions of beauty, and false descriptions of  sensibility, have been early entangled with her motives of action. Most  men are sometimes obliged to bear with bodily inconveniencies, and to  endure, occasionally, the inclemency of the elements; but genteel women  are, literally speaking, slaves to their bodies, and glory in their  subjection. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I once knew a weak woman of fashion, who was  more than commonly proud of her delicacy and sensibility. She thought a  distinguishing taste and puny appetite the height of all human  perfection, and acted accordingly.-I have seen this weak sophisticated  being neglect all the duties of life, yet recline with self-complacency  on a sofa, and boast of her want of appetite as a proof of delicacy that  extended to, or, perhaps, arose from, her exquisite sensibility: for it  is difficult to render intelligible such ridiculous jargon.-Yet, at the  moment, I have seen her insult a worthy old gentlewoman, whom  unexpected misfortunes had made dependent on her ostentatious bounty,  and who, in better days, had claims on her gratitude. Is it possible  that a human creature could have become such a weak and depraved being,  if, like the Sybarites, dissolved in luxury every thing like virtue had  not been worn away, or never impressed by precept, a poor substitute, it  is true, for cultivation of mind, though it serves as a fence against  vice? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Such a woman is not a more irrational monster than  some of the Roman emperors, who were depraved by lawless power. Yet,  since kings have been more under the restraint of law, and the curb,  however weak, of honour, the records of history are not filled with such  unnatural instances of folly and cruelty, nor does the despotism that  kills virtue and genius in the bud, hover over Europe with that  destructive blast which desolates Turkey, and renders the men, as well  as the soil, unfruitful. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women are every where in this  deplorable state; for, in order to preserve their innocence, as  ignorance is courteously termed, truth is hidden from them, and they are  made to assume an artificial character before their faculties have  acquired any strength. Taught from their infancy that beauty is woman's  sceptre, the mind shapes itself to the body, and, roaming round its gilt  cage, only seeks to adorn its prison. Men have various employments and  pursuits which engage their attention, and give a character to the  opening mind; but women, confined to one, and having their thoughts  constantly directed to the most insignificant part of themselves, seldom  extend their views beyond the triumph of the hour. But were their  understanding once emancipated from the slavery to which the pride and  sensuality of man and their short-sighted desire, like that of dominion  in tyrants, of present sway, has subjected them, we should probably read  of their weaknesses with surprise. I must be allowed to pursue the  argument a little farther. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Perhaps, if the existence of an  evil being were allowed, who, in the allegorical language of scripture,  went about seeking whom he should devour, he could not more effectually  degrade the human character than by giving a man absolute power. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       This argument branches into various ramifications.-Birth, riches, and  every extrinsic advantage that exalt a man above his fellows, without  any mental exertion, sink him in reality below them. In proportion to  his weakness, he is played upon by designing men, till the bloated  monster has lost all traces of humanity. And that tribes of men, like  flocks of sheep, should quietly follow such a leader, is a solecism that  only a desire of present enjoyment and narrowness of understanding can  solve. Educated in slavish dependence, and enervated by luxury and  sloth, where shall we find men who will stand forth to assert the rights  of man;-or claim the privilege of moral beings, who should have but one  road to excellence? Slavery to monarchs and ministers, which the world  will be long in freeing itself from, and whose deadly grasp stops the  progress of the human mind, is not yet abolished. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let not  men then in the pride of power, use the same arguments that tyrannic  kings and venal ministers have used, and fallaciously assert that woman  ought to be subjected because she has always been so.-But, when man,  governed by reasonable laws, enjoys his natural freedom, let him despise  woman, if she do not share it with him; and, till that glorious period  arrives, in descanting on the folly of the sex, let him not overlook his  own. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women, it is true, obtaining power by unjust means,  by practising or fostering vice, evidently lose the rank which reason  would assign them, and they become either abject slaves or capricious  tyrants. They lose all simplicity, all dignity of mind, in acquiring  power, and act as men are observed to act when they have been exalted by  the same means. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is time to effect a revolution in  female manners-time to restore to them their lost dignity-and make them,  as a part of the human species, labour by reforming themselves to  reform the world. It is time to separate unchangeable morals from local  manners.-If men be demi-gods-why let us serve them! And if the dignity  of the female soul be as disputable as that of animals-if their reason  does not afford sufficient light to direct their conduct whilst unerring  instinct is denied-they are surely of all creatures the most miserable!  and, bent beneath the iron hand of destiny, must submit to be a fair  defect in creation. But to justify the ways of Providence respecting  them, by pointing out some irrefragable reason for thus making such a  large portion of mankind accountable and not accountable, would puzzle  the subtilest casuist. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The only solid foundation for  morality appears to be the character of the supreme Being; the harmony  of which arises from a balance of attributes;-and, to speak with  reverence, one attribute seems to imply the necessity of another. He  must be just, because he is wise, he must be good, because be is  omnipotent. For to exalt one attribute at the expence of another equally  noble and necessary, bears the stamp of the warped reason of man-the  homage of passion. Man, accustomed to bow down to power in his savage  state, can seldom divest himself of this barbarous prejudice, even when  civilization determines how much superior mental is to bodily strength;  and his reason is clouded by these crude opinions, even when he thinks  of the Deity.-His omnipotence is made to swallow up, or preside over his  other attributes, and those mortals are supposed to limit his power  irreverently, who think that it must be regulated by his wisdom. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I disclaim that specious humility which, after investigating nature,  stops at the author.-The High and Lofty One, who inhabiteth eternity,  doubtless possesses many attributes of which we can form no conception;  but reason tells me that they cannot clash with those I adore-and I am  compelled to listen to her voice. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It seems natural for man  to search for excellence, and either to trace it in the object that he  worships, or blindly to invest it with perfection, as a garment. But  what good effect can the latter mode of worship have on the moral  conduct of a rational being? He bends to power; he adores a dark cloud,  which may open a bright prospect to him, or burst in angry, lawless  fury, on his devoted head he knows not why. And, supposing that the  Deity acts from the vague impulse of an undirected will, man must also  follow his own, or act according to rules, deduced from principles which  he disclaims as irreverent. Into this dilemma have both enthusiasts and  cooler thinkers fallen, when they laboured to free men from the  wholesome restraints which a just conception of the character of God  imposes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is not impious thus to scan the attributes of  the Almighty: in fact, who can avoid it that exercises his faculties?  For to love God as the fountain of wisdom, goodness, and power, appears  to be the only worship useful to a being who wishes to acquire either  virtue or knowledge. A blind unsettled affection may, like human  passions, occupy the mind and warm the heart, whilst, to do justice,  love mercy, and walk humbly with our God, is forgotten. I shall pursue  this subject still further, when I consider religion in a light opposite  to that recommended by Dr. Gregory, who treats it as a matter of  sentiment or taste. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To return from this apparent  digression. It were to be wished that women would cherish an affection  for their husbands, founded on the same principle that devotion ought to  rest upon. No other firm base is there under heaven-for let them beware  of the fallacious light of sentiment; too often used as a softer phrase  for sensuality. It follows then, I think, that from their infancy women  should either be shut up like eastern princes, or educated in such a  manner as to be able to think and act for themselves. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Why  do men halt between two opinions, and expect impossibilities? Why do  they expect virtue from a slave, from a being whom the constitution of  civil society has rendered weak, if not vicious? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Still I  know that it will require a considerable length of time to eradicate the  firmly rooted prejudices which sensualists have planted; it will also  require some time to convince women that they act contrary to their real  interest on an enlarged scale, when they cherish or affect weakness  under the name of delicacy, and to convince the world that the poisoned  source of female vices and follies, if it be necessary, in compliance  with custom, to use synonymous terms in a lax sense, has been the  sensual homage paid to beauty:-to beauty of features; for it has been  shrewdly observed by a German writer, that a pretty woman, as an object  of desire, is generally allowed to be so by men of all descriptions;  whilst a fine woman, who inspires more sublime emotions by displaying  intellectual beauty, may be overlooked or observed with indifference, by  those men who find their happiness in the gratification of their  appetites. I foresee an obvious retort-whilst man remains such an  imperfect being as he appears hitherto to have been, he will, more or  less, be the slave of his appetites; and those women obtaining most  power who gratify a predominant one, the sex is degraded by a physical,  if not by a moral necessity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This objection has, I grant,  some force; but while such a sublime precept exists, as, 'be pure as  your heavenly Father is pure;' it would seem that the virtues of man are  not limited by the Being who alone could limit them; and that be may  press forward without considering whether he steps out of his sphere by  indulging such a noble ambition. To the wild billows it has been said,  'thus far shalt thou go, and no further; and here shall thy proud waves  be stayed.' Vainly then do they beat and foam, restrained by the power  that confines the struggling planets in their orbits, matter yields to  the great governing Spirit.-But an immortal soul, not restrained by  mechanical laws and struggling to free itself from the shackles of  matter, contributes to, instead of disturbing, the order of creation,  when, co-operating with the Father of spirits, it tries to govern itself  by the invariable rule that, in a degree, before which our imagination  faints, regulates the universe. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Besides, if women be  educated for dependence; that is, to act according to the will of  another fallible being, and submit, right or wrong, to power, where are  we to stop? Are they to be considered as viceregents allowed to reign  over a small domain, and answerable for their conduct to a higher  tribunal, liable to error? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It will not be difficult to  prove that such delegates will act like men subjected by fear, and make  their children and servants endure their tyrannical oppression. As they  submit without reason, they will, having no fixed rules to square their  conduct by, be kind, or cruel, just as the whim of the moment directs;  and we ought not to wonder if sometimes, galled by their heavy yoke,  they take a malignant pleasure in resting it on weaker shoulders. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, supposing a woman, trained up to obedience, be married to a  sensible man, who directs her judgment without making her feel the  servility of her subjection, to act with as much propriety by this  reflected light as can be expected when reason is taken at second hand,  yet she cannot ensure the life of her protector; he may die and leave  her with a large family. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A double duty devolves on her; to  educate them in the character of both father and mother; to form their  principles and secure their property. But, alas! she has never thought,  much less acted for herself. She has only learned to please &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n14"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;14&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  men, to depend gracefully on them; yet, encumbered with children, how  is she to obtain another protector-a husband to supply the place of  reason? A rational man, for we are not treading on romantic ground,  though he may think her a pleasing docile creature, will not choose to  marry a family for love, when the world contains many more pretty  creatures. What is then to become of her? She either falls an easy prey  to some mean fortune-hunter, who defrauds her children of their paternal  inheritance, and renders her miserable; or becomes the victim of  discontent and blind indulgence. Unable to educate her sons, or impress  them with respect; for it is not a play on words to assert, that people  are never respected, though filling an important station, who are not  respectable; she pines under the anguish of unavailing impotent regret.  The serpent's tooth enters into her very soul, and the vices of  licentious youth bring her with sorrow, if not with poverty also, to the  grave. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;      This is not an overcharged picture; on the  contrary, it is a very possible case, and something similar must have  fallen under every attentive eye. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have, however, taken it  for granted, that she was well-disposed, though experience shews, that  the blind may as easily be led into a ditch as along the beaten road.  But supposing, no very improbable conjecture, that a being only taught  to please must still find her happiness in pleasing;-what an example of  folly, not to say vice, will she be to her innocent daughters! The  mother will be lost in the coquette, and, instead of making friends of  her daughters, view them with eyes askance, for they are rivals-rivals  more cruel than any other, because they invite a comparison, and drive  her from the throne of beauty, who has never thought of a seat on the  bench of reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It does not require a lively pencil, or  the discriminating outline of a caricature, to sketch the domestic  miseries and petty vices which such a mistress of a family diffuses.  Still she only acts as a woman ought to act, brought up according to  Rousseau's system. She can never be reproached for being masculine, or  turning out of her sphere; nay, she may observe another of his grand  rules, and, cautiously preserving her reputation free from spot, be  reckoned a good kind of woman. Yet in what respect can she be termed  good? She abstains, it is true, without any great struggle, from  committing gross crimes; but how does she fulfil her duties? Duties!-in  truth she has enough to think of to adorn her body and nurse a weak  constitution. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      With respect to religion, she never presumed  to judge for herself; but conformed, as a dependent creature should, to  the ceremonies of the church which she was brought up in, piously  believing that wiser heads than her own have settled that business:-and  not to doubt is her point of perfection. She therefore pays her tythe of  mint and cummin-and thanks her God that she is not as other women are.  These are the blessed effects of a good education! These the virtues of  man's help-mate!&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n15"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;15&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       Let fancy now present a woman with a tolerable understanding, for I  do not wish to leave the line of mediocrity, whose constitution,  strengthened by exercise, has allowed her body to acquire its full  vigour; her mind, at the same time, gradually expanding itself to  comprehend the moral duties of life, and in what human virtue and  dignity consist. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Formed thus by the discharge of the  relative duties of her station, she marries from affection, without  losing sight of prudence, and looking beyond matrimonial felicity, she  secures her husband's respect before it is necessary to exert mean arts  to please him and feed a dying flame, which nature doomed to expire when  the object became familiar, when friendship and forbearance take place  of a more ardent affection.-This is the natural death of love, and  domestic peace is not destroyed by struggles to prevent its extinction. I  also suppose the husband to be virtuous; or she is still more in want  of independent principles. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Fate, however, breaks this  tie.-She is left a widow, perhaps, without a sufficient provision; but  she is not desolate! The pang of nature is felt; but after time has  softened sorrow into melancholy resignation, her heart turns to her  children with redoubled fondness, and anxious to provide for them,  affection gives a sacred heroic cast to her maternal duties. She thinks  that not only the eye sees her virtuous efforts from whom all her  comfort now must flow, and whose approbation is life; but her  imagination, a little abstracted and exalted by grief, dwells on the  fond hope that the eyes which her trembling hand closed, may still see  how she subdues every wayward passion to fulfil the double duty of being  the father as well as the mother of her children. Raised to heroism by  misfortunes, she represses the first faint dawning of a natural  inclination, before it ripens into love, and in the bloom of life  forgets her sex-forgets the pleasure of an awakening passion, which  might again have been inspired and returned. She no longer thinks of  pleasing, and conscious dignity prevents her from priding herself on  account of the praise which her conduct demands. Her children have her  love, and her brightest hopes are beyond the grave, where her  imagination often strays. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I think I see her surrounded by  her children, reaping the reward of her care. The intelligent eye meets  hers, whilst health and innocence smile on their chubby cheeks, and as  they grow up the cares of life are lessened by their grateful attention.  She lives to see the virtues which she endeavoured to plant on  principles, fixed into habits, to see her children attain a strength of  character sufficient to enable them to endure adversity without  forgetting their mother's example. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The task of life thus  fulfilled, she calmly waits for the sleep of death, and rising from the  grave, may say-Behold, thou gavest me a talent-and here are five  talents. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I wish to sum up what I have said in a few words,  for I here throw down my gauntlet, and deny the existence of sexual  virtues, not excepting modesty. For man and woman, truth, if I  understand the meaning of the word, must be the same; yet the fanciful  female character, so prettily drawn by poets and novelists, demanding  the sacrifice of truth and sincerity, virtue becomes a relative idea,  having no other foundation than utility, and of that utility men pretend  arbitrarily to judge, shaping it to their own convenience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Women, I allow, may have different duties to fulfil; but they are human  duties, and the principles that should regulate the discharge of them, I  sturdily maintain, must be the same. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To become  respectable, the exercise of their understanding is necessary, there is  no other foundation for independence of character; I mean explicitly to  say that they must only bow to the authority of reason, instead of being  the modest slaves of opinion. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In the superior ranks of  life how seldom do we meet with a man of superior abilities, or even  common acquirements? The reason appears to me clear, the state they are  born in was an unnatural one. The human character has ever been formed  by the employments the individual, or class, pursues; and if the  faculties are not sharpened by necessity, they must remain obtuse. The  argument may fairly be extended to women; for, seldom occupied by  serious business, the pursuit of pleasure gives that insignificancy to  their character which renders the society of the great so insipid. The  same want of firmness, produced by a similar cause, forces them both to  fly from themselves to noisy pleasures, and artificial passions, till  vanity takes place of every social affection, and the characteristics of  humanity can scarcely be discerned. Such are the blessings of civil  governments, as they are at present organized, that wealth and female  softness equally tend to debase mankind, and are produced by the same  cause; but allowing women to be rational creatures, they should be  incited to acquire virtues which they may call their own, for how can a  rational being be ennobled by any thing that is not obtained by its own  exertions? &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n11"&gt;[11]&lt;br /&gt;'Researches  into abstract and speculative truths, the principles and axioms of  sciences, in short, every thing which tends to generalize our ideas, is  not the proper province of women; their studies should be relative to  points of practice; it belongs to them to apply those principles which  men have discovered; and it is their part to make observations, which  direct men to the establishment of general principles. All the ideas of  women, which have not the immediate tendency to points of duty, should  be directed to the study of men, and to the attainment of those  agreeable accomplishments which have taste for their object; for as to  works of genius, they are beyond their capacity; neither have they  sufficient precision or power of attention to succeed in sciences which  require accuracy: and as to physical knowledge, it belongs to those only  who are most active, most inquisitive; who comprehend the greatest  variety of objects: in short, it belongs to those who have the strongest  powers, and who exercise them most, to judge of the relations between  sensible beings and the laws of nature. A woman who is naturally weak,  and does not carry her ideas to any great extent, knows how to judge and  make a proper estimate of those movements which she sets to work, in  order to aid her weakness; and these movements are the passions of men.  The mechanism she employs is much more powerful than ours; for all her  levers move the human heart. She must have the skill to incline us to do  every thing which her sex will not enable her to do herself, and which  is necessary or agreeable to her; therefore she ought to study the mind  of man thoroughly, not the mind of man in general, abstractedly, but the  dispositions of those men to whom she is subject, either by the laws of  her country or by the force of opinion. She should learn to penetrate  into their real sentiments from their conversation, their actions, their  looks, and gestures. She should also have the art, by her own  conversation, actions, looks, and gestures, to communicate those  sentiments which are agreeable to them, without seeming to intend it.  Men will argue more philosophically about the human heart; but women  will read the heart of man better than they. It belongs to women, if I  may be allowed the expression, to form an experimental morality, and to  reduce the study of man to a system. Women have most wit, men have most  genius; women observe, men reason: from the concurrence of both we  derive the clearest light and the most perfect knowledge, which the  human mind is, of itself, capable of attaining. In one word, from hence  we acquire the most intimate acquaintance, both with ourselves and  others, of which our nature is capable; and it is thus that art has a  constant tendency to perfect those endowments which nature has  bestowed,-The world is the book of women.'-Rousseau's Emilius.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  I hope my readers still remember the comparison, which I have brought forward, between women and officers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n12"&gt;[12]&lt;br /&gt; 'A respectable old man gives the following sensible account of the  method he pursued when educating his daughter. "I endeavoured to give  both to her mind and body a degree of vigour, which is seldom found in  the female sex. As soon as she was sufficiently advanced in strength to  be capable of the lighter labours of husbandry and gardening, I employed  her as my constant companion. Selene, for that was her name, soon  acquired a dexterity in all these rustic employments, which I considered  with equal pleasure and admiration. If women are in general feeble both  in body and mind, it arises less from nature than from education. We  encourage a vicious indolence and inactivity, which we falsely call  delicacy; instead of hardening their minds by the severer principles of  reason and philosophy, we breed them to useless arts, which terminate in  vanity and sensuality. In most of the countries which I had visited,  they are taught nothing of an higher nature than a few modulations of  the voice, or useless postures of the body; their time is consumed in  sloth or trifles, and trifles become the only pursuits capable of  interesting them. We seem to forget, that it is upon the qualities of  the female sex that our own domestic comforts and the education of our  children must depend. And what are the comforts or the education which a  race of beings, corrupted from their infancy, and unacquainted with all  the duties of life are fitted to bestow? To touch a musical instrument  with useless skill, to exhibit their natural or affected graces to the  eyes of indolent and debauched young men, to dissipate their husband's  patrimony in riotous and unnecessary expences, these are the only arts  cultivated by women in most of the polished nations I had seen. And the  consequences are uniformly such as may be expected to proceed from such  polluted sources, private misery and public servitude.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  '"But  Selene's education was regulated by different views, and conducted upon  severer principles; if that can be called severity which opens the mind  to a sense of moral and religious duties, and most effectually arms it  against the inevitable evils of life."' Mr. Day's Sandford and Merton,  Vol. III.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n13"&gt;[13] 'I once knew a young  person who learned to write before she learned to read, and began to  write with her needle before she could use a pen. At first, indeed, she  took it into her head to make no other letter than the O: this letter  she was constantly making of all sizes, and always the wrong way.  Unluckily, one day, as she was intent on this employment, she happened  to see herself in the looking-glass; when, taking a dislike to the  constrained attitude in which she sat while writing, she threw away her  pen, like another Pallas, and determined against making the O any more.  Her brother was also equally adverse to writing: it was the confinement,  however, and not the constrained attitude, that most disgusted  him.'-Rousseau's Emilius. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n14"&gt;[14]&lt;br /&gt;'In the  union of the sexes, both pursue one common object, but not in the same  manner. From their diversity in this particular, arises the first  determinate difference between the moral relations of each. The one  should be active and strong, the other passive and weak: it is necessary  the one should have both the power and the will, and that the other  should make little resistance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  'This principle being  established, it follows that woman is expressly formed to please the  man: if the obligation be reciprocal also, and the man ought to please  in his turn, it is not so immediately necessary: his great merit is in  his power, and he pleases merely because he is strong. This, I must  confess, is not one of the refined maxims of love; it is, however, one  of the laws of nature, prior to love itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  'If woman be  formed to please and be subjected to man, it is her place, doubtless, to  render herself agreeable to him, instead of challenging his passion,  The violence of his desires depends on her charms; it is by means of  these she should urge him to the exertion of those powers which nature  hath given him. The most successful method of exciting them, is, to  render such exertion necessary by resistance; as, in that case,  self-love is added to desire, and the one triumphs in the victory which  the other obliged to acquire. Hence arise the various modes of attack  and defence between the sexes; the boldness of one sex and the timidity  of the other; and, in a word, that bashfulness and modesty with which  nature hath armed the weak, in order to subdue the strong.'-Rousseau's  Emilius.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  I shall make no other comment on this ingenious passage, than just to observe, that it is the philosophy of lasciviousness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n15"&gt;[15]&lt;br /&gt; 'O how lovely,' exclaims Rousseau, speaking of Sophia, 'is her  ignorance! Happy is he who is destined to instruct her! She will never  pretend to be the tutor of her husband, but will be content to be his  pupil. Far from attempting to subject him to her taste, she will  accommodate herself to his. She will be more estimable to him, than if  she was learned: he will have a pleasure in instructing her.'-Rousseau's  Emilius.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  I shall content myself with simply asking, how friendship can subsist, when love expires, between the master and his pupil?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  I must relieve myself by drawing a different picture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 4&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Observations on the State of Degradation to Which&lt;br /&gt;Woman Is Reduced by Various Causes.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       That woman is naturally weak, or degraded by a concurrence of  circumstances, is, I think, clear. But this position I shall simply  contrast with a conclusion, which I have frequently heard fall from  sensible men in favour of an aristocracy: that the mass of mankind  cannot be anything, or the obsequious slaves, who patiently allow  themselves to be driven forward, would feel their own consequence, and  spurn their chains. Men, they further observe, submit every where to  oppression, when they have only to lift up their heads to throw off the  yoke; yet, instead of asserting their birthright, they quietly lick the  dust, and say, let us eat and drink, for to-morrow we die. Women, I  argue from analogy, are degraded by the same propensity to enjoy the  present moment; and, at last, despise the freedom which they have not  sufficient virtue to struggle to attain. But I must be more explicit. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       With respect to the culture of the heart, it is unanimously allowed  that sex is out of the question; but the line of subordination in the  mental powers is never to be passed over. &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n16"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;16&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Only 'absolute in loveliness,' the portion of rationality granted to  woman, is, indeed, very scanty; for, denying her genius and judgment, it  is scarcely possible to divine what remains to characterize intellect. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;       The stamen of immortality, if I may be allowed the phrase, is the  perfectibility of human reason; for, were man created perfect, or did a  flood of knowledge break in upon him, when he arrived at maturity, that  precluded error, I should doubt whether his existence would be continued  after the dissolution of the body. But, in the present state of things,  every difficulty in morals that escapes from human discussion, and  equally baffles the investigation of profound thinking, and the  lightning glance of genius, is an argument on which I build my belief of  the immortality of the soul. Reason is, consequentially, the simple  power of improvement; or, more properly speaking, of discerning truth.  Every individual is in this respect a world in itself. More or less may  be conspicuous in one being than another; but the nature of reason must  be the same in all, if it be an emanation of divinity, the tie that  connects the creature with the Creator; for, can that soul be stamped  with the heavenly image, that is not perfected by the exercise of its  own reason? &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n17"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;17&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Yet outwardly ornamented with elaborate care, and so adorned to delight man, 'that with honour he may love,'&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n18"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;18&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  the soul of woman is not allowed to have this distinction, and man,  ever placed between her and reason, she is always represented as only  created to see through a gross medium, and to take things on trust. But  dismissing these fanciful theories, and considering woman as a whole,  let it be what it will, instead of a part of man, the inquiry is whether  she have reason or not. If she have, which, for a moment, I will take  for granted, she was not created merely to be the solace of man, and the  sexual should not destroy the human character. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      Into  this error men have, probably, been led by viewing education in a false  light; not considering it as the first step to form a being advancing  gradually towards perfection;&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n19"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;19&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  but only as a preparation for life. On this sensual error, for I must  call it so, has the false system of female manners been reared, which  robs the whole sex of its dignity, and classes the brown and fair with  the smiling flowers that only adorn the land. This has ever been the  language of men, and the fear of departing from a supposed sexual  character, has made even women of superiour sense adopt the same  sentiments.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n20"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;20&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Thus understanding, strictly speaking, has been denied to woman; and  instinct, sublimated into wit and cunning, for the purposes of life, has  been substituted in its stead. &lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p&gt;      The power of  generalizing ideas, of drawing comprehensive conclusions from individual  observations, is the only acquirement, for an immortal being, that  really deserves the name of knowledge. Merely to observe, without  endeavouring to account for any thing, may (in a very incomplete manner)  serve as the common sense of life; but where is the store laid up that  is to clothe the soul when it leaves the body? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This power  has not only been denied to women; but writers have insisted that it is  inconsistent, with a few exceptions, with their sexual character. Let  men prove this, and I shall grant that woman only exists for man. I  must, however, previously remark, that the power of generalizing ideas,  to any great extent, is not very common amongst men or women. But this  exercise is the true cultivation of the understanding; and every thing  conspires to render the cultivation of the understanding more difficult  in the female than the male world. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I am naturally led by  this assertion to the main subject of the present chapter, and shall now  attempt to point out some of the causes that degrade the sex, and  prevent women from generalizing their observations. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I shall  not go back to the remote annals of antiquity to trace the history of  woman; it is sufficient to allow that she has always been either a  slave, or a despot, and to remark, that each of these situations equally  retards the progress of reason. The grand source of female folly and  vice has ever appeared to me to arise from narrowness of mind; and the  very constitution of civil governments has put almost insuperable  obstacles in the way to prevent the cultivation of the female  understanding:-yet virtue can be built on no other foundation! The same  obstacles are thrown in the way of the rich, and the same consequences  ensue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Necessity has been proverbially termed the mother of  invention-the aphorism may be extended to virtue. It is an acquirement,  and an acquirement to which pleasure must be sacrificed-and who  sacrifices pleasure when it is within the grasp, whose mind has not been  opened and strengthened by adversity, or the pursuit of knowledge  goaded on by necessity?-Happy is it when people have the cares of life  to struggle with; for these struggles prevent their becoming a prey to  enervating vices, merely from idleness! But, if from their birth men and  women be placed in a torrid zone, with the meridian sun of pleasure  darting directly upon them, how can they sufficiently brace their minds  to discharge the duties of life, or even to relish the affections that  carry them out of themselves? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Pleasure is the business of  woman's life, according to the present modification of society, and  while it continues to be so, little can be expected from such weak  beings. Inheriting, in a lineal descent from the first fair defect in  nature, the sovereignty of beauty, they have, to maintain their power,  resigned the natural rights, which the exercise of reason might have  procured them, and chosen rather to be short-lived queens than labour to  obtain the sober pleasures that arise from equality. Exalted by their  inferiority (this sounds like a contradiction), they constantly demand  homage as women, though experience should teach them that the men who  pride themselves upon paying this arbitrary insolent respect to the sex,  with the most scrupulous exactness, are most inclined to tyrannize  over, and despise, the very weakness they cherish. Often do they repeat  Mr. Hume's sentiments; when, comparing the French and Athenian  character, he alludes to women. 'But what is more singular in this  whimsical nation, say I to the Athenians, is, that a frolick of yours  during the Saturnalia, when the slaves are served by their masters, is  seriously continued by them through the whole year, and through the  whole course and through the whole course of their lives; accompanied  too with some circumstances, which still further augment the absurdity  and ridicule. Your sport only elevates for a few days those whom fortune  has thrown down, and whom she too, in sport, may really elevate for  ever above you. But this nation gravely exalts those, whom nature has  subjected to them, and whose inferiority and infirmities are absolutely  incurable. The women, though without virtue, are their masters and  sovereigns.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Ah! why do women, I write with affectionate  solicitude, condescend to receive a degree of attention and respect from  strangers, different from that reciprocation of civility which the  dictates of humanity and the politeness of civilization authorise  between man and man? And, why do they not discover, when 'in the noon of  beauty's power,' that they are treated like queens only to be deluded  by hollow respect, till they are led to resign, or not assume, their  natural prerogatives? Confined then in cages like the feathered race,  they have nothing to do but to plume themselves, and stalk with mock  majesty from perch to perch. It is true they are provided with food and  raiment, for which they neither toil nor spin; but health, liberty, and  virtue, are given in exchange. But, where, amongst mankind, has been  found sufficient strength of mind to enable a being to resign these  adventitious prerogatives; one who, rising with the calm dignity of  reason above opinion, dared to be proud of the privileges inherent in  man? And it is vain to expect it whilst hereditary power chokes the  affections and nips reason in the bud. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The passions of men  have thus placed women on thrones, and, till mankind become more  reasonable, it is to be feared that women will avail themselves of the  power which they attain with the least exertion, and which is the most  indisputable. They will smile,-yes, they will smile, though told that-&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'In beauty's empire is no mean,&lt;br /&gt;'And woman, either slave or queen,&lt;br /&gt;'Is quickly scorn'd when not ador'd.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;    But the adoration comes first, and the scorn is not anticipated. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Lewis the XIVth, in particular, spread factitious manners, and  caught, in a specious way, the whole nation in his toils; for,  establishing an artful chain of despotism, he made it the interest of  the people at large, individually to respect his station and support his  power. And women, whom he flattered by a puerile attention to the whole  sex, obtained in his reign that prince-like distinction so fatal to  reason and virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A king is always a king-and a woman always a woman:&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n21"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;21&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  his authority and her sex, ever stand between them and rational  converse. With a lover, I grant, she should be so, and her sensibility  will naturally lead her to endeavour to excite emotion, not to gratify  her vanity, but her heart. This I do not allow to be coquetry, it is the  artless impulse of nature, I only exclaim against the sexual desire of  conquest when the heart is out of the question. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;      This  desire is not confined to women; 'I have endeavoured,' says Lord  Chesterfield, 'to gain the hearts of twenty women, whose persons I would  not have given a fig for.' The libertine, who, in a gust of passion,  takes advantage of unsuspecting tenderness, is a saint when compared  with this cold-hearted rascal; for I like to use significant words. Yet  only taught to please, women are always on the watch to please, and with  true heroic ardour endeavour to gain hearts merely to resign or spurn  them, when the victory is decided, and conspicuous. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I must descend to the minutiae of the subject. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I lament that women are systematically degraded by receiving the  trivial attentions, which men think it manly to pay to the sex, when, in  fact, they are insultingly supporting their own superiority. It is not  condescension to bow to an inferior. So ludicrous, in fact, do these  ceremonies appear to me, that I scarcely am able to govern my muscles,  when I see a man start with eager, and serious solicitude, to lift a  handkerchief, or shut a door, when the lady could have done it herself,  had she only moved a pace or two. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A wild wish has just  flown from my heart to my head, and I will not stifle it though it may  excite a horse-laugh.-I do earnestly wish to see the distinction of sex  confounded in society, unless where love animates the behaviour. For  this distinction is, I am firmly persuaded, the foundation of the  weakness of character ascribed to woman; is the cause why the  understanding is neglected, whilst accomplishments are acquired with  sedulous care: and the same cause accounts for their preferring the  graceful before the heroic virtues. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Mankind, including  every description, wish to be loved and respected by something; and the  common herd will always take the nearest road to the completion of their  wishes. The respect paid to wealth and beauty is the most certain, and  unequivocal; and, of course, will always attract the vulgar eye of  common minds. Abilities and virtues are absolutely necessary to raise  men from the middle rank of life into notice; and the natural  consequence is notorious, the middle rank contains most virtue and  abilities. Men have thus, in one station, at least an opportunity of  exerting themselves with dignity, and of rising by the exertions which  really improve a rational creature; but the whole female sex are, till  their character is formed, in the same condition as the rich: for they  are born, I now speak of a state of civilization, with certain sexual  privileges, and whilst they are gratuitously granted them, few will ever  think of works of supererogation, to obtain the esteem of a small  number of superiour people. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When do we hear of women who,  starting out of obscurity, boldly claim respect on account of their  great abilities or daring virtues? Where are they to be found?-'To be  observed, to be attended to, to be taken notice of with sympathy,  complacency, and approbation, are all the advantages which they  seek.'-True! my male readers will probably exclaim; but let them, before  they draw any conclusion, recollect that this was not written  originally as descriptive of women, but of the rich. In Dr. Smith's  Theory of Moral Sentiments, I have found a general character of people  of rank and fortune, that, in my opinion, might with the greatest  propriety be applied to the female sex. I refer the sagacious reader to  the whole comparison; but must be allowed to quote a passage to enforce  an argument that I mean to insist on, as the one most conclusive against  a sexual character. For if, excepting warriors, no great men, of any  denomination, have ever appeared amongst the nobility, may it not be  fairly inferred that their local situation swallowed up the man, and  produced a character similar to that of women, who are localized, if I  may be allowed the word, by the rank they are placed in, by courtesy?  Women, commonly called Ladies, are not to be contradicted in company,  are not allowed to exert any manual strength; and from them the negative  virtues only are expected, when any virtues are expected, patience,  docility, good-humour, and flexibility; virtues incompatible with any  vigorous exertion of intellect. Besides, by living more with each other,  and being seldom absolutely alone, they are more under the influence of  sentiments than passions. Solitude and reflection are necessary to give  to wishes the force of passions, and to enable the imagination to  enlarge the object, and make it the most desirable. The same may be said  of the rich; they do not sufficiently deal in general ideas, collected  by impassioned thinking, or calm investigation, to acquire that strength  of character on which great resolves are built. But hear what an acute  observer says of the great. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Do the great seem insensible  of the easy price at which they may acquire the publick admiration; or  do they seem to imagine that to them, as to other men, it must be the  purchase either of sweat or of blood? By what important accomplishments  is the young nobleman instructed to support the dignity of his rank, and  to render himself worthy of that superiority over his fellow-citizens,  to which the virtue of his ancestors had raised them? Is it by  knowledge, by industry, by patience, by self-denial, or by virtue of any  kind? As all his words, as all his motions are attended to, he learns  an habitual regard to every circumstance of ordinary behaviour, and  studies to perform all those small duties with the most exact propriety.  As he is conscious how much he is observed, and how much mankind are  disposed to favour all his inclinations, he acts, upon the most  indifferent occasions, with that freedom and elevation which the thought  of this naturally inspires. His air, his manner, his deportment, all  mark that elegant and graceful sense of his own superiority, which those  who are born to inferior station can hardly ever arrive at. These are  the arts by which he proposes to make mankind more easily submit to his  authority, and to govern their inclinations according to his own  pleasure: and in this he is seldom disappointed. These arts, supported  by rank and pre-eminence, are, upon ordinary occasions, sufficient to  govern the world. Lewis XIV during the greater part of his reign, was  regarded, not only in France, but over all Europe, as the most perfect  model of a great prince. But what were the talents and virtues by which  he acquired this great reputation? Was it by the scrupulous and  inflexible justice of all his undertakings, by the immense dangers and  difficulties with which they were attended, or by the unwearied and  unrelenting application with which he pursued them? Was it by his  extensive knowledge, by his exquisite judgment, or by his heroic valour?  It was by none of these qualities. But he was, first of all, the most  powerful prince in Europe, and consequently held the highest rank among  kings; and then, says his historian, "he surpassed all his courtiers in  the gracefulness of his shape, and the majestic beauty of his features.  The sound of his voice, noble and affecting, gained those hearts which  his presence intimidated. He had a step and a deportment which could  suit only him and his rank, and which would have been ridiculous in any  other person. The embarrassment which he occasioned to those who spoke  to him, flattered that secret satisfaction with which he felt his own  superiority." These frivolous accomplishments, supported by his rank,  and, no doubt too, by a degree of other talents and virtues, which  seems, however, not to have been much above mediocrity, established this  prince in the esteem of his own age, and have drawn, even from  posterity, a good deal of respect for his memory. Compared with these,  in his own times, and in his own presence, no other virtue, it seems,  appeared to have any merit. Knowledge, industry, valour, and  beneficence, trembled, were abashed, and lost all dignity before them.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Woman also thus 'in herself complete,' by possessing all these frivolous accomplishments, so changes the nature of things &lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt;-'That what she wills to do or say&lt;br /&gt;'Seems wisest, virtuousest, discreetest, best;&lt;br /&gt;'All higher knowledge in her presence falls&lt;br /&gt;'Degraded. Wisdom in discourse with her&lt;br /&gt;'Loses discountenanc'd, and, like Folly, shows;&lt;br /&gt;'Authority and Reason on her wait.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;    And all this is built on her loveliness! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       In the middle rank of life, to continue the comparison, men, in their  youth, are prepared for professions, and marriage is not considered as  the grand feature in their lives; whilst women, on the contrary, have no  other scheme to sharpen their faculties. It is not business, extensive  plans, or any of the excursive flights of ambition, that engross their  attention; no, their thoughts are not employed in rearing such noble  structures. To rise in the world, and have the liberty of running from  pleasure to pleasure, they must marry advantageously, and to this object  their time is sacrificed, and their persons often legally prostituted. A  man when he enters any profession has his eye steadily fixed on some  future advantage (and the mind gains great strength by having all its  efforts directed to one point), and, full of his business, pleasure is  considered as mere relaxation; whilst women seek for pleasure as the  main purpose of existence. In fact, from the education, which they  receive from society, the love of pleasure may be said to govern them  all; but does this prove that there is a sex in souls? It would be just  as rational to declare that the courtiers in France, when a destructive  system of despotism had formed their character, were not men, because  liberty, virtue, and humanity, were sacrificed to pleasure and  vanity.-Fatal passions, which have ever domineered over the whole race! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The same love of pleasure, fostered by the whole tendency of their  education, gives a trifling turn to the conduct of women in most  circumstances: for instance, they are ever anxious about secondary  things; and on the watch for adventures, instead of being occupied by  duties. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A man, when he undertakes a journey, has, in  general, the end in view; a woman thinks more of the incidental  occurrences, the strange things that may possibly occur on the road; the  impression that she may make on her fellow-travellers; and, above all,  she is anxiously intent on the care of the finery that she carries with  her, which is more than ever a part of herself, when going to figure on a  new scene; when, to use an apt French turn of expression, she is going  to produce a sensation.-Can dignity of mind exist with such trivial  cares? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In short, women, in general, as well as the rich of  both sexes, have acquired all the follies and vices of civilization, and  missed the useful fruit. It is not necessary for me always to premise,  that I speak of the condition of the whole sex, leaving exceptions out  of the question. Their senses are inflamed, and their understandings  neglected, consequently they become the prey of their senses, delicately  termed sensibility and are blown about by every momentary gust of  feeling. Civilized women are, therefore, so weakened by false  refinement, that, respecting morals, their condition is much below what  it would be were they left in a state nearer to nature. Ever restless  and anxious, their over exercised sensibility not only renders them  uncomfortable themselves, but troublesome, to use a soft phrase, to  others. All their thoughts turn on things calculated to excite emotion;  and feeling, when they should reason, their conduct is unstable, and  their opinions are wavering-not the wavering produced by deliberation or  progressive views, but by contradictory emotions. By fits and starts  they are warm in many pursuits; yet this warmth, never concentrated into  perseverance, soon exhausts itself; exhaled by its own heat, or meeting  with some other fleeting passion, to which reason has never given any  specific gravity, neutrality ensues. Miserable, indeed, must be that  being whose cultivation of mind has only tended to inflame its passions!  A distinction should be made between inflaming and strengthening them.  The passions thus pampered, whilst the judgment is left unformed, what  can be expected to ensue?-Undoubtedly, a mixture of madness and folly! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This observation should not be confined to the fair sex; however, at present, I only mean to apply it to them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Novels, music, poetry, and gallantry, all tend to make women the  creatures of sensation, and their character is thus formed in the mould  of folly during the time they are acquiring accomplishments, the only  improvement they are excited, by their station in society, to acquire.  This overstretched sensibility naturally relaxes the other powers of the  mind, and prevents intellect from attaining that sovereignty which it  ought to attain to render a rational creature useful to others, and  content with its own station: for the exercise of the understanding, as  life advances, is the only method pointed out by nature to calm the  passions. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Satiety has a very different effect, and I have  often been forcibly struck by an emphatical description of  damnation:-when the spirit is represented as continually hovering with  abortive eagerness round the defiled body, unable to enjoy any thing  without the organs of sense. Yet, to their senses, are women made  slaves, because it is by their sensibility that they obtain present  power. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      And will moralists pretend to assert, that this is  the condition in which one half of the human race should be encouraged  to remain with listless inactivity and stupid acquiescence? Kind  instructors! what were we created for? To remain, it may be said,  innocent; they mean in a state of childhood.-We might as well never have  been born, unless it were necessary that we should be created to enable  man to acquire the noble privilege of reason, the power of discerning  good from evil, whilst we lie down in the dust from whence we were  taken, never to rise again.-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It would be an endless task to  trace the variety of meannesses, cares, and sorrows, into which women  are plunged by the prevailing opinion, that they were created rather to  feel than reason, and that all the power they obtain, must be obtained  by their charms and weakness: &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'Fine by defect, and amiably weak!' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;     And, made by this amiable weakness entirely dependent, excepting what  they gain by illicit sway, on man, not only for protection, but advice,  is it surprising that, neglecting the duties that reason alone points  out, and shrinking from trials calculated to strengthen their minds,  they only exert themselves to give their defects a graceful covering,  which may serve to heighten their charms in the eye of the voluptuary,  though it sink them below the scale of moral excellence? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Fragile in every sense of the word, they are obliged to look up to man  for every comfort. In the most trifling dangers they cling to their  support, with parasitical tenacity, piteously demanding succour; and  their natural protector extends his arm, or lifts up his voice, to guard  the lovely trembler-from what? Perhaps the frown of an old cow, or the  jump of a mouse; a rat, would be a serious danger. In the name of  reason, and even common sense, what can save such beings from contempt;  even though they be soft and fair? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      These fears, when not  affected, may produce some pretty attitudes; but they shew a degree of  imbecility which degrades a rational creature in a way women are not  aware of-for love and esteem are very distinct things. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I am  fully persuaded that we should hear of none of these infantine airs, if  girls were allowed to take sufficient exercise, and not confined in  close rooms till their muscles are relaxed, and their powers of  digestion destroyed. To carry the remark still further, if fear in  girls, instead of being cherished, perhaps, created, were treated in the  same manner as cowardice in boys, we should quickly see women with more  dignified aspects. It is true, they could not then with equal propriety  be termed the sweet flowers that smile in the walk of man; but they  would be more respectable members of society, and discharge the  important duties of life by the light of their own reason. 'Educate  women like men,' says Rousseau, 'and the more they resemble our sex the  less power will they have over us.' This is the very point I aim at. I  do not wish them to have power over men; but over themselves. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       In the same strain have I heard men argue against instructing the  poor; for many are the forms that aristocracy assumes. 'Teach them to  read and write,' say they, 'and you take them out of the station  assigned them by nature.' An eloquent Frenchman has answered them, I  will borrow his sentiments. But they know not, when they make man a  brute, that they may expect every instant to see him transformed into a  ferocious beast. Without knowledge there can be no morality! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Ignorance is a frail base for virtue! Yet, that it is the condition  for which woman was organized, has been insisted upon by the writers who  have most vehemently argued in favour of the superiority of man; a  superiority not in degree, but essence; though, to soften the argument,  they have laboured to prove, with chivalrous generosity, that the sexes  ought not to be compared; man was made to reason, woman to feel: and  that together, flesh and spirit, they make the most perfect whole, by  blending happily reason and sensibility into one character. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       And what is sensibility? 'Quickness of sensation; quickness of  perception; delicacy.' Thus is it defined by Dr. Johnson; and the  definition gives me no other idea than of the most exquisitely polished  instinct. I discern not a trace of the image of God in either sensation  or matter. Refined seventy times seven, they are still material;  intellect dwells not there; nor will fire ever make lead gold! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I come round to my old argument; if woman be allowed to have an  immortal soul, she must have, as the employment of life, an  understanding to improve. And when, to render the present state more  complete, though every thing proves it to be but a fraction of a mighty  sum, she is incited by present gratification to forget her grand  destination, nature is counteracted, or she was born only to procreate  and rot. Or, granting brutes, of every description, a soul, though not a  reasonable one, the exercise of instinct and sensibility may be the  step, which they are to take, in this life, towards the attainment of  reason in the next; so that through all eternity they will lag behind  man, who, why we cannot tell, had the power given him of attaining  reason in his first mode of existence. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When I treat of the  peculiar duties of women, as I should treat of the peculiar duties of a  citizen or father, it will be found that I do not mean to insinuate that  they should be taken out of their families, speaking of the majority.  'He that hath wife and children,' says Lord Bacon, 'hath given hostages  to fortune; for they are impediments to great enterprises, either of  virtue or mischief. Certainly the best works, and of greatest merit for  the public, have proceeded from the unmarried or childless men.' I say  the same of women. But, the welfare of society is not built on  extraordinary exertions; and were it more reasonably organized, there  would be still less need of great abilities, or heroic virtues. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       In the regulation of a family, in the education of children,  understanding, in an unsophisticated sense, is particularly required:  strength both of body and mind; yet the men who, by their writings, have  most earnestly laboured to domesticate women, have endeavoured, by  arguments dictated by a gross appetite, which satiety had rendered  fastidious, to weaken their bodies and cramp their minds. But, if even  by these sinister methods they really persuaded women, by working on  their feelings, to stay at home, and fulfil the duties of a mother and  mistress of a family, I should cautiously oppose opinions that led women  to right conduct, by prevailing on them to make the discharge of such  important duties the main business of life, though reason were insulted.  Yet, and I appeal to experience, if by neglecting the understanding  they be as much, nay, more detached from these domestic employments,  than they could be by the most serious intellectual pursuit, though it  may be observed, that the mass of mankind will never vigorously pursue  an intellectual object,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n22"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;22&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  I may be allowed to infer that reason is absolutely necessary to enable  a woman to perform any duty properly, and I must again repeat, that  sensibility is not reason. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      The comparison with the rich  still occurs to me; for, when men neglect the duties of humanity, women  will follow their example; a common stream hurries them both along with  thoughtless celerity. Riches and honours prevent a man from enlarging  his understanding, and enervate all his powers by reversing the order of  nature, which has ever made true pleasure the reward of labour.  Pleasure-enervating pleasure is, likewise, within women's reach without  earning it. But, till hereditary possessions are spread abroad, how can  we expect men to be proud of virtue? And, till they are, women will  govern them by the most direct means, neglecting their dull domestic  duties to catch the pleasure that sits lightly on the wing of time. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'The power of the woman,' says some author, 'is her sensibility;' and  men, not aware of the consequence, do all they can to make this power  swallow up every other. Those who constantly employ their sensibility  will have most: for example; poets, painters, and composers.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n23"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;23&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Yet, when the sensibility is thus increased at the expence of reason,  and even the imagination, why do philosophical men complain of their  fickleness? The sexual attention of man particularly acts on female  sensibility, and this sympathy has been exercised from their youth up. A  husband cannot long pay those attentions with the passion necessary to  excite lively emotions, and the heart, accustomed to lively emotions,  turns to a new lover, or pines in secret, the prey of virtue or  prudence. I mean when the heart has really been rendered susceptible,  and the taste formed; for I am apt to conclude, from what I have seen in  fashionable life, that vanity is oftener fostered than sensibility by  the mode of education, and the intercourse between the sexes, which I  have reprobated; and that coquetry more frequently proceeds from vanity  than from that inconstancy, which overstrained sensibility naturally  produces. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      Another argument that has had great weight  with me, must, I think, have some force with every considerate  benevolent heart. Girls who have been thus weakly educated, are often  cruelly left by their parents without any provision; and, of course, are  dependent on, not only the reason, but the bounty of their brothers.  These brothers are, to view the fairest side of the question, good sort  of men, and give as a favour, what children of the same parents had an  equal right to. In this equivocal humiliating situation, a docile female  may remain some time, with a tolerable degree of comfort. But, when the  brother marries, a probable circumstance, from being considered as the  mistress of the family, she is viewed with averted looks as an intruder,  an unnecessary burden on the benevolence of the master of the house,  and his new partner. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Who can recount the misery, which many  unfortunate beings, whose minds and bodies are equally weak, suffer in  such situations-unable to work, and ashamed to beg? The wife, a  cold-hearted, narrow-minded, woman, and this is not an unfair  supposition; for the present mode of education does not tend to enlarge  the heart any more than the understanding, is jealous of the little  kindness which her husband shews to his relations; and her sensibility  not rising to humanity, she is displeased at seeing the property of her  children lavished on an helpless sister. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      These are matters  of fact, which have come under my eye again and again. The consequence  is obvious, the wife has recourse to cunning to undermine the habitual  affection, which she is afraid openly to oppose; and neither tears nor  caresses are spared till the spy is worked out of her home, and thrown  on the world, unprepared for its difficulties; or sent, as a great  effort of generosity, or from some regard to propriety, with a small  stipend, and an uncultivated mind, into joyless solitude. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       These two women may be much upon a par, with respect to reason and  humanity; and changing situations, might have acted just the same  selfish part; but had they been differently educated, the case would  also have been very different. The wife would not have had that  sensibility, of which self is the centre, and reason might have taught  her not to expect, and not even to be flattered by, the affection of her  husband, if it led him to violate prior duties. She would wish not to  love him merely because he loved her, but on account of his virtues; and  the sister might have been able to struggle for herself instead of  eating the bitter bread of dependence. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I am, indeed,  persuaded that the heart, as well as the understanding, is opened by  cultivation; and by, which may not appear so clear, strengthening the  organs; I am not now talking of momentary flashes of sensibility, but of  affections. And, perhaps, in the education of both sexes, the most  difficult task is so to adjust instruction as not to narrow the  understanding, whilst the heart is warmed by the generous juices of  spring, just raised by the electric fermentation of the season; nor to  dry up the feelings by employing the mind in investigations remote from  life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      With respect to women, when they receive a careful  education, they are either made fine ladies, brimful of sensibility, and  teeming with capricious fancies; or mere notable women. The latter are  often friendly, honest creatures, and have a shrewd kind of good sense  joined with worldly prudence, that often render them more useful members  of society than the fine sentimental lady, though they possess neither  greatness of mind nor taste. The intellectual world is shut against  them; take them out of their family or neighbourhood, and they stand  still; the mind finding no employment, for literature affords a fund of  amusement which they have never sought to relish, but frequently to  despise. The sentiments and taste of more cultivated minds appear  ridiculous, even in those whom chance and family connections have led  them to love; but in mere acquaintance they think it all affectation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       A man of sense can only love such a woman on account of her sex, and  respect her, because she is a trusty servant. He lets her, to preserve  his own peace, scold the servants, and go to church in clothes made of  the very best materials. A man of her own size of understanding would,  probably, not agree so well with her; for he might wish to encroach on  her prerogative, and manage some domestic concerns himself. Yet women,  whose minds are not enlarged by cultivation, or the natural selfishness  of sensibility expanded by reflection, are very unfit to manage a  family; for, by an undue stretch of power, they are always tyrannizing  to support a superiority that only rests on the arbitrary distinction of  fortune. The evil is sometimes more serious, and domestics are deprived  of innocent indulgences, and made to work beyond their strength, in  order to enable the notable woman to keep a better table, and outshine  her neighbours in finery and parade. If she attend to her children, it  is, in general, to dress them in a costly manner-and, whether this  attention arise from vanity or fondness, it is equally pernicious. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, how many women of this description pass their days; or, at  least, their evenings, discontentedly. Their husbands acknowledge that  they are good managers, and chaste wives; but leave home to seek for  more agreeable, may I be allowed to use a significant French word,  piquant society; and the patient drudge, who fulfils her task, like a  blind horse in a mill, is defrauded of her just reward; for the wages  due to her are the caresses of her husband; and women who have so few  resources in themselves, do not very patiently bear this privation of a  natural right. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A fine lady, on the contrary, has been  taught to look down with contempt on the vulgar employments of life;  though she has only been incited to acquire accomplishments that rise a  degree above sense; for even corporeal accomplishments cannot be  acquired with any degree of precision unless the understanding has been  strengthened by exercise. Without a foundation of principles taste is  superficial, grace must arise from something deeper than imitation. The  imagination, however, is heated, and the feelings rendered fastidious,  if not sophisticated; or, a counterpoise of judgment is not acquired,  when the heart still remains artless, though it becomes too tender. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       These women are often amiable; and their hearts are really more  sensible to general benevolence, more alive to the sentiments that  civilize life, than the square-elbowed family drudge; but, wanting a due  proportion of reflection and self-government, they only inspire love;  and are the mistresses of their husbands, whilst they have any hold on  their affections; and the platonic friends of his male acquaintance.  These are the fair defects in nature; the women who appear to be created  not to enjoy the fellowship of man, but to save him from sinking into  absolute brutality, by rubbing off the rough angles of his character;  and by playful dalliance to give some dignity to the appetite that draws  him to them.-Gracious Creator of the whole human race! hast thou  created such a being as woman, who can trace thy wisdom in thy works,  and feel that thou alone art by thy nature exalted above her,-for no  better purpose?-Can she believe that she was only made to submit to man,  her equal, a being, who, like her, was sent into the world to acquire  virtue?-Can she consent to be occupied merely to please him; merely to  adorn the earth, when her soul is capable of rising to thee?-And can she  rest supinely dependent on man for reason, when she ought to mount with  him the arduous steeps of knowledge?-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Yet, if love be the  supreme good, let women be only educated to inspire it, and let every  charm be polished to intoxicate the senses; but, if they be moral  beings, let them have a chance to become intelligent; and let love to  man be only a part of that glowing flame of universal love, which, after  encircling humanity, mounts in grateful incense to God. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To  fulfil domestic duties much resolution is necessary, and a serious kind  of perseverance that requires a more firm support than emotions,  however lively and true to nature. To give an example of order, the soul  of virtue, some austerity of behaviour must be adopted, scarcely to be  expected from a being who, from its infancy, has been made the  weathercock of its own sensations. Whoever rationally means to be useful  must have a plan of conduct; and, in the discharge of the simplest  duty, we are often obliged to act contrary to the present impulse of  tenderness or compassion. Severity is frequently the most certain, as  well as the most sublime proof of affection; and the want of this power  over the feelings, and of that lofty, dignified affection, which makes a  person prefer the future good of the beloved object to a present  gratification, is the reason why so many fond mothers spoil their  children, and has made it questionable whether negligence or indulgence  be most hurtful, but I am inclined to think, that the latter has done  most harm. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Mankind seem to agree that children should be  left under the management of women during their childhood. Now, from all  the observation that I have been able to make, women of sensibility are  the most unfit for this task, because they will infallibly, carried  away by their feelings, spoil a child's temper. The management of the  temper, the first, and most important branch of education, requires the  sober steady eye of reason; a plan of conduct equally distant from  tyranny and indulgence: yet these are the extremes that people of  sensibility alternately fall into; always shooting beyond the mark. I  have followed this train of reasoning much further, till I have  concluded, that a person of genius is the most improper person to be  employed in education, public or private. Minds of this rare species see  things too much in masses, and seldom, if ever, have a good temper.  That habitual cheerfulness, termed good-humour, is, perhaps, as seldom  united with great mental powers, as with strong feelings. And those  people who follow, with interest and admiration, the flights of genius;  or, with cooler approbation suck in the instruction which has been  elaborately prepared for them by the profound thinker, ought not to be  disgusted, if they find the former choleric, and the latter morose;  because liveliness of fancy, and a tenacious comprehension of mind, are  scarcely compatible with that pliant urbanity which leads a man, at  least, to bend to the opinions and prejudices of others, instead of  roughly confronting them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, treating of education or  manners, minds of a superior class are not to be considered, they may be  left to chance; it is the multitude, with moderate abilities, who call  for instruction, and catch the colour of the atmosphere they breathe.  This respectable concourse, I contend, men and women, should not have  their sensations heightened in the hot-bed of luxurious indolence, at  the expence of their understanding; for, unless there be a ballast of  understanding, they will never become either virtuous or free: an  aristocracy, founded on property, or sterling talents, will ever sweep  before it, the alternately timid, and ferocious, slaves of feeling. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Numberless are the arguments, to take another view of the subject,  brought forward with a shew of reason, because supposed to be deduced  from nature, that men have used morally and physically, to degrade the  sex. I must notice a few. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The female understanding has  often been spoken of with contempt, as arriving sooner at maturity than  the male. I shall not answer this argument by alluding to the early  proofs of reason, as well as genius, in Cowley, Milton, and Pope,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n24"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;24&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  but only appeal to experience to decide whether young men, who are  early introduced into company (and examples now abound), do not acquire  the same precocity. So notorious is this fact, that the bare mentioning  of it must bring before people, who at all mix in the world, the idea of  a number of swaggering apes of men, whose understandings are narrowed  by being brought into the society of men when they ought to have been  spinning a top or twirling a hoop. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      It has also been  asserted, by some naturalists, that men do not attain their full growth  and strength till thirty; but that women arrive at maturity by twenty. I  apprehend that they reason on false ground, led astray by the male  prejudice, which deems beauty the perfection of woman-mere beauty of  features and complexion, the vulgar acceptation of the word, whilst male  beauty is allowed to have some connection with the mind. Strength of  body, and that character of countenance, which the French term a  physionomie, women do not acquire before thirty, any more than men. The  little artless tricks of children, it is true, are particularly pleasing  and attractive; yet, when the pretty freshness of youth is worn off,  these artless graces become studied airs, and disgust every person of  taste. In the countenance of girls we only look for vivacity and bashful  modesty; but, the spring-tide of life over, we look for soberer sense  in the face, and for traces of passion, instead of the dimples of animal  spirits; expecting to see individuality of character, the only fastener  of the affections.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n25"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;25&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; We then wish to converse, not to fondle; to give scope to our imaginations as well as to the sensations of our hearts. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       At twenty the beauty of both sexes is equal; but the libertinism of  man leads him to make the distinction, and superannuated coquettes are  commonly of the same opinion; for, when they can no longer inspire love,  they pay for the vigour and vivacity of youth. The French, who admit  more of mind into their notions of beauty, give the preference to women  of thirty. I mean to say that they allow women to be in their most  perfect state, when vivacity gives place to reason, and to that majestic  seriousness of character, which marks maturity;-or, the resting point.  In youth, till twenty, the body shoots out, till thirty the solids are  attaining a degree of density; and the flexible muscles, growing daily  more rigid, give character to the countenance; that is, they trace the  operations of the mind with the iron pen of fate, and tell us not only  what powers are within, but how they have been employed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It  is proper to observe, that animals who arrive slowly at maturity, are  the longest lived, and of the noblest species. Men cannot, however,  claim any natural superiority from the grandeur of longevity; for in  this respect nature has not distinguished the male. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Polygamy is another physical degradation; and a plausible argument for a  custom, that blasts every domestic virtue, is drawn from the  well-attested fact, that in the countries where it is established, more  females are born than males. This appears to be an indication of nature,  and to nature, apparently reasonable speculations must yield. A further  conclusion obviously presented itself; if polygamy be necessary, woman  must be inferior to man, and made for him. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      With respect to  the formation of the fetus in the womb, we are very ignorant; but it  appears to me probable, that an accidental physical cause may account  for this phenomenon, and prove it not to be a law of nature. I have met  with some pertinent observations on the subject in Forster's Account of  the Isles of the South-Sea, that will explain my meaning. After  observing that of the two sexes amongst animals, the most vigorous and  hottest constitution always prevails, and produces its kind; he  adds,-'If this be applied to the inhabitants of Africa, it is evident  that the men there, accustomed to polygamy, are enervated by the use of  so many women, and therefore less vigorous; the women, on the contrary,  are of a hotter constitution, not only on account of their more  irritable nerves, more sensible organization, and more lively fancy; but  likewise because they are deprived in their matrimony of that share of  physical love which, in a monogamous condition, would all be theirs; and  thus, for the above reasons, the generality of children are born  females. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'In the greater part of Europe it has been proved  by the most accurate lists of mortality, that the proportion of men to  women is nearly equal, or, if any difference takes place, the males born  are more numerous, in the proportion of 105 to 100.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The  necessity of polygamy, therefore, does not appear; yet when a man  seduces a woman, it should, I think, be termed a left-handed marriage,  and the man should be legally obliged to maintain the woman and her  children, unless adultery, a natural divorcement, abrogated the law. And  this law should remain in force as long as the weakness of women caused  the word seduction to be used as an excuse for their frailty and want  of principle; nay, while they depend on man for a subsistence, instead  of earning it by the exertion of their own hands or heads. But these  women should not, in the full meaning of the relationship, be termed  wives, or the very purpose of marriage would be subverted, and all those  endearing charities that flow from personal fidelity, and give a  sanctity to the tie, when neither love nor friendship unites the hearts,  would melt into selfishness. The woman who is faithful to the father of  her children demands respect, and should not be treated like a  prostitute; though I readily grant that if it be necessary for a man and  woman to live together in order to bring up their offspring, nature  never intended that a man should have more than one wife. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Still, highly as I respect marriage, as the foundation of almost every  social virtue, I cannot avoid feeling the most lively compassion for  those unfortunate females who are broken off from society, and by one  error torn from all those affections and relationships that improve the  heart and mind. It does not frequently even deserve the name of error;  for many innocent girls become the dupes of a sincere, affectionate  heart, and still more are, as it may emphatically be termed, ruined  before they know the difference between virtue and vice:-and thus  prepared by their education for infamy, they become infamous. Asylums  and Magdalenes are not the proper remedies for these abuses. It is  justice, not charity, that is wanting in the world! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A woman  who has lost her honour, imagines that she cannot fall lower, and as  for recovering her former station, it is impossible; no exertion can  wash this stain away. Losing thus every spur, and having no other means  of support, prostitution becomes her only refuge, and the character is  quickly depraved by circumstances over which the poor wretch has little  power, unless she possesses an uncommon portion of sense and loftiness  of spirit. Necessity never makes prostitution the business of men's  lives; though numberless are the women who are thus rendered  systematically vicious. This, however, arises, in a great degree, from  the state of idleness in which women are educated, who are always taught  to look up to man for a maintenance, and to consider their persons as  the proper return for his exertions to support them. Meretricious airs,  and the whole science of wantonness, have then a more powerful stimulus  than either appetite or vanity; and this remark gives force to the  prevailing opinion, that with chastity all is lost that is respectable  in woman. Her character depends on the observance of one virtue, though  the only passion fostered in her heart-is love. Nay, the honour of a  woman is not made even to depend on her will. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When Richardson &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n26"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;26&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  makes Clarissa tell Lovelace that he had robbed her of her honour, he  must have had strange notions of honour and virtue. For, miserable  beyond all names of misery is the condition of a being, who could be  degraded without its own consent! This excess of strictness I have heard  vindicated as a salutary error. I shall answer in the words of  Leibnitz-'Errors are often useful; but it is commonly to remedy other  errors.' &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      Most of the evils of life arise from a desire  of present enjoyment that outruns itself. The obedience required of  women in the marriage state comes under this description; the mind,  naturally weakened by depending on authority, never exerts its own  powers, and the obedient wife is thus rendered a weak indolent mother.  Or, supposing that this is not always the consequence, a future state of  existence is scarcely taken into the reckoning when only negative  virtues are cultivated. For, in treating of morals, particularly when  women are alluded to, writers have too often considered virtue in a very  limited sense, and made the foundation of it solely worldly utility;  nay, a still more fragile base has been given to this stupendous fabric,  and the wayward fluctuating feelings of men have been made the standard  of virtue. Yes, virtue as well as religion, has been subjected to the  decisions of taste. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It would almost provoke a smile of  contempt, if the vain absurdities of man did not strike us on all sides,  to observe, how eager men are to degrade the sex from whom they pretend  to receive the chief pleasure of life; and I have frequently with full  conviction retorted Pope's sarcasm on them; or to speak explicitly, it  has appeared to me applicable to the whole human race. A love of  pleasure or sway seems to divide mankind, and the husband who lords it  in his little haram thinks only of his pleasure or his convenience. To  such lengths, indeed, does an intemperate love of pleasure carry some  prudent men, or worn out libertines, who marry to have a safe  bed-fellow, that they seduce their own wives.-Hymen banishes modesty,  and chaste love takes its flight. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Love, considered as an  animal appetite, cannot long feed on itself without expiring. And this  extinction in its own flame, may be termed the violent death of love.  But the wife who has thus been rendered licentious, will probably  endeavour to fill the void left by the loss of her husband's attentions;  for she cannot contentedly become merely an upper servant after having  been treated like a goddess. She is still handsome, and, instead of  transferring her fondness to her children, she only dreams of enjoying  the sunshine of life. Besides, there are many husbands so devoid of  sense and parental affection, that during the first effervescence of  voluptuous fondness they refuse to let their wives suckle their  children. They are only to dress and live to please them: and love-even  innocent love, soon sinks into lasciviousness when the exercise of a  duty is sacrificed to its indulgence. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Personal attachment  is a very happy foundation for friendship; yet, when even two virtuous  young people marry, it would, perhaps, be happy if some circumstances  checked their passion; if the recollection of some prior attachment, or  disappointed affection, made it on one side, at least, rather a match  founded on esteem. In that case they would look beyond the present  moment, and try to render the whole of life respectable, by forming a  plan to regulate a friendship which only death ought to dissolve. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Friendship is a serious affection; the most sublime of all  affections, because it is founded on principle, and cemented by time.  The very reverse may be said of love. In a great degree, love and  friendship cannot subsist in the same bosom; even when inspired by  different objects they weaken or destroy each other, and for the same  object can only be felt in succession. The vain fears and fond  jealousies, the winds which fan the flame of love, when judiciously or  artfully tempered, are both incompatible with the tender confidence and  sincere respect of friendship. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Love, such as the glowing  pen of genius has traced, exists not on earth, or only resides in those  exalted, fervid imaginations that have sketched such dangerous pictures.  Dangerous, because they not only afford a plausible excuse, to the  voluptuary who disguises sheer sensuality under a sentimental veil; but  as they spread affectation, and take from the dignity of virtue. Virtue,  as the very word imports, should have an appearance of seriousness, if  not of austerity; and to endeavour to trick her out in the garb of  pleasure, because the epithet has been used as another name for beauty,  is to exalt her on a quicksand; a most insidious attempt to hasten her  fall by apparent respect. Virtue and pleasure are not, in fact, so  nearly allied in this life as some eloquent writers have laboured to  prove. Pleasure prepares the fading wreath, and mixes the intoxicating  cup; but the fruit which virtue gives, is the recompence of toil: and,  gradually seen as it ripens, only affords calm satisfaction; nay,  appearing to be the result of the natural tendency of things, it is  scarcely observed. Bread, the common food of life, seldom thought of as a  blessing, supports the constitution and preserves health; still feasts  delight the heart of man, though disease and even death lurk in the cup  or dainty that elevates the spirits or tickles the palate. The lively  heated imagination likewise, to apply the comparison, draws the picture  of love, as it draws every other picture, with those glowing colours,  which the daring hand will steal from the rainbow that is directed by a  mind, condemned in a world like this, to prove its noble origin by  panting after unattainable perfection; ever pursuing what it  acknowledges to be a fleeting dream. An imagination of this vigorous  cast can give existence to insubstantial forms, and stability to the  shadowy reveries which the mind naturally falls into when realities are  found vapid. It can then depict love with celestial charms, and dote on  the grand ideal object-it can imagine a degree of mutual affection that  shall refine the soul, and not expire when it has served as a 'scale to  heavenly;' and, like devotion, make it absorb every meaner affection and  desire. In each others arms, as in a temple, with its summit lost in  the clouds, the world is to be shut out, and every thought and wish,  that do not nurture pure affection and permanent virtue.-Permanent  virtue! alas! Rousseau, respectable visionary! thy paradise would soon  be violated by the entrance of some unexpected guest. Like Milton's it  would only contain angels, or men sunk below the dignity of rational  creatures. Happiness is not material, it cannot be seen or felt! Yet the  eager pursuit of the good which every one shapes to his own fancy,  proclaims man the lord of this lower world, and to be an intelligential  creature, who is not to receive, but acquire happiness. They, therefore,  who complain of the delusions of passion, do not recollect that they  are exclaiming against a strong proof of the immortality of the soul. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But leaving superior minds to correct themselves, and pay dearly for  their experience, it is necessary to observe, that it is not against  strong, persevering passions; but romantic wavering feelings that I wish  to guard the female heart by exercising the understanding: for these  paradisiacal reveries are oftener the effect of idleness than of a  lively fancy. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women have seldom sufficient serious  employment to silence their feelings; a round of little cares, or vain  pursuits frittering away all strength of mind and organs, they become  naturally only objects of sense.-In short, the whole tenour of female  education (the education of society) tends to render the best disposed  romantic and inconstant; and the remainder vain and mean. In the present  state of society this evil can scarcely be remedied, I am afraid, in  the slightest degree; should a more laudable ambition ever gain ground  they may be brought nearer to nature and reason, and become more  virtuous and useful as they grow more respectable. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, I  will venture to assert that their reason will never acquire sufficient  strength to enable it to regulate their conduct, whilst the making an  appearance in the world is the first wish of the majority of mankind. To  this weak wish the natural affections, and the most useful virtues are  sacrificed. Girls marry merely to better themselves, to borrow a  significant vulgar phrase, and have such perfect power over their hearts  as not to permit themselves to fall in love till a man with a superiour  fortune offers. On this subject I mean to enlarge in a future chapter;  it is only necessary to drop a hint at present, because women are so  often degraded by suffering the selfish prudence of age to chill the  ardour of youth. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      From the same source flows an opinion that  young girls ought to dedicate great part of their time to needle-work;  yet, this employment contracts their faculties more than any other that  could have been chosen for them, by confining their thoughts to their  persons. Men order their thoughts to be made, and have done with the  subject; women make their own clothes, necessary or ornamental, and are  continually talking about them; and their thoughts follow their hands.  It is not indeed the making of necessaries that weakens the mind; but  the frippery of dress. For when a woman in the lower rank of life makes  her husband's and children's clothes, she does her duty, this is her  part of the family business; but when women work only to dress better  than they could otherwise afford, it is worse than sheer loss of time.  To render the poor virtuous they must be employed, and women in the  middle rank of life, did they not ape the fashions of the nobility,  without catching their ease, might employ them, whilst they themselves  managed their families, instructed their children, and exercised their  own minds. Gardening, experimental philosophy, and literature, would  afford them subjects to think of and matter for conversation, that in  some degree would exercise their understandings. The conversation of  French women, who are not so rigidly nailed to their chairs to twist  lappets, and knot ribands, is frequently superficial; but, I contend,  that it is not half so insipid as that of those English women whose time  is spent in making caps, bonnets, and the whole mischief of trimmings,  not to mention shopping, bargain-hunting, &amp;amp;c. &amp;amp;c.: and it is the  decent, prudent women, who are most degraded by these practices; for  their motive is simply vanity. The wanton who exercises her taste to  render her passion alluring, has something more in view. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       These observations all branch out of a general one, which I have before  made, and which cannot be too often insisted upon, for, speaking of men,  women, or professions, it will be found that the employment of the  thoughts shapes the character both generally and individually. The  thoughts of women ever hover round their persons, and is it surprising  that their persons are reckoned most valuable? Yet sonic degree of  liberty of mind is necessary even to form the person; and this may be  one reason why some gentle wives have so few attractions beside that of  sex. Add to this, sedentary employments render the majority of women  sickly-and false notions of female excellence make them proud of this  delicacy though it be another fetter, that by calling the attention  continually to the body, cramps the activity of the mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Women of quality seldom do any of the manual part of their dress,  consequently only their taste is exercised, and they acquire, by  thinking less of the finery, when the business of their toilet is over,  that ease, which seldom appears in the deportment of women, who dress  merely for the sake of dressing. In fact, the observation with respect  to the middle rank, the one in which talents thrive best, extends not to  women; for those of the superior class, by catching, at least, a  smattering of literature, and conversing more with men, on general  topics, acquire more knowledge than the women who ape their fashions and  faults without sharing their advantages. With respect to virtue, to use  the word in a comprehensive sense, I have seen most in low life. Many  poor women maintain their children by the sweat of their brow, and keep  together families that the vices of the fathers would have scattered  abroad; but gentlewomen are too indolent to be actively virtuous, and  are softened rather than refined by civilization. Indeed, the good sense  which I have met with, among the poor women who have had few advantages  of education, and yet have acted heroically, strongly confirmed me in  the opinion that trifling employments have rendered woman a trifler.  Man, taking her  &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n27"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;27&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  body the mind is left to rust; so that while physical love enervates  man, as being his favourite recreation, he will endeavour to enslave  woman:-and, who can tell, how many generations may be necessary to give  vigour to the virtue and talents of the freed posterity of abject  slaves?&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n28"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;28&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       In tracing the causes that, in my opinion, have degraded woman, I  have confined my observations to such as universally act upon the morals  and manners of the whole sex, and to me it appears clear that they all  spring from want of understanding. Whether this arise from a physical or  accidental weakness of faculties, time alone can determine; for I shall  not lay any great stress on the example of a few women &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n29"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;29&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  who, from having received a masculine education, have acquired courage  and resolution; I only contend that the men who have been placed in  similar situations, have acquired a similar character-I speak of bodies  of men, and that men of genius and talents have started out of a class,  in which women have never yet been placed. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n16"&gt;[16]  Into what inconsistencies do men fall when they argue without the  compass of principles. Women, weak women, are compared with angels; yet,  a superiour order of beings should be supposed to possess more  intellect than man; or, in what does their superiority consist? In the  same strain, to drop the sneer, they are allowed to possess more  goodness of heart, piety, and benevolence.-I doubt the fact, though it  be courteously brought forward, unless ignorance be allowed to be the  mother of devotion; for I am firmly persuaded that, on an average, the  proportion between virtue and knowledge, is more upon a par than is  commonly granted. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n17"&gt;[17] 'The brutes,' says  Lord Monboddo, 'remain in the state in which nature has placed them,  except in so far as their natural instinct is improved by the culture we  bestow upon them.' &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n18"&gt;[18] Vide Milton. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n19"&gt;[19] This word is not strictly just, but I cannot find a better. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n20"&gt;[20] &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'Pleasure's the potion of th' inferior kind;&lt;br /&gt;But glory, virtue, Heaven for man design'd.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  After writing these lines, how could Mrs. [Anna Letitia] Barbauld write the following ignoble comparison?&lt;br /&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; &lt;b&gt;'To a Lady, with some painted flowers.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; 'Flowers to the fair: to you these flowers I bring,&lt;br /&gt;And strive to greet you with an earlier spring.&lt;br /&gt;Flowers SWEET, and gay, and DELICATE LIKE YOU;&lt;br /&gt;Emblems of innocence, and beauty too.&lt;br /&gt;With flowers the Graces bind their yellow hair,&lt;br /&gt;And flowery wreaths consenting lovers wear.&lt;br /&gt;Flowers, the sole luxury which nature knew,&lt;br /&gt;In Eden's pure and guiltless garden grew.&lt;br /&gt;To loftier forms are rougher tasks assign'd;&lt;br /&gt;The sheltering oak resists the stormy wind,&lt;br /&gt;The tougher yew repels invading foes,&lt;br /&gt;And the tall pine for future navies grows;&lt;br /&gt;But this soft family, to cares unknown,&lt;br /&gt;Were born for pleasure and delight ALONE.&lt;br /&gt;Gay without toil, and lovely without art,&lt;br /&gt;They spring to CHEER the sense, and GLAD the  heart.&lt;br /&gt;Nor blush, my fair, to own you copy these;&lt;br /&gt;Your BEST, your SWEETEST empire is-TO PLEASE.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;br /&gt;  So the men tell us; but virtue, says reason, must be acquired by rough toils, and useful struggles with worldly cares.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n21"&gt;[21]  And a wit, always a wit, might be added; for the vain fooleries of wits  and beauties to obtain attention, and make conquests, are much upon a  par. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n22"&gt;[22] The mass of mankind are rather the slaves of their appetites than of their passions. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n23"&gt;[23]  Men of these descriptions pour it into their compositions, to  amalgamate the gross materials; and, moulding them with passion, give to  the inert body a soul; but, in woman's imagination, love alone  concentrates these ethereal beams. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n24"&gt;[24] Many other names might be added. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n25"&gt;[25] The strength of an affection is, generally, in the same proportion as the character of the species in the object beloved. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n26"&gt;[26] Dr. Young supports the same opinion, in his plays, when he talks of the misfortune that shunned the light of day. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n27"&gt;[27] 'I take her body,' says Ranger. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n28"&gt;[28]  'Supposing that women are voluntary slaves-slavery of any kind is  unfavourable to human happiness and improvement.'-Knox's Essays. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n29"&gt;[29]  Sappho, Eloisa, Mrs. Macaulay, the Empress of Russia, Madame d'Eon,  &amp;amp;c. These, and many more, may be reckoned exceptions; and, are not  all heroes, as well as heroines, exceptions to general rules? I wish to  see women neither heroines nor brutes; but reasonable creatures. &lt;/a&gt;   &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 5&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Animadversions on Some of the Writers Who Have&lt;br /&gt;Rendered Women Objects of Pity, Bordering on&lt;br /&gt;Contempt &lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       The opinions speciously supported, in some modern publications on the  female character and education, which have given the tone to most of  the observations made, in a more cursory manner, on the sex, remain now  to be examined. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       I shall begin with Rousseau, and give a sketch of his character of  woman, in his own words, interspersing comments and reflections. My  comments, it is true, will all spring from a few simple principles, and  might have been deduced from what I have already said; but the  artificial structure has been raised with so much ingenuity, that it  seems necessary to attack it in a more circumstantial manner, and make  the application myself. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Sophia, says Rousseau, should be as  perfect a woman as Emilius is a man, and to render her so, it is  necessary to examine the character which nature has given to the sex. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       He then proceeds to prove that woman ought to be weak and passive,  because she has less bodily strength than man; and hence infers, that  she was formed to please and to be subject to him; and that it is her  duty to render herself agreeable to her master-this being the grand end  of her existence.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n30"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;30&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Still, however, to give a little mock dignity to lust, he insists that  man should not exert his strength, but depend on the will of the woman,  when he seeks for pleasure with her. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;      'Hence we deduce a  third consequence from the different constitutions of the sexes; which  is, that the strongest should be master in appearance, and be dependent  in fact on the weakest; and that not from any frivolous practice of  gallantry or vanity of protectorship, but from an invariable law of  nature, which, furnishing woman with a greater facility to excite  desires than she has given man to satisfy them, makes the latter  dependent on the good pleasure of the former, and compels him to  endeavour to please in his turn, in order to obtain her consent that he  should be strongest.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n31"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;31&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  On these occasions, the most delightful circumstance a man finds in his  victory is, to doubt whether it was the woman's weakness that yielded  to his superior strength, or whether her inclinations spoke in his  favour: the females are also generally artful enough to leave this  matter in doubt. The understanding of women answers in this respect  perfectly to their constitution: so far from being ashamed of their  weakness, they glory in it; their tender muscles make no resistance;  they affect to be incapable of lifting the smallest burthens, and would  blush to be thought robust and strong. To what purpose is all this? Not  merely for the sake of appearing delicate, but through an artful  precaution: it is thus they provide an excuse beforehand, and a right to  be feeble when they think it expedient.' &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      I have quoted  this passage, lest my readers should suspect that I warped the author's  reasoning to support my own arguments. I have already asserted that in  educating women these fundamental principles lead to a system of cunning  and lasciviousness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Supposing woman to have been formed  only to please, and be subject to man, the conclusion is just, she ought  to sacrifice every other consideration to render herself agreeable to  him: and let this brutal desire of self-preservation be the grand spring  of all her actions, when it is proved to be the iron bed of fate, to  fit which her character should be stretched or contracted, regardless of  all moral or physical distinctions. But, if, as I think, may be  demonstrated, the purposes, of even this life, viewing the whole, be  subverted by practical rules built upon this ignoble base, I may be  allowed to doubt whether woman was created for man: and, though the cry  of irreligion, or even atheism, be raised against me, I will simply  declare, that were an angel from heaven to tell me that Moses's  beautiful, poetical cosmogony, and the account of the fall of man, were  literally true, I could not believe what my reason told me was  derogatory to the character of the Supreme Being: and, having no fear of  the devil before mine eyes, I venture to call this a suggestion of  reason, instead of resting my weakness on the broad shoulders of the  first seducer of my frail sex. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'It being once  demonstrated,' continues Rousseau, 'that man and woman are not, nor  ought to be, constituted alike in temperament and character, it follows  of course that they should not be educated in the same manner. In  pursuing the directions of nature, they ought indeed to act in concert,  but they should not be engaged in the same employments: the end of their  pursuits should be the same, but the means they should take to  accomplish them, and of consequence their tastes and inclinations,  should be different.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Whether I consider the peculiar  destination of the sex, observe their inclinations, or remark their  duties, all things equally concur to point out the peculiar method of  education best adapted to them. Woman and man were made for each other;  but their mutual dependence is not the same. The men depend on the women  only on account of their desires; the women on the men both on account  of their desires and their necessities: we could subsist better without  them than they without us.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'For this reason, the education  of the women should be always relative to the men. To please, to be  useful to us, to make us love and esteem them, to educate us when young,  and take care of us when grown up, to advise, to console us, to render  our lives easy and agreeable: these are the duties of women at all  times, and what they should be taught in their infancy. So long as we  fail to recur to this principle, we run wide of the mark, and all the  precepts which are given them contribute neither to their happiness nor  our own.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Girls are from their earliest infancy fond of  dress. Not content with being pretty, they are desirous of being thought  so; we see, by all their little airs, that this thought engages their  attention; and they are hardly capable of understanding what is said to  them, before they are to be governed by talking to them of what people  will think of their behaviour. The same motive, however, indiscreetly  made use of with boys, has not the same effect: provided they are let  pursue their amusements at pleasure, they care very little what people  think of them. Time and pains are necessary to subject boys to this  motive. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Whencesoever girls derive this first lesson, it is  a very good one. As the body is born, in a manner, before the soul, our  first concern should be to cultivate the former; this order is common  to both sexes, but the object of that cultivation is different. In the  one sex it is the developement of corporeal powers; in the other, that  of personal charms: not that either the quality of strength or beauty  ought to be confined exclusively to one sex; but only that the order of  the cultivation of both is in that respect reversed. Women certainly  require as much strength as to enable them to move and act gracefully,  and men as much address as to qualify them to act with ease.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'Children of both sexes have a great many amusements in common; and  so they ought; have they not also many such when they are grown up? Each  sex has also its peculiar taste to distinguish in this particular. Boys  love sports of noise and activity; to beat the drum, to whip the top,  and to drag about their little carts: girls, on the other hand, are  fonder of things of show and ornament; such as mirrours, trinkets, and  dolls: the doll is the peculiar amusement of the females; from whence we  see their taste plainly adapted to their destination. The physical part  of the art of pleasing lies in dress; and this is all which children  are capacitated to cultivate of that art.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Here then we  see a primary propensity firmly established, which you need only to  pursue and regulate. The little creature will doubtless be very desirous  to know how to dress up her doll, to make its sleeve-knots, its  flounces, its head-dress, &amp;amp;c. she is obliged to have so much  recourse to the people about her, for their assistance in these  articles, that it would be much more agreeable to her to owe them all to  her own industry. Hence we have a good reason for the first lessons  that are usually taught these young females: in which we do not appear  to be setting them a task, but obliging them, by instructing them in  what is immediately useful to themselves. And, in fact, almost all of  them learn with reluctance to read and write; but very readily apply  themselves to the use of their needles. They imagine themselves already  grown up, and think with pleasure that such qualifications will enable  them to decorate themselves.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This is certainly only an  education of the body; but Rousseau is not the only man who has  indirectly said that merely the person of a young woman, without any  mind, unless animal spirits come under that description, is very  pleasing. To render it weak, and what some may call beautiful, the  understanding is neglected, and girls forced to sit still, play with  dolls and listen to foolish conversations;-the effect of habit is  insisted upon as an undoubted indication of nature. I know it was  Rousseau's opinion that the first years of youth should be employed to  form the body, though in educating Emilius he deviates from this plan;  yet, the difference between strengthening the body, on which strength of  mind in a great measure depends, and only giving it an easy motion, is  very wide. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Rousseau's observations, it is proper to remark,  were made in a country where the art of pleasing was refined only to  extract the grossness of vice. He did not go back to nature, or his  ruling appetite disturbed the operations of reason, else he would not  have drawn these crude inferences. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In France boys and  girls, particularly the latter, are only educated to please, to manage  their persons, and regulate their exterior behaviour; and their minds  are corrupted, at a very early age, by the wordly and pious cautions  they receive to guard them against immodesty. I speak of past times. The  very confessions which mere children were obliged to make, and the  questions asked by the holy men, I assert these facts on good authority,  were sufficient to impress a sexual character; and the education of  society was a school of coquetry and art. At the age of ten or eleven;  nay, often much sooner, girls began to coquet, and talked, unreproved,  of establishing themselves in the world by marriage. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In  short, they were treated like women, almost from their very birth, and  compliments were listened to instead of instruction. These, weakening  the mind, Nature was supposed to have acted like a step-mother, when she  formed this after-thought of creation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Not allowing them  understanding, however, it was but consistent to subject them to  authority independent of reason; and to prepare them for this  subjection, he gives the following advice: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Girls ought to  be active and diligent; nor is that all; they should also be early  subjected to restraint. This misfortune, if it really be one, is  inseparable from their sex; nor do they ever throw it off but to suffer  more cruel evils. They must be subject, all their lives, to the most  constant and severe restraint, which is that of decorum: it is,  therefore, necessary to accustom them early to such confinement, that it  may not afterwards cost them too dear; and to the suppression of their  caprices, that they may the more readily submit to the will of others.  If, indeed, they be fond of being always at work, they should be  sometimes compelled to lay it aside. Dissipation, levity, and  inconstancy, are faults that readily spring up from their first  propensities, when corrupted or perverted by too much indulgence. To  prevent this abuse, we should teach them, above all things, to lay a due  restraint on themselves. The life of a modest woman is reduced, by our  absurd institutions, to a perpetual conflict with herself: not but it is  just that this sex should partake of the sufferings which arise from  those evils it hath caused us.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      And why is the life of a  modest woman a perpetual conflict? I should answer, that this very  system of education makes it so. Modesty, temperance, and self-denial,  are the sober offspring of reason; but when sensibility is nurtured at  the expence of the understanding, such weak beings must be restrained by  arbitrary means, and be subjected to continual conflicts; but give  their activity of mind a wider range, and nobler passions and motives  will govern their appetites and sentiments. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'The common  attachment and regard of a mother, nay, mere habit, will make her  beloved by her children, if she do nothing to incur their hate. Even the  constraint she lays them under, if well directed, will increase their  affection, instead of lessening it; because a state of dependence being  natural to the sex, they perceive themselves formed for obedience.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       This is begging the question; for servitude not only debases the  individual, but its effects seem to be transmitted to posterity.  Considering the length of time that women have been dependent, is it  surprising that some of them hug their chains, and fawn like the  spaniel? 'These dogs,' observes a naturalist, 'at first kept their ears  erect; but custom has superseded nature, and a token of fear is become a  beauty.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'For the same reason,' adds Rousseau, 'women  have, or ought to have, but little liberty; they are apt to indulge  themselves excessively in what is allowed them. Addicted in every thing  to extremes, they are even more transported at their diversions than  boys.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The answer to this is very simple. Slaves and mobs  have always indulged themselves in the same excesses, when once they  broke loose from authority.-The bent bow recoils with violence, when the  hand is suddenly relaxed that forcibly held it; and sensibility, the  play-thing of outward circumstances, must be subjected to authority, or  moderated by reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'There results,' he continues, 'from  this habitual restraint a tractableness which women have occasion for  during their whole lives, as they constantly remain either under  subjection to the men, or to the opinions of mankind; and are never  permitted to set themselves above those opinions. The first and most  important qualification in a woman is good-nature or sweetness of  temper: formed to obey a being so imperfect as man, often full of vices,  and always full of faults, she ought to learn betimes even to suffer  injustice, and to bear the insults of a husband without complaint; it is  not for his sake, but her own, that she should be of a mild  disposition. The perverseness and ill-nature of the women only serve to  aggravate their own misfortunes, and the misconduct of their husbands;  they might plainly perceive that such are not the arms by which they  gain the superiority.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Formed to live with such an  imperfect being as man, they ought to learn from the exercise of their  faculties the necessity of forbearance; but all the sacred rights of  humanity are violated by insisting on blind obedience; or, the most  sacred rights belong only to man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The being who patiently  endures injustice, and silently bears insults, will soon become unjust,  or unable to discern right from wrong. Besides, I deny the fact, this is  not the true way to form or meliorate the temper; for, as a sex, men  have better tempers than women, because they are occupied by pursuits  that interest the head as well as the heart; and the steadiness of the  head gives a healthy temperature to the heart. People of sensibility  have seldom good tempers. The formation of the temper is the cool work  of reason, when, as life advances, she mixes with happy art, jarring  elements. I never knew a weak or ignorant person who had a good temper,  though that constitutional good humour, and that docility, which fear  stamps on the behaviour, often obtains the name. I say behaviour, for  genuine meekness never reached the heart or mind, unless as the effect  of reflection; and that simple restraint produces a number of peccant  humours in domestic life, many sensible men will allow, who find some of  these gentle irritable creatures, very troublesome companions. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'Each sex,' he further argues, 'should preserve its peculiar tone and  manner; a meek husband may make a wife impertinent; but mildness of  disposition on the woman's side will always bring a man back to reason,  at least if he be not absolutely a brute, and will sooner or later  triumph over him.' Perhaps the mildness of reason might sometimes have  this effect; but abject fear always inspires contempt; and tears are  only eloquent when they flow down fair cheeks. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Of what  materials can that heart be composed, which can melt when insulted, and  instead of revolting at injustice, kiss the rod? Is it unfair to infer  that her virtue is built on narrow views and selfishness, who can caress  a man, with true feminine softness, the very moment when he treats her  tyrannically? Nature never dictated such insincerity;-and, though  prudence of this sort be termed a virtue, morality becomes vague when  any part is supposed to rest on falsehood. These are mere expedients,  and expedients are only useful for the moment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let the  husband beware of trusting too implicitly to this servile obedience; for  if his wife can with winning sweetness caress him when angry, and when  she ought to be angry, unless contempt had stifled a natural  effervescence, she may do the same after parting with a lover. These are  all preparations for adultery; or, should the fear of the world, or of  hell, restrain her desire of pleasing other men, when she can no longer  please her husband, what substitute can be found by a being who was only  formed, by nature and art, to please man? what can make her amends for  this privation, or where is she to seek for a fresh employment? where  find sufficient strength of mind to determine to begin the search, when  her habits are fixed, and vanity has long ruled her chaotic mind? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But this partial moralist recommends cunning systematically and Plausibly. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'Daughters should be always submissive; their mothers, however,  should not be inexorable. To make a young person tractable, she ought  not to be made unhappy, to make her modest she ought not to be rendered  stupid. On the contrary, I should not be displeased at her being  permitted to use some art, not to elude punishment in case of  disobedience, but to exempt herself from the necessity of obeying. It is  not necessary to make her dependence burdensome, but only to let her  feel it. Subtilty is a talent natural to the sex; and, as I am  persuaded, all our natural inclinations are right and good in  themselves, I am of opinion this should be cultivated as well as the  others: it is requisite for us only to prevent its abuse.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'Whatever is, is right,' he then proceeds triumphantly to infer.  Granted;-yet, perhaps, no aphorism ever contained a more paradoxical  assertion. It is a solemn truth with respect to God. He, reverentially I  speak, sees the whole at once, and saw its just proportions in the womb  of time; but man, who can only inspect disjointed parts, finds many  things wrong; and it is a part of the system, and therefore right, that  he should endeavour to alter what appears to him to be so, even while he  bows to the Wisdom of his Creator, and respects the darkness he labours  to disperse. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The inference that follows is just, supposing  the principle to be sound. 'The superiority of address, peculiar to the  female sex, is a very equitable indemnification for their inferiority  in point of strength: without this, woman would not be the companion of  man; but his slave: it is by her superiour art and ingenuity that she  preserves her equality, and governs him while she affects to obey. Woman  has every thing against her, as well our faults, as her own timidity  and weakness; she has nothing in her favour, but her subtilty and her  beauty. Is it not very reasonable, therefore, she should cultivate  both?' Greatness of mind can never dwell with cunning, or address; for I  shall not boggle about words, when their direct signification is  insincerity and falsehood, but content myself with observing, that if  any class of mankind be so created that it must necessarily be educated  by rules not strictly deducible from truth, virtue is an affair of  convention. How could Rousseau dare to assert, after giving this advice,  that in the grand end of existence the object of both sexes should be  the same, when he well knew that the mind, formed by its pursuits, is  expanded by great views swallowing up little ones, or that it becomes  itself little? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Men have superiour strength of body; but  were it not for mistaken notions of beauty, women would acquire  sufficient to enable them to earn their own subsistence, the true  definition of independence; and to bear those bodily inconveniencies and  exertions that are requisite to strengthen the mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let  us then, by being allowed to take the same exercise as boys, not only  during infancy, but youth, arrive at perfection of body, that we may  know how far the natural superiority of man extends. For what reason or  virtue can be expected from a creature when the seed-time of life is  neglected? None-did not the winds of heaven casually scatter many useful  seeds in the fallow ground. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Beauty cannot be acquired by  dress, and coquetry is an art not so early and speedily attained. While  girls are yet young, however, they are in a capacity to study agreeable  gesture, a pleasing modulation of voice, an easy carriage and behaviour;  as well as to take the advantage of gracefully adapting their looks and  attitudes to time, place, and occasion. Their application, therefore,  should not be solely confined to the arts of industry and the needle,  when they come to display other talents, whose utility is already  apparent.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'For my part, I would have a young Englishwoman  cultivate her agreeable talents, in order to please her future husband,  with as much care and assiduity as a young Circassian cultivates her's,  to fit her for the Haram of an Eastern bashaw.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To render  women completely insignificant, he adds-'The tongues of women are very  voluble; they speak earlier, more readily, and more agreeably, than the  men; they are accused also of speaking much more: but so it ought to be,  and I should be very ready to convert this reproach into a compliment;  their lips and eyes have the same activity, and for the same reason. A  man speaks of what he knows, a woman of what pleases her; the one  requires knowledge, the other taste; the principal object of a man's  discourse should be what is useful, that of a woman's what is agreeable.  There ought to be nothing in common between their different  conversation but truth. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'We ought not, therefore, to  restrain the prattle of girls, in the same manner as we should that of  boys, with that severe question; To what purpose are you talking? but by  another, which is no less difficult to answer, How will your discourse  be received? In infancy, while they are as yet incapable to discern good  from evil, they ought to observe it, as a law, never to say any thing  disagreeable to those whom they are speaking to: what will render the  practice of this rule also the more difficult, is, that it must ever be  subordinate to the former, of never speaking falsely or telling an  untruth.' To govern the tongue in this manner must require great address  indeed; and it is too much practised both by men and women.-Out of the  abundance of the heart how few speak! So few, that I, who love  simplicity, would gladly give up politeness for a quarter of the virtue  that has been sacrificed to an equivocal quality which at best should  only be the polish of virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, to complete the sketch.  'It is easy to be conceived, that if male children be not in a capacity  to form any true notions of religion, those ideas must be greatly above  the conception of the females: it is for this very reason, I would begin  to speak to them the earlier on this subject; for if we were to wait  till they were in a capacity to discuss methodically such profound  questions, we should run a risk of never speaking to them on this  subject as long as they lived. Reason in women is a practical reason,  capacitating them artfully to discover the means of attaining a known  end, but which would never enable them to discover that end itself. The  social relations of the sexes are indeed truly admirable: from their  union there results a moral person, of which woman may be termed the  eyes, and man the hand, with this dependence on each other, that it is  from the man that the woman is to learn what she is to see, and it is of  the woman that man is to learn what he ought to do. If woman could  recur to the first principles of things as well as man, and man was  capacitated to enter into their minutae as well as woman, always  independent of each other, they would live in perpetual discord, and  their union could not subsist. But in the present harmony which  naturally subsists between them, their different faculties tend to one  common end; it is difficult to say which of them conduces the most to  it: each follows the impulse of the other; each is obedient, and both  are masters. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'As the conduct of a woman is subservient to  the public opinion, her faith in matters of religion should, for that  very reason, be subject to authority. Every daughter ought to be of the  same religion as her mother, and every wife to be of the same religion  as her husband: for, though such religion should be false, that docility  which induces the mother and daughter to submit to the order of nature,  takes away, in the sight of God, the criminality of their error.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n32"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;32&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  As they are not in a capacity to judge for themselves, they ought to  abide by the decision of their fathers and husbands as confidently as by  that of the church. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      'As authority ought to regulate the  religion of the women, it is not so needful to explain to them the  reasons for their belief, as to lay down precisely the tenets they are  to believe: for the creed, which presents only obscure ideas to the  mind, is the source of fanaticism; and that which presents absurdities,  leads to infidelity.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Absolute, uncontroverted authority,  it seems, must subsist somewhere: but is not this a direct and exclusive  appropriation of reason? The rights of humanity have been thus confined  to the male line from Adam downwards. Rousseau would carry his male  aristocracy still further, for he insinuates, that he should not blame  those, who contend for leaving woman in a state of the most profound  ignorance, if it were not necessary in order to preserve her chastity  and justify the man's choice, in the eyes of the world, to give her a  little knowledge of men, and the customs produced by human passions;  else she might propagate at home without being rendered less voluptuous  and innocent by the exercise of her understanding: excepting, indeed,  during the first year of marriage, when she might employ it to dress  like Sophia. 'Her dress is extremely modest in appearance, and yet very  coquettish in fact: she does not make a display of her charms, she  conceals them; but in concealing them, she knows how to affect your  imagination. Every one who sees her will say, There is a modest and  discreet girl; but while you are near her, your eyes and affections  wander all over her person, so that you cannot withdraw them; and you  would conclude, that every part of her dress, simple as it seems, was  only put in its proper order to be taken to pieces by the imagination.'  Is this modesty? Is this a preparation for immortality? Again.-What  opinion are we to form of a system of education, when the author says of  his heroine, 'that with her, doing things well, is but a secondary  concern; her principal concern is to do them neatly.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Secondary, in fact, are all her virtues and qualities, for, respecting  religion, he makes her parents thus address her, accustomed to  submission-'Your husband will instruct you in good time.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       After thus cramping a woman's mind, if, in order to keep it fair, he  have not made it quite a blank, he advises her to reflect, that a  reflecting man may not yawn in her company, when he is tired of  caressing her.-What has she to reflect about who must obey? and would it  not be a refinement on cruelty only to open her mind to make the  darkness and misery of her fate visible? Yet, these are his sensible  remarks; how consistent with what I have already been obliged to quote,  to give a fair view of the subject, the reader may determine. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'They who pass their whole lives in working for their daily bread,  have no ideas beyond their business or their interest, and all their  understanding seems to lie in their fingers' ends. This ignorance is  neither prejudicial to their integrity nor their morals; it is often of  service to them. Sometimes, by means of reflection, we are led to  compound with our duty, and we conclude by substituting a jargon of  words, in the room of things. Our own conscience is the most enlightened  philosopher. There is no need to be acquainted with Tully's offices, to  make a man of probity: and perhaps the most virtuous woman in the  world, is the least acquainted with the definition of virtue. But it is  no less true, that an improved understanding only can render society  agreeable; and it is a melancholy thing for a father of a family, who is  fond of home, to be obliged to be always wrapped up in himself, and to  have nobody about him to whom he can impart his sentiments. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       'Besides, how should a woman void of reflection be capable of educating  her children? How should she discern what is proper for them? How  should she incline them to those virtues she is unacquainted with, or to  that merit of which she has no idea? She can only sooth or chide them;  render them insolent or timid; she will make them formal coxcombs, or  ignorant blockheads; but will never make them sensible or amiable.' How  indeed should she, when her husband is not always at hand to lend her  his reason?-when they both together make but one moral being. A blind  will, 'eyes without hands,' would go a very little way; and perchance  his abstract reason, that should concentrate the scattered beams of her  practical reason, may be employed in judging of the flavour of wine,  descanting on the sauces most proper for turtle; or, more profoundly  intent at a card-table, he may be generalizing his ideas as he bets away  his fortune, leaving all the minutae of education to his helpmate, or  to chance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, granting that woman ought to be beautiful,  innocent, and silly, to render her a more alluring and indulgent  companion;-what is her understanding sacrificed for? And why is all this  preparation necessary only, according to Rousseau's own account, to  make her the mistress of her husband, a very short time? For no man ever  insisted more on the transient nature of love. Thus speaks the  philosopher. 'Sensual pleasures are transient. The habitual state of the  affections always loses by their gratification. The imagination, which  decks the object of our desires, is lost in fruition. Excepting the  Supreme Being, who is self-existent, there is nothing beautiful but what  is ideal.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But he returns to his unintelligible paradoxes  again, when he thus addresses Sophia. 'Emilius, in becoming your  husband, is become your master; and claims your obedience. Such is the  order of nature. When a man is married, however, to such a wife as  Sophia, it is proper he should be directed by her: this is also  agreeable to the order of nature: it is, therefore, to give you as much  authority over his heart as his sex gives him over your person, that I  have made you the arbiter of his pleasures. It may cost you, perhaps,  some disagreeable self-denial; but you will be certain of maintaining  your empire over him, if you can preserve it over yourself-what I have  already observed, also, shows me, that this difficult attempt does not  surpass your courage. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Would you have your husband  constantly at your feet? keep him at some distance from your person. You  will long maintain the authority in love, if you know but how to render  your favours rare and valuable. It is thus you may employ even the arts  of coquetry in the service of virtue, and those of love in that of  reason.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I shall close my extracts with a just description  of a comfortable couple. 'And yet you must not imagine, that even such  management will always suffice. Whatever precaution be taken, enjoyment  will, by degrees, take off the edge of passion. But when love hath  lasted as long as possible, a pleasing habitude supplies its place, and  the attachment of a mutual confidence succeeds to the transports of  passion. Children often form a more agreeable and permanent connection  between married people than even love itself. When you cease to be the  mistress of Emilius, you will continue to be his wife and friend, you  will be the mother of his children.'&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n33"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;33&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       Children, he truly observes, form a much more permanent connexion  between married people than love. Beauty, he declares, will not be  valued, or even seen after a couple have lived six months together;  artificial graces and coquetry will likewise pall on the senses: why  then does he say that a girl should be educated for her husband with the  same care as for an eastern haram? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I now appeal from the  reveries of fancy and refined licentiousness to the good sense of  mankind, whether, if the object of education be to prepare women to  become chaste wives and sensible mothers, the method so plausibly  recommended in the foregoing sketch, be the one best calculated to  produce those ends? Will it be allowed that the surest way to make a  wife chaste, is to teach her to practise the wanton arts of a mistress,  termed virtuous coquetry, by the sensualist who can no longer relish the  artless charms of sincerity, or taste the pleasure arising from a  tender intimacy, when confidence is unchecked by suspicion, and rendered  interesting by sense? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The man who can be contented to live  with a pretty, useful companion, without a mind, has lost in voluptuous  gratifications a taste for more refined enjoyments; he has never felt  the calm satisfaction, that refreshes the parched heart, like the silent  dew of heaven,-of being beloved by one who could understand him.-In the  society of his wife he is still alone, unless when the man is sunk in  the brute. 'The charm of life,' says a grave philosophical reasoner, is  'sympathy; nothing pleases us more than to observe in other men a  fellow-feeling with all the emotions of our own breast.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, according to the tenour of reasoning, by which women are kept from  the tree of knowledge, the important years of youth, the usefulness of  age, and the rational hopes of futurity, are all to be sacrificed to  render women an object of desire for a short time. Besides, how could  Rousseau expect them to be virtuous and constant when reason is neither  allowed to be the foundation of their virtue, nor truth the object of  their inquiries? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But all Rousseau's errors in reasoning  arose from sensibility, and sensibility to their charms women are very  ready to forgive! When he should have reasoned he became impassioned,  and reflection inflamed his imagination instead of enlightening his  understanding. Even his virtues also led him farther astray; for, born  with a warm constitution and lively fancy, nature carried him toward the  other sex with such eager fondness, that he soon became lascivious. Had  he given way to these desires, the fire would have extinguished itself  in a natural manner; but virtue, and a romantic kind of delicacy, made  him practise self-denial; yet, when fear, delicacy, or virtue,  restrained him, he debauched his imagination, and reflecting on the  sensations to which fancy gave force, he traced them in the most glowing  colours, and sunk them deep into his soul. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      He then sought  for solitude, not to sleep with the man of nature; or calmly investigate  the causes of things under the shade where Sir Isaac Newton indulged  contemplation, but merely to indulge his feelings. And so warmly has he  painted, what he forcibly felt, that, interesting the heart and  inflaming the imagination of his readers; in proportion to the strength  of their fancy, they imagine that their understanding is convinced when  they only sympathize with a poetic writer, who skilfully exhibits the  objects of sense, most voluptuously shadowed or gracefully veiled-And  thus making us feel whilst dreaming that we reason, erroneous  conclusions are left in the mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Why was Rousseau's life  divided between ecstasy and misery? Can any other answer be given than  this, that the effervescence of his imagination produced both; but, had  his fancy been allowed to cool, it is possible that he might have  acquired more strength of mind. Still, if the purpose of life be to  educate the intellectual part of man, all with respect to him was right;  yet, had not death led to a nobler scene of action, it is probable that  he would have enjoyed more equal happiness on earth, and have felt the  calm sensations of the man of nature instead of being prepared for  another stage of existence by nourishing the passions which agitate the  civilized man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But peace to his manes! I war not with his  ashes, but his opinions. I war only with the sensibility that led him to  degrade woman by making her the slave of love. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt;-'Curs'd vassalage,&lt;br /&gt;'First idoliz'd till love's hot fire be o'er,&lt;br /&gt;'Then slaves to those who courted us before.'&lt;br /&gt;Dryden. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       The pernicious tendency of those books, in which the writers  insidiously degrade the sex whilst they are prostrate before their  personal charms, cannot be too often or too severely exposed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Let us, my dear contemporaries, arise above such narrow prejudices!  If wisdom be desirable on its own account, if virtue, to deserve the  name, must be founded on knowledge; let us endeavour to strengthen our  minds by reflection, till our heads become a balance for our hearts; let  us not confine all our thoughts to the petty occurrences of the day, or  our knowledge to an acquaintance with our lovers' or husbands' hearts;  but let the practice of every duty be subordinate to the grand one of  improving our minds, and preparing our affections for a more exalted  state! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Beware then, my friends, of suffering the heart to  be moved by every trivial incident: the reed is shaken by a breeze, and  annually dies, but the oak stands firm, and for ages braves the storm! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Were we, indeed, only created to flutter our hour out and die-why let  us then indulge sensibility, and laugh at the severity of reason.-Yet,  alas! even then we should want strength of body and mind, and life would  be lost in feverish pleasures or wearisome languor. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But  the system of education, which I earnestly wish to see exploded, seems  to presuppose what ought never to be taken for granted, that virtue  shields us from the casualties of life; and that fortune, slipping off  her bandage, will smile on a well-educated female, and bring in her hand  an Emilius or a Telemachus. Whilst, on the contrary, the reward which  virtue promises to her votaries is confined, it seems clear, to their  own bosoms; and often must they contend with the most vexatious worldly  cares, and bear with the vices and humours of relations for whom they  can never feel a friendship. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      There have been many women in  the world who, instead of being supported by the reason and virtue of  their fathers and brothers, have strengthened their own minds by  struggling with their vices and follies; yet have never met with a hero,  in the shape of a husband; who, paying the debt that mankind owed them,  might chance to bring back their reason to its natural dependent state,  and restore the usurped prerogative, of rising above opinion, to man. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       Dr. Fordyce's sermons have long made a part of a young woman's  library; nay, girls at school are allowed to read them; but I should  instantly dismiss them from my pupil's, if I wished to strengthen her  understanding, by leading her to form sound principles on a broad basis;  or, were I only anxious to cultivate her taste; though they must be  allowed to contain many sensible observations. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Dr. Fordyce  may have had a very laudable end in view; but these discourses are  written in such an affected style, that were it only on that account,  and had I nothing to object against his mellifluous precepts, I should  not allow girls to peruse them, unless I designed to hunt every spark of  nature out of their composition, melting every human quality into  female meekness and artificial grace. I say artificial, for true grace  arises from some kind of independence of mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Children,  careless of pleasing, and only anxious to amuse themselves, are often  very graceful; and the nobility who have mostly lived with inferiours,  and always had the command of money, acquire a graceful case of  deportment, which should rather be termed habitual grace of body, than  that superiour gracefulness which is truly the expression of the mind.  This mental grace, not noticed by vulgar eyes, often flashes across a  rough countenance, and irradiating every feature, shows simplicity and  independence of mind.-It is then we read characters of immortality in  the eye, and see the soul in every gesture, though when at rest, neither  the face nor limbs may have much beauty to recommend them; or the  behaviour, any thing peculiar to attract universal attention. The mass  of mankind, however, look for more tangible beauty; yet simplicity is,  in general, admired, when people do not consider what they admire; and  can there be simplicity without sincerity? But, to have done with  remarks that are in some measure desultory, though naturally excited by  the subject-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In declamatory periods Dr. Fordyce spins out  Rousseau's eloquence; and in most sentimental rant, details his opinions  respecting the female character, and the behaviour which woman ought to  assume to render her lovely. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      He shall speak for himself,  for thus he makes Nature address man. 'Behold these smiling innocents,  whom I have graced with my fairest gifts, and committed to your  protection; behold them with love and respect; treat them with  tenderness and honour. They are timid and want to be defended. They are  frail; O do not take advantage of their weakness! Let their fears and  blushes endear them. Let their confidence in you never be abused.-But is  it possible, that any of you can be such barbarians, so supremely  wicked, as to abuse it? Can you find in your hearts &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n34"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;34&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  to despoil the gentle, trusting creatures of their treasure, or do any  thing to strip them of their native robe of virtue? Curst be the impious  hand that would dare to violate the unblemished form of Chastity! Thou  wretch! thou ruffian! forbear; nor venture to provoke heaven's fiercest  vengeance.' I know not any comment that can be made seriously on this  curious passage, and I could produce many similar ones; and some, so  very sentimental, that I have heard rational men use the word indecent,  when they mentioned them with disgust. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      Throughout there  is a display of cold artificial feelings, and that parade of sensibility  which boys and girls should be taught to despise as the sure mark of a  little vain mind. Florid appeals are made to heaven, and to the  beauteous innocents, the fairest images of heaven here below, whilst  sober sense is left far behind.-This is not the language of the heart,  nor will it ever reach it, though the ear may be tickled. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I  shall be told, perhaps, that the public have been pleased with these  volumes.-True-and Hervey's Meditations are still read, though he equally  sinned against sense and taste. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I particularly object to  the lover-like phrases of pumped up passion, which are every where  interspersed. If women be ever allowed to walk without leading-strings,  why must they be cajoled into virtue by artful flattery and sexual  compliments?-Speak to them the language of truth and soberness, and away  with the lullaby strains of condescending endearment! Let them be  taught to respect themselves as rational creatures, and not led to have a  passion for their own insipid persons. It moves my gall to hear a  preacher descanting on dress and needle-work; and still more, to hear  him address the British fair, the fairest of the fair, as if they had  only feelings. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Even recommending piety he uses the  following argument. 'Never, perhaps, does a fine woman strike more  deeply, than when, composed into pious recollection, and possessed with  the noblest considerations, she assumes, without knowing it, superiour  dignity and new graces; so that the beauties of holiness seem to radiate  about her, and the by-standers are almost induced to fancy her already  worshipping amongst her kindred angels!' Why are women to be thus bred  up with a desire of conquest? the very word, used in this sense. gives  me a sickly qualm! Do religion and virtue offer no stronger motives, no  brighter reward? Must they always be debased by being made to consider  the sex of their companions? Must they be taught always to be pleasing?  And when levelling their small artillery at the heart of man, is it  necessary to tell them that a little sense is sufficient to render their  attention incredibly soothing? 'As a small degree of knowledge  entertains in a woman, so from a woman, though for a different reason, a  small expression of kindness delights, particularly if she have  beauty!" I should have supposed for the same reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Why  are girls to be told that they resemble angels; but to sink them below  women? Or, that a gentle innocent female is an object that comes nearer  to the idea which we have formed of angels than any other. Yet they are  told, at the same time, that they are only like angels when they are  young and beautiful; consequently, it is their persons, not their  virtues, that procure them this homage. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Idle empty words!  What can such delusive flattery lead to, but vanity and folly? The  lover, it is true, has a poetic licence to exalt his mistress; his  reason is the bubble of his passion, and he does not utter a falsehood  when he borrows the language of adoration. His imagination may raise the  idol of his heart, unblamed, above humanity; and happy would it be for  women, if they were only flattered by the men who loved them; I mean,  who love the individual, not the sex; but should a grave preacher  interlard his discourses with such fooleries? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In sermons or  novels, however, voluptuousness is always true to its text. Men are  allowed by moralists to cultivate, as Nature directs, different  qualities, and assume the different characters, that the same passions,  modified almost to infinity, give to each individual. A virtuous man may  have a choleric or a sanguine constitution, be gay or grave,  unreproved; be firm till be is almost over-bearing, or, weakly  submissive, have no will or opinion of his own; but all women are to be  levelled, by meekness and docility, into one character of yielding  softness and gentle compliance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I will use the preacher's  own words. 'Let it be observed, that in your sex manly exercises are  never graceful; that in them a tone and figure, as well as an air and  deportment, of the masculine kind, are always forbidding; and that men  of sensibility desire in every woman soft features, and a flowing voice,  a form, not robust, and demeanour delicate and gentle.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Is  not the following portrait-the portrait of a house slave? 'I am  astonished at the folly of many women, who are still reproaching their  husbands for leaving them alone, for preferring this or that company to  theirs, for treating them with this and the other mark of disregard or  indifference; when, to speak the truth, they have themselves in a great  measure to blame. Not that I would justify the men in any thing wrong on  their part. But had you behaved to them with more respectful  observance, and a more equal tenderness; studying their humours,  overlooking their mistakes, submitting to their opinions in matters  indifferent, passing by little instances of unevenness, caprice, or  passion, giving soft answers to hasty words, complaining as seldom as  possible, and making it your daily care to relieve their anxieties and  prevent their wishes, to enliven the hour of dulness, and call up the  ideas of felicity: had you pursued this conduct, I doubt not but you  would have maintained and even increased their esteem, so far as to have  secured every degree of influence that could conduce to their virtue,  or your mutual satisfaction; and your house might at this day have been  the abode of domestic bliss.' Such a woman ought to be an angel-or she  is an ass-for I discern not a trace of the human character, neither  reason nor passion in this domestic drudge, whose being is absorbed in  that of a tyrant's. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Still Dr. Fordyce must have very little  acquaintance with the human heart, if he really supposed that such  conduct would bring back wandering love, instead of exciting contempt.  No, beauty, gentleness, &amp;amp;c. &amp;amp;c. may gain a heart; but esteem,  the only lasting affection, can alone be obtained by virtue supported by  reason. It is respect for the understanding that keeps alive tenderness  for the person. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      As these volumes are so frequently put  into the hands of young people, I have taken more notice of them than,  strictly speaking, they deserve; but as they have contributed to vitiate  the taste, and enervate the understanding of many of my  fellow-creatures, I could not pass them silently over. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       Such paternal solicitude pervades Dr. Gregory's Legacy to his  Daughters, that I enter on the task of criticism with affectionate  respect; but as this little volume has many attractions to recommend it  to the notice of the most respectable part of my sex, I cannot silently  pass over arguments that so speciously support opinions which, I think,  have had the most baneful effect on the morals and manners of the female  world. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      His easy familiar style is particularly suited to  the tenor of his advice, and the melancholy tenderness which his respect  for the memory of a beloved wife, diffuses through the whole work,  renders it very interesting; yet there is a degree of concise elegance  conspicuous in many passages that disturbs this sympathy; and we pop on  the author, when we only expected to meet the-father. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, having two objects in view, he seldom adhered steadily to  either; for wishing to make his daughters amiable, and fearing lest  unhappiness should only be the consequence, of instilling sentiments  that might draw them out of the track of common life without enabling  them to act with consonant independence and dignity, he checks the  natural flow of his thoughts, and neither advises one thing nor the  other. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In the preface he tells them a mournful truth, 'that  they will hear, at least once in their lives, the genuine sentiments of  a man who has no interest in deceiving them.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Hapless  woman! what can be expected from thee when the beings on whom thou art  said naturally to depend for reason and support, have all an interest in  deceiving thee! This is the root of the evil that has shed a corroding  mildew on all thy virtues; and blighting in the bud thy opening  faculties, has rendered thee the weak thing thou art! It is this  separate interest-this insidious state of warfare, that undermines  morality, and divides mankind! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If love have made some women  wretched-how many more has the cold unmeaning intercourse of gallantry  rendered vain and useless! yet this heartless attention to the sex is  reckoned so manly, so polite that, till society is very differently  organized, I fear, this vestige of gothic manners will not be done away  by a more reasonable and affectionate mode of conduct. Besides, to strip  it of its imaginary dignity, I must observe, that in the most  uncivilized European states this lip-service prevails in a very great  degree, accompanied with extreme dissoluteness of morals. In Portugal,  the country that I particularly allude to, it takes place of the most  serious moral obligations; for a man is seldom assassinated when in the  company of a woman. The savage hand of rapine is unnerved by this  chivalrous spirit; and, if the stroke of vengeance cannot be stayed-the  lady is entreated to pardon the rudeness and depart in peace, though  sprinkled, perhaps, with her husband's or brother's blood. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I shall pass over his strictures on religion, because I mean to discuss that subject in a separate chapter. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The remarks relative to behaviour, though many of them very sensible,  I entirely disapprove of, because it appears to me to be beginning, as  it were, at the wrong end. A cultivated understanding, and an  affectionate heart, will never want starched rules of decorum-something  more substantial than seemliness will be the result; and, without  understanding the behaviour here recommended, would be rank affectation.  Decorum, indeed, is the one thing needful!-decorum is to supplant  nature, and banish all simplicity and variety of character out of the  female world. Yet what good end can all this superficial counsel  produce? It is, however, much easier to point out this or that mode of  behaviour, than to set the reason to work; but, when the mind has been  stored with useful knowledge, and strengthened by being employed, the  regulation of the behaviour may safely be left to its guidance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Why, for instance, should the following caution be given when art of  every kind must contaminate the mind; and why entangle the grand motives  of action, which reason and religion equally combine to enforce, with  pitiful worldly shifts and slight of hand tricks to gain the applause of  gaping tasteless fools? 'Be even cautious in displaying your good  sense. &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n35"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;35&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  It will be thought you assume a superiority over the rest of the  company-But if you happen to have any learning, keep it a profound  secret, especially from the men who generally look with a jealous and  malignant eye on a woman of great parts, and a cultivated  understanding.' If men of real merit, as he afterwards observes, be  superior to this meanness, where is the necessity that the behaviour of  the whole sex should be modulated to please fools, or men, who having  little claim to respect as individuals, choose to keep close in their  phalanx. Men, indeed, who insist on their common superiority, having  only this sexual superiority, are certainly very excusable. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;       There would be no end to rules for behaviour, if it be proper always  to adopt the tone of the company; for thus, for ever varying the key, a  flat would often pass for a natural note. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Surely it would  have been wiser to have advised women to improve themselves till they  rose above the fumes of vanity; and then to let the public opinion come  round-for where are rules of accommodation to stop? The narrow path of  truth and virtue inclines neither to the right nor left-it is a  straightforward business, and they who are earnestly pursuing their  road, may bound over many decorous prejudices, without leaving modesty  behind. Make the heart clean, and give the head employment, and I will  venture to predict that there will be nothing offensive in the  behaviour. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The air of fashion, which many young people are  so eager to attain, always strikes me like the studied attitudes of some  modern pictures, copied with tasteless servility after the  antiques;-the soul is left out, and none of the parts are tied together  by what may properly be termed character. This varnish of fashion, which  seldom sticks very close to sense, may dazzle the weak; but leave  nature to itself, and it will seldom disgust the wise. Besides, when a  woman has sufficient sense not to pretend to any thing which she does  not understand in some degree, there is no need of determining to hide  her talents under a bushel. Let things take their natural course, and  all will be well. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is this system of dissimulation,  throughout the volume, that I despise. Women are always to seem to be  this and that-yet virtue might apostrophize them, in the words of  Hamlet-Seems! I know not seems!-Have that within that passeth show!-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Still the same tone occurs; for in another place, after recommending,  without sufficiently discriminating delicacy, he adds, 'The men will  complain of your reserve. They will assure you that a franker behaviour  would make you more amiable. But, trust me, they are not sincere when  they tell you so.-I acknowledge that on some occasions it might render  you more agreeable as companions, but it would make you less amiable as  women: an important distinction, which many of your sex are not aware  of.'-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This desire of being always women, is the very  consciousness that degrades the sex. Excepting with a lover, I must  repeat with emphasis, a former observation,-it would be well if they  were only agreeable or rational companions.-But in this respect his  advice is even inconsistent with a passage which I mean to quote with  the most marked approbation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'The sentiment, that a woman  may allow all innocent freedoms, provided her virtue is secure, is both  grossly indelicate and dangerous, and has proved fatal to many of your  sex.' With this opinion I perfectly coincide. A man, or a woman, of any  feeling, must always wish to convince a beloved object that it is the  caresses of the individual, not the sex, that are received and returned  with pleasure; and, that the heart, rather than the senses, is moved.  Without this natural delicacy, love becomes a selfish personal  gratification that soon degrades the character. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I carry  this sentiment still further. Affection, when love is out of the  question, authorises many personal endearments, that naturally, flowing  from an innocent heart, give life to the behaviour; but the personal  intercourse of appetite, gallantry, or vanity, is despicable. When a man  squeezes the hand of a pretty woman, handing her to a carriage, whom he  has never seen before, she will consider such an impertinent freedom in  the light of an insult, if she have any true delicacy, instead of being  flattered by this unmeaning homage to beauty. These are the privileges  of friendship, or the momentary homage which the heart pays to virtue,  when it flashes suddenly on the notice-mere animal spirits have no claim  to the kindnesses of affection! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Wishing to feed the  affections with what is now the food of vanity, I would fain persuade my  sex to act from simpler principles. Let them merit love, and they will  obtain it, though they may never be told that-'The power of a fine woman  over the hearts of men, of men of the finest parts, is even beyond what  she conceives.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have already noticed the narrow cautions  with respect to duplicity, female softness, delicacy of constitution;  for these are the changes which he rings round without ceasing-in a more  decorous manner, it is true, than Rousseau; but it all comes home to  the same point, and whoever is at the trouble to analyze these  sentiments, will find the first principles not quite so delicate as the  superstructure. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The subject of amusements is treated in too cursory a manner, but with the same spirit. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       When I treat of friendship, love, and marriage, it will be found that  we materially differ in opinion; I shall not then forestall what I have  to observe on these important subjects; but confine my remarks to the  general tenor of them, to that cautious family prudence, to those  confined views of partial unenlightened affection, which exclude  pleasure and improvement, by vainly wishing to ward off sorrow and  error-and by thus guarding the heart and mind, destroy also all their  energy.-It is far better to be often deceived than never to trust; to be  disappointed in love than never to love; to lose a husband's fondness  than forfeit his esteem. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Happy would it be for the world,  and for individuals, of course, if all this unavailing solicitude to  attain worldly happiness, on a confined plan, were turned into an  anxious desire to improve the understanding.-'Wisdom is the principal  thing: therefore get wisdom; and with all thy gettings get  understanding.'-'How long, ye simple ones, will ye love simplicity, and  hate knowledge?' Saith Wisdom to the daughters of men!-&lt;/p&gt; &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       I do not mean to allude to all the writers who have written on the  subject of female manners-it would, in fact, be only beating over the  old ground, for they have, in general, written in the same strain; but  attacking the boasted prerogative of man-the prerogative that may  emphatically be called the iron sceptre of tyranny, the original sin of  tyrants, I declare against all power built on prejudices, however hoary.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If the submission demanded be founded on justice-there is  no appealing to a higher power-for God is justice itself. Let us then,  as children of the same parent, if not bastardized by being the younger  born, reason together, and learn to submit to the authority of  reason-when her voice is distinctly heard. But, if it be proved, that  this throne of prerogative only rests on a chaotic mass of prejudices,  that have no inherent principle of order to keep them together, or on an  elephant, tortoise, or even the mighty shoulders of a son of the earth,  they may escape, who dare to brave the consequence, without any breach  of duty, without sinning against the order of things. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Whilst reason raises man above the brutal herd, and death is big with  promises, they alone are subject to blind authority who have no reliance  on their own strength. 'They are free-who will be free!'- &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n36"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;36&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       The being who can govern itself has nothing to fear in life; but if  any thing be dearer than its own respect, the price must be paid to the  last farthing. Virtue, like every thing valuable, must be loved for  herself alone; or she will not take up her abode with us. She will not  impart that peace, 'which passeth understanding,' when she is merely  made the stilts of reputation; and respected, with pharisaical  exactness, because 'honesty is the best policy.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      That the  plan of life which enables us to carry some knowledge and virtue into  another world, is the one best calculated to ensure content in this,  cannot be denied; yet few people act according to this principle, though  it be universally allowed that it admits not of dispute. Present  pleasure, or present power, carry before it these sober convictions; and  it is for the day, not for life, that man bargains with happiness. How  few!-how very few! have sufficient foresight, or resolution, to endure a  small evil at the moment, to avoid a greater hereafter. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Woman in particular, whose virtue &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n37"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;37&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  is built on mutable prejudices, seldom attains to this greatness of  mind; so that, becoming the slave of her own feelings, she is easily  subjugated by those of others. Thus degraded, her reason, her misty  reason! is employed rather to burnish than to snap her chains. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       Indignantly have I heard women argue in the same track as men, and  adopt the sentiments that brutalize them, with all the pertinacity of  ignorance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I must illustrate my assertion by a few  examples. Mrs. Piozzi, who often repeated by rote, what she did not  understand, comes forward with Johnsonian periods. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      'Seek  not for happiness in singularity; and dread a refinement of wisdom as a  deviation into folly.' Thus she dogmatically addresses a new married  man; and to elucidate this pompous exordium, she adds, 'I said that the  person of your lady would not grow more pleasing to you, but pray let  her never suspect that it grows less so: that a woman will pardon an  affront to her understanding much sooner than one to her person, is well  known; nor will any of us contradict the assertion. All our  attainments, all our arts, are employed to gain and keep the heart of  man; and what mortification can exceed the disappointment, if the end be  not obtained? There is no reproof however pointed, no punishment  however severe, that a woman of spirit will not prefer to neglect; and  if she can endure it without complaint, it only proves that she means to  make herself amends by the attention of others for the slights of her  husband!' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      These are truly masculine sentiments.-'All our  arts are employed to gain and keep the heart of man:'-and what is the  inference?-if her person, and was there ever a person, though formed  with Medicean Symmetry, that was not slighted? be neglected, she will  make herself amends by endeavouring to please other men. Noble morality!  But thus is the understanding of the whole sex affronted, and their  virtue deprived of the common basis of virtue. A woman must know, that  her person cannot be as pleasing to her husband as it was to her lover,  and if she be offended with him for being a human creature, she may as  well whine about the loss of his heart as about any other foolish  thing.-And this very want of discernment or unreasonable anger, proves  that he could not change his fondness for her person into affection for  her virtues or respect for her understanding. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Whilst women  avow, and act up to such opinions, their understandings, at least,  deserve the contempt and obloquy that men, who never insult their  persons, have pointedly levelled at the female mind. And it is the  sentiments of these polite men, who do not wish to be encumbered with  mind, that vain women thoughtlessly adopt. Yet they should know, that  insulted reason alone can spread that sacred reserve about the person,  which renders human affections, for human affections have always some  base alloy, as permanent as is consistent with the grand end of  existence-the attainment of virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The Baroness de Stael  speaks the same language as the lady just cited, with more enthusiasm.  Her eulogium on Rousseau was accidentally put into my hands, and her  sentiments, the sentiments of too many of my sex, may serve as the text  for a few comments. 'Though Rousseau,' she observes, 'has endeavoured to  prevent women from interfering in public affairs, and acting a  brilliant part in the theatre of politics; yet in speaking of them, how  much has he done it to their satisfaction! If he wished to deprive them  of some rights foreign to their sex, how has he for ever restored to  them all those to which it has a claim! And in attempting to diminish  their influence over the deliberations of men, how sacredly has he  established the empire they have over their happiness! In aiding them to  descend from an usurped throne, he has firmly seated them upon that to  which they were destined by nature; and though he be full of indignation  against them when they endeavour to resemble men, yet when they come  before him with all the charms, weaknesses, virtues and errors, of their  sex, his respect for their persons amounts almost to adoration.'  True!-For never was there a sensualist who paid more fervent adoration  at the shrine of beauty. So devout, indeed, was his respect for the  person, that excepting the virtue of chastity, for obvious reasons, he  only wished to see it embellished by charms, weaknesses, and errors. He  was afraid lest the austerity of reason should disturb the soft  playfulness of love. The master wished to have a meretricious slave to  fondle, entirely dependent on his reason and bounty; he did not want a  companion, whom he should be compelled to esteem, or a friend to whom he  could confide the care of his children's education, should death  deprive them of their father, before he had fulfilled the sacred task.  He denies woman reason, shuts her out from knowledge, and turns her  aside from truth; yet his pardon is granted, because 'he admits the  passion of love.' It would require some ingenuity to shew why women were  to be under such an obligation to him for thus admitting love; when it  is clear that he admits it only for the relaxation of men, and to  perpetuate the species; but he talked with passion, and that powerful  spell worked on the sensibility of a young encomiast. 'What signifies  it,' pursues this rhapsodist, 'to women, that his reason disputes with  them the empire, when his heart is devotedly theirs.' It is not  empire,-but equality, that they should contend for. Yet, if they only  wished to lengthen out their sway, they should not entirely trust to  their persons, for though beauty may gain a heart, it cannot keep it,  even while the beauty is in full bloom, unless the mind lend, at least,  some graces. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When women are once sufficiently enlightened  to discover their real interest, on a grand scale, they will, I am  persuaded, be very ready to resign all the prerogatives of love, that  are not mutual, speaking of them as lasting prerogatives, for the calm  satisfaction of friendship, and the tender confidence of habitual  esteem. Before marriage they will not assume any insolent airs, or  afterwards abjectly submit; but endeavouring to act like reasonable  creatures, in both situations, they will not be tumbled from a throne to  a stool. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Madame Genlis has written several entertaining  books for children; and her Letters on Education afford many useful  hints, that sensible parents will certainly avail themselves of; but her  views are narrow, and her prejudices as unreasonable as strong. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I shall pass over her vehement argument in favour of the eternity of  future punishments, because I blush to think that a human being should  ever argue vehemently in such a cause, and only make a few remarks on  her absurd manner of making the parental authority supplant reason. For  every where does she inculcate not only blind submission to parents; but  to the opinion of the world.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n38"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;38&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       She tells a story of a young man engaged by his father's express  desire to a girl of fortune. Before the marriage could take place, she  is deprived of her fortune, and thrown friendless on the world. The  father practises the most infamous arts to separate his son from her,  and when the son detects his villany, and following the dictates of  honour marries the girl, nothing but misery ensues, because forsooth he  married without his father's consent. On what ground can religion or  morality rest when justice is thus set as defiance? With the same view  she represents an accomplished young woman, as ready to marry any body  that her mama pleased to recommend; and, as actually marrying the young  man of her own choice, without feeling any emotions of passion, because  that a well educated girl had not time to be in love. Is it possible to  have much respect for a system of education that thus insults reason and  nature? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Many similar opinions occur in her writings, mixed  with sentiments that do honour to her head and heart. Yet so much  superstition is mixed with her religion, and so much worldly wisdom with  her morality, that I should not let a young person read her works,  unless I could afterwards converse on the subjects, and point out the  contradictions. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Mrs. Chapone's Letters are written with  such good sense, and unaffected humility, and contain so many useful  observations, that I only mention them to pay the worthy writer this  tribute of respect. I cannot, it is true, always coincide in opinion  with her; but I always respect her. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The very word respect  brings Mrs. Macaulay to my remembrance. The woman of the greatest  abilities, undoubtedly, that this country has ever produced.-And yet  this woman has been suffered to die without sufficient respect being  paid to her memory. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Posterity, however, will be more just;  and remember that Catharine Macaulay was an example of intellectual  acquirements supposed to be incompatible with the weakness of her sex.  In her style of writing, indeed, no sex appears, for it is like the  sense it conveys, strong and clear. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I will not call hers a  masculine understanding, because I admit not of such an arrogant  assumption of reason; but I contend that it was a sound one, and that  her judgment, the matured fruit of profound thinking, was a proof that a  woman can acquire judgment, in the full extent of the word. Possessing  more penetration than sagacity, more understanding than fancy, she  writes with sober energy and argumentative closeness; yet sympathy and  benevolence give an interest to her sentiments, and that vital heat to  arguments, which forces the reader to weigh them.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n39"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;39&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       When I first thought of writing these strictures I anticipated Mrs.  Macaulay's approbation, with a little of that sanguine ardour, which it  has been the business of my life to depress; but soon heard with the  sickly qualm of disappointed hope; and the still seriousness of  regret-that she was no more! &lt;/p&gt; &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       Taking a view of the different works which have been written on  education, Lord Chesterfield's Letters must not be silently passed over.  Not that I mean to analyze his unmanly, immoral system, or even to cull  any of the useful, shrewd remarks which occur in his epistles-No, I  only mean to make a few reflections on the avowed tendency of them-the  art of acquiring an early knowledge of the world. An art, I will venture  to assert, that preys secretly, like the worm in the bud, on the  expanding powers, and turns to poison the generous juices which should  mount with vigour in the youthful frame, inspiring warm affections and  great resolves.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n40"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;40&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       For every thing, saith the wise man, there is a season;-and who would  look for the fruits of autumn during the genial months of spring? But  this is mere declamation, and I mean to reason with those worldly-wise  instructors, who, instead of cultivating the judgment, instill  prejudices, and render hard the heart that gradual experience would only  have cooled. An early acquaintance with human infirmities; or, what is  termed knowledge of the world, is the surest way, in my opinion, to  contract the heart and damp the natural youthful ardour which produces  not only great talents, but great virtues. For the vain attempt to bring  forth the fruit of experience, before the sapling has thrown out its  leaves, only exhausts its strength, and prevents its assuming a natural  form; just as the form and strength of subsiding metals are injured when  the attraction of cohesion is disturbed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Tell me, ye who  have studied the human mind, is it not a strange way to fix principles  by showing young people that they are seldom stable? And how can they be  fortified by habits when they are proved to be fallacious by example?  Why is the ardour of youth thus to be damped, and the luxuriancy of  fancy cut to the quick? This dry caution may, it is true, guard a  character from worldly mischances; but will infallibly preclude  excellence in either virtue or knowledge. &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n41"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;41&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  The stumbling-block thrown across every path by suspicion, will prevent  any vigorous exertions of genius or benevolence, and life will be  stripped of its most alluring charm long before its calm evening, when  man should retire to contemplation for comfort and support. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       A young man who has been bred up with domestic friends, and led to  store his mind with as much speculative knowledge as can be acquired by  reading and the natural reflections which youthful ebullitions of animal  spirits and instinctive feelings inspire, will enter the world with  warm and erroneous expectations. But this appears to be the course of  nature; and in morals, as well as in works of taste, we should be  observant of her sacred indications, and not presume to lead when we  ought obsequiously to follow. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In the world few people act  from principle; present feelings, and early habits, are the grand  springs: but how would the former be deadened, and the latter rendered  iron corroding fetters, if the world were shewn to young people just as  it is; when no knowledge of mankind or their own hearts, slowly obtained  by experience, rendered them forbearing? Their fellow creatures would  not then be viewed as frail beings; like themselves, condemned to  struggle with human infirmities, and sometimes displaying the light, and  sometimes the dark side of their character; extorting alternate  feelings of love and disgust; but guarded against as beasts of prey,  till every enlarged social feeling, in a word,-humanity, was eradicated.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In life, on the contrary, as we gradually discover the  imperfections of our nature, we discover virtues, and various  circumstances attach us to our fellow creatures, when we mix with them,  and view the same objects, that are never thought of in acquiring a  hasty unnatural knowledge of the world. We see a folly swell into a  vice, by almost imperceptible degrees, and pity while we blame; but, if  the hideous monster burst suddenly on our sight, fear and disgust  rendering us more severe than man ought to be, might lead us with blind  zeal to usurp the character of omnipotence, and denounce damnation on  our fellow mortals, forgetting that we cannot read the heart, and that  we have seeds of the same vices lurking in our own. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have  already remarked that we expect more from instruction, than mere  instruction can produce: for, instead of preparing young people to  encounter the evils of life with dignity and to acquire wisdom and  virtue by the exercise of their own faculties, precepts are heaped upon  precepts, and blind obedience required, when conviction should be  brought home to reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Suppose, for instance, that a young  person in the first ardour of friendship deifies the beloved  object-what harm can arise from this mistaken enthusiastic attachment?  Perhaps it is necessary for virtue first to appear in a human form to  impress youthful hearts; the ideal model, which a more matured and  exalted mind looks up to, and shapes for itself, would elude their  sight. He who loves not his brother whom be hath seen, how can he love  God? asked the wisest of men. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is natural for youth to  adorn the first object of its affection with every good quality, and the  emulation produced by ignorance, or, to speak with more propriety, by  inexperience, brings forward the mind capable of forming such an  affection, and when, in the lapse of time, perfection is found not to be  within the reach of mortals, virtue, abstractedly, is thought  beautiful, and wisdom sublime. Admiration then gives place to  friendship, properly so called, because it is cemented by esteem; and  the being walks alone only dependent on heaven for that emulous panting  after perfection which ever glows in a noble mind. But this knowledge a  man must gain by the exertion of his own faculties; and this is surely  the blessed fruit of disappointed hope! for He who delighteth to diffuse  happiness and shew mercy to the weak creatures, who are learning to  know him, never implanted a good propensity to be a tormenting ignis  fatuus. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Our trees are now allowed to spread with wild  luxuriance, nor do we expect by force to combine the majestic marks of  time with youthful graces; but wait patiently till they have struck deep  their root, and braved many a storm.-Is the mind then, which, in  proportion to its dignity, advances more slowly towards perfection, to  be treated with less respect? To argue from analogy, every thing around  us is in a progressive state; and when an unwelcome knowledge of life  produces almost a satiety of life, and we discover by the natural course  of things that all that is done under the sun is vanity, we are drawing  near the awful close of the drama. The days of activity and hope are  over, and the opportunities which the first stage of existence has  afforded of advancing in the scale of intelligence, must soon be summed  up.-A knowledge at this period of the futility of life, or earlier, if  obtained by experience, is very useful, because it is natural; but when a  frail being is shewn the follies and vices of man, that be may be  taught prudently to guard against the common casualties of life by  sacrificing his heart-surely it is not speaking harshly to call it the  wisdom of this world, contrasted with the nobler fruit of piety and  experience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I will venture a paradox, and deliver my  opinion without reserve; if men were only born to form a circle of life  and death, it would be wise to take every step that foresight could  suggest to render life happy. Moderation in every pursuit would then be  supreme wisdom; and the prudent voluptuary might enjoy a degree of  content, though he neither cultivated his understanding nor kept his  heart pure. Prudence, supposing we were mortal, would be true wisdom,  or, to be more explicit, would procure the greatest portion of  happiness, considering the whole of life, but knowledge beyond the  conveniences of life would be a curse. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Why should we injure  our health by close study? The exalted pleasure which intellectual  pursuits afford would scarcely be equivalent to the hours of languor  that follow; especially, if it be necessary to take into the reckoning  the doubts and disappointments that cloud our researches. Vanity and  vexation close every inquiry: for the cause which we particularly wished  to discover flies like the horizon before us as we advance. The  ignorant, on the contrary, resemble children, and suppose, that if they  could walk straight forward they should at last arrive where the earth  and clouds meet. Yet, disappointed as we are in our researches, the mind  gains strength by the exercise, sufficient, perhaps, to comprehend the  answers which, in another step of existence, it may receive to the  anxious questions it asked, when the understanding with feeble wing was  fluttering round the visible effects to dive into the hidden cause. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The passions also, the winds of life, would be useless, if not  injurious, did the substance which composes our thinking being, after we  have thought in vain, only become the support of vegetable life, and  invigorate a cabbage, or blush in a rose. The appetites would answer  every earthly purpose, and produce more moderate and permanent  happiness. But the powers of the soul that are of little use here, and,  probably, disturb our animal enjoyments, even while conscious dignity  makes us glory in possessing them, prove that life is merely an  education, a state of infancy, to which the only hopes worth cherishing  should not be sacrificed. I mean, therefore, to infer, that we ought to  have a precise idea of what we wish to attain by education, for the  immortality of the soul is contradicted by the actions of many people  who firmly profess the belief. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If you mean to secure ease  and prosperity on earth as the first consideration, and leave futurity  to provide for itself; you act prudently in giving your child an early  insight into the weaknesses of his nature. You may not, it is true, make  an Inkle of him; but do not imagine that he will stick to more than the  letter of the law, who has very early imbibed a mean opinion of human  nature; nor will he think it necessary to rise much above the common  standard. He may avoid gross vices, because honesty is the best policy;  but he will never aim at attaining great virtues. The example of writers  and artists will illustrate this remark. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I must therefore  venture to doubt whether what has been thought an axiom in morals may  not have been a dogmatical assertion made by men who have coolly seen  mankind through the medium of books, and say, in direct contradiction to  them, that the regulation of the passions is not, always, wisdom.-On  the contrary, it should seem, that one reason why men have superiour  judgment, and more fortitude than women, is undoubtedly this, that they  give a freer scope to the grand passions, and by more frequently going  astray enlarge their minds. If then by the exercise of their own &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n42"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;42&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  reason they fix on some stable principle, they have probably to thank  the force of their passions, nourished by false views of life, and  permitted to overleap the boundary that secures content. But if, in the  dawn of life, we could soberly survey the scenes before as in  perspective, and see every thing in its true colours, how could the  passions gain sufficient strength to unfold the faculties? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;       Let me now as from an eminence survey the world stripped of all its  false delusive charms. The clear atmosphere enables me to see each  object in its true point of view, while my heart is still. I am calm as  the prospect in a morning when the mists, slowly dispersing, silently  unveil the beauties of nature, refreshed by rest. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In what light will the world now appear?-I rub my eyes and think, perchance, that I am just awaking from a lively dream. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I see the sons and daughters of men pursuing shadows, and anxiously  wasting their powers to feed passions which have no adequate object-if  the very excess of these blind impulses, pampered by that lying, yet  constantly trusted guide, the imagination, did not, by preparing them  for some other state, render short-sighted mortals wiser without their  own concurrence; or, what comes to the same thing, when they were  pursuing some imaginary present good. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      After viewing objects  in this light, it would not be very fanciful to imagine that this world  was a stage on which a pantomime is daily performed for the amusement  of superiour beings. How would they be diverted to see the ambitious man  consuming himself by running after a phantom, and, 'pursuing the bubble  fame in the cannon's mouth' that was to blow him to nothing: for when  consciousness is lost, it matters not whether we mount in a whirlwind or  descend in rain. And should they compassionately invigorate his sight  and shew him the thorny path which led to eminence, that like a  quicksand sinks as he ascends, disappointing his hopes when almost  within his grasp, would he not leave to others the honour of amusing  them, and labour to secure the present moment, though from the  constitution of his nature he would not find it very easy to catch the  flying stream? Such slaves are we to hope and fear! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But,  vain as the ambitious man's pursuits would be, he is often striving for  something more substantial than fame-that indeed would be the veriest  meteor, the wildest fire that could lure a man to ruin.-What! renounce  the most trifling gratification to be applauded when he should be no  more! Wherefore this struggle, whether man be mortal or immortal, if  that noble passion did not really raise the being above his fellows?-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       And love! What diverting scenes would it produce-Pantaloon's tricks  must yield to more egregious folly. To see a mortal adorn an object with  imaginary charms, and then fall down and worship the idol which he had  himself set up-how ridiculous! But what serious consequences ensue to  rob man of that portion of happiness, which the Deity by calling him  into existence has (or, on what can his attributes rest?) indubitably  promised: would not all the purposes of life have been much better  fulfilled if he had only felt what had been termed physical love? And,  would not the sight of the object, not seen through the medium of the  imagination, soon reduce the passion to an appetite, if reflection, the  noble distinction of man, did not give it force, and make it an  instrument to raise him above this earthy dross, by teaching him to love  the centre of all perfection; whose wisdom appears clearer and clearer  in the works of nature, in proportion as reason is illuminated and  exalted by contemplation, and by acquiring that love of order which the  struggles of passion produce? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The habit of reflection, and  the knowledge attained by fostering any passion, might be shewn to be  equally useful, though the object be proved equally fallacious; for they  would all appear in the same light, if they were not magnified by the  governing passion implanted in us by the Author of all good, to call  forth and strengthen the faculties of each individual, and enable it to  attain all the experience that an infant can obtain, who does certain  things, it cannot tell why. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I descend from my height, and  mixing with my fellow-creatures, feel myself hurried along the common  stream; ambition, love, hope, and fear, exert their wonted power, though  we be convinced by reason that their present and most attractive  promises are only lying dreams; but had the cold hand of circumspection  damped each generous feeling before it had left any permanent character,  or fixed some habit, what could be expected, but selfish prudence and  reason just rising above instinct? Who that has read Dean Swift's  disgusting description of the Yahoos, and insipid one of Houyhnhnm with a  philosophical eye, can avoid seeing the futility of degrading the  passions, or making man rest in contentment? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The youth  should act; for had he the experience of a grey head he would be fitter  for death than life, though his virtues, rather residing in his head  than his heart, could produce nothing great, and his understanding,  prepared for this world, would not, by its noble flights, prove that it  had a title to a better. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Besides, it is not possible to  give a young person a just view of life; he must have struggled with his  own passions before he can estimate the force of the temptation which  betrayed his brother into vice. Those who are entering life, and those  who are departing, see the world from such very different points of  view, that they can seldom think alike, unless the unfledged reason of  the former never attempted a solitary flight. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When we hear  of some daring crime-it comes full on us in the deepest shade of  turpitude, and raises indignation; but the eye that gradually saw the  darkness thicken, must observe it with more compassionate forbearance.  The world cannot be seen by an unmoved spectator, we must mix in the  throng, and feel as men feel before we can judge of their feelings. If  we mean, in short, to live in the world to grow wiser and better, and  not merely to enjoy the good things of life, we must attain a knowledge  of others at the same time that we become acquainted with  ourselves-knowledge acquired any other way only hardens the heart and  perplexes the understanding. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I may be told, that the  knowledge thus acquired, is sometimes purchased at too dear a rate. I  can only answer that I very much doubt whether any knowledge can be  attained without labour and sorrow; and those who wish to spare their  children both, should not complain, if they are neither wise nor  virtuous. They only aimed at making them prudent; and prudence, early in  life, is but the cautious craft of ignorant self-love. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I  have observed that young people, to whose education particular attention  has been paid, have, in general, been very superficial and conceited,  and far from pleasing in any respect, because they had neither the  unsuspecting warmth of youth, nor the cool depth of age. I cannot help  imputing this unnatural appearance principally to that hasty premature  instruction, which leads them presumptuously to repeat all the crude  notions they have taken upon trust, so that the careful education which  they received, makes them all their lives the slaves of prejudices. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Mental as well as bodily exertion is, at first, irksome; so much so,  that the many would fain let others both work and think for them. An  observation which I have often made will illustrate my meaning. When in a  circle of strangers, or acquaintances, a person of moderate abilities  asserts an opinion with heat, I will venture to affirm, for I have  traced this fact home, very often, that it is a prejudice. These echoes  have a high respect for the understanding of some relation or friend,  and without fully comprehending the opinions, which they are so eager to  retail, they maintain them with a degree of obstinacy, that would  surprise even the person who concocted them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I know that a  kind of fashion now prevails of respecting prejudices; and when any one  dares to face them, though actuated by humanity and armed by reason, be  is superciliously asked whether his ancestors were fools. No, I should  reply; opinions, at first, of every description, were all, probably,  considered, and therefore were founded on some reason; yet not  unfrequently, of course, it was rather a local expedient than a  fundamental principle, that would be reasonable at all times. But,  moss-covered opinions assume the disproportioned form of prejudices,  when they are indolently adopted only because age has given them a  venerable aspect, though the reason on which they were built ceases to  be a reason, or cannot be traced. Why are we to love prejudices, merely  because they are prejudices?&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n43"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;43&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  A prejudice is a fond obstinate persuasion for which we can give no  reason; for the moment a reason can be given for an opinion, it ceases  to be a prejudice, though it may be an error in judgment: and are we  then advised to cherish opinions only to set reason at defiance? This  mode of arguing, if arguing it may be called, reminds me of what is  vulgarly termed a woman's reason. For women sometimes declare that they  love, or believe, certain things, because they love, or believe them. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       It is impossible to converse with people to any purpose, who only use  affirmatives and negatives. Before you can bring them to a point, to  start fairly from, you must go back to the simple principles that were  antecedent to the prejudices broached by power; and it is ten to one but  you are stopped by the philosophical assertion, that certain principles  are as practically false as they are abstractly true.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n44"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;44&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Nay, it may be inferred, that reason has whispered some doubts, for it  generally happens that people assert their opinions with the greatest  heat when they begin to waver; striving to drive out their own doubts by  convincing their opponent, they grow angry when those gnawing doubts  are thrown back to prey on themselves. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      The fact is, that  men expect from education, what education cannot give. A sagacious  parent or tutor may strengthen the body and sharpen the instruments by  which the child is to gather knowledge; but the honey must be the reward  of the individual's own industry. It is almost as absurd to attempt to  make a youth wise by the experience of another, as to expect the body to  grow strong by the exercise which is only talked of, or seen.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n45"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;45&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Many of those children whose conduct has been most narrowly watched,  become the weakest men, because their instructors only instill certain  notions into their minds, that have no other foundation than their  authority; and if they be loved or respected, the mind is cramped in its  exertions and wavering in its advances. The business of education in  this case, is only to conduct the shooting tendrils to a proper pole;  yet after laying precept upon precept, without allowing a child to  acquire judgment itself, parents expect them to act in the same manner  by this borrowed fallacious light, as if they had illuminated it  themselves; and be, when they enter life, what their parents are at the  close. They do not consider that the tree, and even the human body, does  not strengthen its fibres till it has reached its full growth. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       There appears to be something analogous in the mind. The senses and  the imagination give a form to the character, during childhood and  youth; and the understanding, as life advances, gives firmness to the  first fair purposes of sensibility-till virtue, arising rather from the  clear conviction of reason than the impulse of the heart, morality is  made to rest on a rock against which the storms of passion vainly beat. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I hope I shall not be misunderstood when I say, that religion will  not have this condensing energy, unless it be founded on reason. If it  be merely the refuge of weakness or wild fanaticism, and not a governing  principle of conduct, drawn from self-knowledge, and a rational opinion  respecting the attributes of God, what can it be expected to produce?  The religion which consists in warming the affections, and exalting the  imagination, is only the poetical part, and may afford the individual  pleasure without rendering it a more moral being. It may be a substitute  for worldly pursuits; yet narrow, instead of enlarging the heart: but  virtue must be loved as in itself sublime and excellent, and not for the  advantages it procures or the evils it averts, if any great degree of  excellence be expected. Men will not become moral when they only build  airy castles in a future world to compensate for the disappointments  which they meet with in this; if they turn their thoughts from relative  duties to religious reveries. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Most prospects in life are  marred by the shuffling worldly wisdom of men, who, forgetting that they  cannot serve God and mammon, endeavour to blend contradictory  things.-If you wish to make your son rich, pursue one course-if you are  only anxious to make him virtuous, you must take another; but do not  imagine that you can bound from one road to the other without losing  your way.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n46"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;46&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n30"&gt;[30] I have already inserted the passage, [see note to fifth paragraph in chapter iii.]. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n31"&gt;[31] What nonsense! &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n32"&gt;[32]  What is to be the consequence, if the mother's and husband's opinion  should chance to not agree? An ignorant person cannot be reasoned out of  an error-and when persuaded to give up one prejudice for another the  mind is unsettled. Indeed, the husband may not have any religion to  teach her, though in such a situation she will be in great want of a  support to her virtue, independent of worldly considerations. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n33"&gt;[33] Rousseau's Emilius. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n34"&gt;[34] Can you?-Can you? would be the most emphatical comment, were it drawled out in a whining voice. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n35"&gt;[35]  Let women once acquire good sense-and if it deserve the name, it will  teach them; or, of what use will it be? how to employ it. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n36"&gt;[36] 'He is the true man, whom truth makes free!'-Cowper. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n37"&gt;[37] I mean to use a word that comprehends more than chastity, the sexual virtue. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n38"&gt;[38]  A person is not to act in this or that way, though convinced they are  right in so doing, because some equivocal circumstances may lead the  world to suspect that they acted from different motives.-This is  sacrificing the substance for a shadow. Let people but watch their own  hearts, and act rightly, as far as they can judge, and they may  patiently wait till the opinion of the world comes round. It is best to  be directed by a simple motive-for justice has too often been sacrificed  to propriety;-another word for convenience. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n39"&gt;[39]  Coinciding in opinion with Mrs. Macaulay relative to many branches of  education, I refer to her valuable work, instead of quoting her  sentiments to support my own. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n40"&gt;[40] That  children ought to be constantly guarded against the vices and follies of  the world, appears, to me, a very mistaken opinion; for in the course  of experience, and my eyes have looked abroad, I never knew a youth  educated in this manner, who had early imbibed these chilling  suspicions, and repeated by rote the hesitating if of age, that did not  prove a selfish character. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n41"&gt;[41] I have  already observed that an early knowledge of the world, obtained in a  natural way, by mixing in the world, has the same effect: instancing  officers and women. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n42"&gt;[42]  'I find that all is but lip-wisdom which wants experience,' says Sidney. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n43"&gt;[43] Vide Mr. Burke. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n44"&gt;[44] 'Convince a man against his will, He's of the same opinion still.'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n45"&gt;[45]  'One sees nothing when one is content to contemplate only; it is  necessary to act oneself to be able to see how others act.'-Rousseau. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n46"&gt;[46] See an excellent essay on this subject by Mrs. Barbauld, in Miscellaneous Pieces in Prose. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 6&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;The Effect Which an Early Association of Ideas Has upon the Character.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       Educated in the enervating style recommended by the writers on whom I  have been animadverting; and not having a chance, from their  subordinate state in society, to recover their lost ground, is it  surprising that women every where appear a defect in nature? Is it  surprising, when we consider what a determinate effect an early  association of ideas has on the character, that they neglect their  understandings, and turn all their attention to their persons? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The great advantages which naturally result from storing the mind  with knowledge, are obvious from the following considerations. The  association of our ideas is either habitual or instantaneous; and the  latter mode seems rather to depend on the original temperature of the  mind than on the will. When the ideas, and matters of fact, are once  taken in, they lie by for use, till some fortuitous circumstance makes  the information dart into the mind with illustrative force, that has  been received at very different periods of our lives. Like the  lightning's flash are many recollections; one idea assimilating and  explaining another, with astonishing rapidity. I do not now allude to  that quick perception of truth, which is so intuitive that it baffles  research, and makes us at a loss to determine whether it is reminiscence  or ratiocination, lost sight of in its celerity, that opens the dark  cloud. Over those instantaneous associations we have little power; for  when the mind is once enlarged by excursive flights, or profound  reflection, the raw materials will, in some degree, arrange themselves.  The understanding, it is true, may keep us from going out of drawing  when we group our thoughts, or transcribe from the imagination the warm  sketches of fancy; but the animal spirits, the individual character,  give the colouring. Over this subtile electric fluid,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n47"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;47&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  how little power do we possess, and over it how little power can reason  obtain! These fine intractable spirits appear to be the essence of  genius, and beaming in its eagle eye, produce in the most eminent degree  the happy energy of associating thoughts that surprise, delight, and  instruct. These are the glowing minds that concentrate pictures for  their fellow-creatures; forcing them to view with interest the objects  reflected from the impassioned imagination, which they passed over in  nature. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      I must be allowed to explain myself. The  generality of people cannot see or feel poetically, they want fancy, and  therefore fly from solitude in search of sensible objects; but when an  author lends them his eyes they can see as he saw, and be amused by  images they could not select, though lying before them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Education thus only supplies the man of genius with knowledge to give  variety and contrast to his associations; but there is an habitual  association of ideas, that grows 'with our growth,' which has a great  effect on the moral character of mankind; and by which a turn is given  to the mind that commonly remains throughout life. So ductile is the  understanding, and yet so stubborn, that the associations which depend  on adventitious circumstances, during the period that the body takes to  arrive at maturity, can seldom be disentangled by reason. One idea calls  up another, its old associate, and memory, faithful to the first  impressions, particularly when the intellectual powers are not employed  to cool our sensations, retraces them with mechanical exactness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       This habitual slavery, to first impressions, has a more baneful  effect on the female than the male character, because business and other  dry employments of the understanding, tend to deaden the feelings and  break associations that do violence to reason. But females, who are made  women of when they are mere children, and brought back to childhood  when they ought to leave the go-cart forever, have not sufficient  strength of mind to efface the superinductions of art that have  smothered nature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Every thing that they see or hear serves  to fix impressions, call forth emotions, and associate ideas, that give a  sexual character to the mind. False notions of beauty and delicacy stop  the growth of their limbs and produce a sickly soreness, rather than  delicacy of organs; and thus weakened by being employed in unfolding  instead of examining the first associations, forced on them by every  surrounding object, how can they attain the vigour necessary to enable  them to throw off their factitious character?-where find strength to  recur to reason and rise superiour to a system of oppression, that  blasts the fair promises of spring? This cruel association of ideas,  which every thing conspires to twist into all their habits of thinking,  or, to speak with more precision, of feeling, receives new force when  they begin to act a little for themselves; for they then perceive that  it is only through their address to excite emotions in men, that  pleasure and power are to be obtained. Besides, the books professedly  written for their instruction, which make the first impression on their  minds, all inculcate the same opinions. Educated then in worse than  Egyptian bondage, it is unreasonable, as well as cruel, to upbraid them  with faults that can scarcely be avoided, unless a degree of native  vigour be supposed, that falls to the lot of very few amongst mankind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       For instance, the severest sarcasms have been levelled against the  sex, and they have been ridiculed for repeating 'a set of phrases learnt  by rote,' when nothing could be more natural, considering the education  they receive, and that their 'highest praise is to obey, unargued'-the  will of man. If they be not allowed to have reason sufficient to govern  their own conduct-why, all they learn-must be learned by rote! And when  all their ingenuity is called forth to adjust their dress, 'a passion  for a scarlet coat,' is so natural, that it never surprised me; and,  allowing Pope's summary of their character to be just, 'that every woman  is at heart a rake,' why should they be bitterly censured for seeking a  congenial mind, and preferring a rake to a man of sense? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Rakes know how to work on their sensibility, whilst the modest merit of  reasonable men has, of course, less effect on their feelings, and they  cannot reach the heart by the way of the understanding, because they  have few sentiments in common. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It seems a little absurd to  expect women to be more reasonable than men in their likings, and still  to deny them the uncontrouled use of reason. When do men fall-in-love  with sense? When do they, with their superiour powers and advantages,  turn from the person to the mind? And how can they then expect women,  who are only taught to observe behaviour, and acquire manners rather  than morals, to despise what they have been all their lives labouring to  attain? Where are they suddenly to find judgment enough to weigh  patiently the sense of an awkward virtuous man, when his manners, of  which they are made critical judges, are rebuffing, and his conversation  cold and dull, because it does not consist of pretty repartees, or well  turned compliments? In order to admire or esteem any thing for a  continuance, we must, at least, have our curiosity excited by knowing,  in some degree, what we admire; for we are unable to estimate the value  of qualities and virtues above our comprehension. Such a respect, when  it is felt, may be very sublime; and the confused consciousness of  humility may render the dependent creature an interesting object, in  some points of view; but human love must have grosser ingredients; and  the person very naturally will come in for its share-and, an ample share  it mostly has! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Love is, in a great degree, an arbitrary  passion, and will reign, like some other stalking mischiefs, by its own  authority, without deigning to reason; and it may also be easily  distinguished from esteem, the foundation of friendship, because it is  often excited by evanescent beauties and graces, though, to give an  energy to the sentiment, something more solid must deepen their  impression and set the imagination to work, to make the most fair-the  first good. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Common passions are excited by common  qualities.-Men look for beauty and the simper of good-humoured docility:  women are captivated by easy manners; a gentleman-like man seldom fails  to please them, and their thirsty ears eagerly drink the insinuating  nothings of politeness, whilst they turn from the unintelligible sounds  of the charmer-reason, charm he never so wisely. With respect to  superficial accomplishments, the rake certainly has the advantage; and  of these females can form an opinion, for it is their own ground.  Rendered gay and giddy by the whole tenor of their lives, the very  aspect of wisdom, or the severe graces of virtue, must have a lugubrious  appearance to them; and produce a kind of restraint from which they and  love, sportive child, naturally revolt. Without taste, excepting of the  lighter kind, for taste is the offspring of judgment, how can they  discover that true beauty and grace must arise from the play of the  mind? and how can they be expected to relish in a lover what they do  not, or very imperfectly, possess themselves? The sympathy that unites  hearts, and invites to confidence, in them is so very faint, that it  cannot take fire, and thus mount to passion. No, I repeat it, the love  cherished by such minds, must have grosser fewel! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The  inference is obvious; till women are led to exercise their  understandings, they should not be satirized for their attachment to  rakes; or even for being rakes at heart, when it appears to be the  inevitable consequence of their education. They who live to please-must  find their enjoyments, their happiness, in pleasure! It is a trite, yet  true remark, that we never do any thing well, unless we love it for its  own sake. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Supposing, however, for a moment, that women  were, in some future revolution of time, to become, what I sincerely  wish them to be, even love would acquire more serious dignity, and be  purified in its own fires; and virtue giving true delicacy to their  affections, they would turn with disgust from a rake. Reasoning then, as  well as feeling, the only province of woman, at present, they might  easily guard against exteriour graces, and quickly learn to despise the  sensibility that had been excited and hackneyed in the ways of women,  whose trade was vice; and allurements, wanton airs. They would recollect  that the flame, one must use appropriated expressions, which they  wished to light up, had been exhausted by lust, and that the sated  appetite, losing all relish for pure and simple pleasures, could only be  roused by licentious arts or variety. What satisfaction could a woman  of delicacy promise herself in a union with such a man, when the very  artlessness of her affection might appear insipid? Thus does Dryden  describe the situation, &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt;-'Where love is duty, on the female side,&lt;br /&gt;'On theirs mere sensual gust, and sought with surly pride.' &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       But one grand truth women have yet to learn, though much it imports  them to act accordingly. In the choice of a husband, they should not be  led astray by the qualities of a lover-for a lover the husband, even  supposing him to be wise and virtuous, cannot long remain. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Were women more rationally educated, could they take a more  comprehensive view of things, they would be contented to love but once  in their lives; and after marriage calmly let passion subside into  friendship-into that tender intimacy, which is the best refuge from  care; yet is built on such pure, still affections, that idle jealousies  would not be allowed to disturb the discharge of the sober duties of  life, or to engross the thoughts that ought to be otherwise employed.  This is a state in which many men live; but few, very few women. And the  difference may easily be accounted for, without recurring to a sexual  character. Men, for whom we are told women were made, have too much  occupied the thoughts of women; and this association has so entangled  love with all their motives of action; and, to harp a little on an old  string, having been solely employed either to prepare themselves to  excite love, or actually putting their lessons in practice, they cannot  live without love. But, when a sense of duty, or fear of shame, obliges  them to restrain this pampered desire of pleasing beyond certain  lengths, too far for delicacy, it is true, though far from criminality,  they obstinately determine to love, I speak of the passion, their  husbands to the end of the chapter-and then acting the part which they  foolishly exacted from their lovers, they become abject wooers, and fond  slaves. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Men of wit and fancy are often rakes; and fancy is  the food of love. Such men will inspire passion. Half the sex, in its  present infantine state, would pine for a Lovelace; a man so witty, so  graceful, and so valiant: and can they deserve blame for acting  according to principles so constantly inculcated? They want a lover, and  protector; and behold him kneeling before them-bravery prostrate to  beauty! The virtues of a husband are thus thrown by love into the  background, and gay hopes, or lively emotions, banish reflection till  the day of reckoning comes; and come it surely will, to turn the  sprightly lover into a surly suspicious tyrant, who contemptuously  insults the very weakness he fostered. Or, supposing the rake reformed,  he cannot quickly get rid of old habits. When a man of abilities is  first carried away by his passions, it is necessary that sentiment and  taste varnish the enormities of vice, and give a zest to brutal  indulgences; but when the gloss of novelty is worn off, and pleasure  palls upon the sense, lasciviousness becomes barefaced, and enjoyment  only the desperate effort of weakness flying from reflection as from a  legion of devils. Oh! virtue, thou art not an empty name! All that life  can give-thou givest! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If much comfort cannot be expected  from the friendship of a reformed rake of superiour abilities, what is  the consequence when he lacketh sense, as well as principles? Verily  misery, in its most hideous shape. When the habits of weak people are  consolidated by time, a reformation is barely possible; and actually  makes the beings miserable who have not sufficient mind to be amused by  innocent pleasure; like the tradesman who retires from the hurry of  business, nature presents to them only a universal blank; and the  restless thoughts prey on the damped spirits.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n48"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;48&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Their reformation, as well as his retirement, actually makes them  wretched because it deprives them of all employment, by quenching the  hopes and fears that set in motion their sluggish minds. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       If such be the force of habit; if such be the bondage of folly, how  carefully ought we to guard the mind from storing up vicious  associations; and equally careful should we be to cultivate the  understanding, to save the poor wight from the weak dependent state of  even harmless ignorance. For it is the right use of reason alone which  makes us independent of every thing-excepting the unclouded  Reason-'Whose service is perfect freedom.'  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n47"&gt;[47]  I have sometimes, when inclined to laugh at materialists, asked  whether, as the most powerful effects in nature are apparently produced  by fluids, the magnetic, &amp;amp;c. the passions might not be fine volatile  fluids that embraced humanity, keeping the more refractory elementary  parts together-or whether they were simply a liquid fire that pervaded  the more sluggish materials, giving them life and heat? &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n48"&gt;[48]  I have frequently seen this exemplified in women whose beauty could no  longer be repaired. They have retired from the noisy scenes of  dissipation; but, unless they became methodists, the solitude of the  select society of their family connections or acquaintance, has  presented only a fearful void; consequently, nervous complaints, and all  the vapourish train of idleness, rendered them quite as useless, and  far more unhappy, than when they joined the giddy throng. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 7&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Modesty.-Comprehensively Considered, and Not as a Sexual Virtue.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       Modesty! Sacred offspring of sensibility and reason!-true delicacy of  mind!-may I unblamed presume to investigate thy nature, and trace to  its covert the mild charm, that mellowing each harsh feature of a  character, renders what would otherwise only inspire cold  admiration-lovely!-Thou that smoothest the wrinkles of wisdom, and  softenest the tone of the sublimest virtues till they all melt into  humanity;-thou that spreadest the ethereal cloud that, surrounding love,  heightens every beauty, it half shades, breathing those coy sweets that  steal into the heart, and charm the senses-modulate for me the language  of persuasive reason, till I rouse my sex from the flowery bed, on  which they supinely sleep life away! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In speaking of the  association of our ideas, I have noticed two distinct modes; and in  defining modesty, it appears to me equally proper to discriminate that  purity of mind, which is the effect of chastity, from a simplicity of  character that leads us to form a just opinion of ourselves, equally  distant from vanity or presumption, though by no means incompatible with  a lofty consciousness of our own dignity. Modesty, in the latter  signification of the term, is, that soberness of mind which teaches a  man not to think more highly of himself than he ought to think, and  should be distinguished from humility, because humility is a kind of  self-abasement. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A modest man often conceives a great plan,  and tenaciously adheres to it, conscious of his own strength, till  success gives it a sanction that determines its character. Milton was  not arrogant when he suffered a suggestion of judgment to escape him  that proved a prophesy; nor was General Washington when he accepted of  the command of the American forces. The latter has always been  characterized as a modest man; but had he been merely humble, he would  probably have shrunk back irresolute, afraid of trusting to himself the  direction of an enterprise, on which so much depended. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A  modest man is steady, an humble man timid, and a vain one  presumptuous:-this is the judgment, which the observation of many  characters, has led me to form. Jesus Christ was modest, Moses was  humble, and Peter vain. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Thus, discriminating modesty from  humility in one case, I do not mean to confound it with bashfulness in  the other. Bashfulness, in fact, is so distinct from modesty, that the  most bashful lass, or raw country lout, often become the most impudent;  for their bashfulness being merely the instinctive timidity of  ignorance, custom soon changes it into assurance.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n49"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;49&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;       The shameless behaviour of the prostitutes, who infest the streets of  this metropolis, raising alternate emotions of pity and disgust, may  serve to illustrate this remark. They trample on virgin bashfulness with  a sort of bravado, and glorying in their shame, become more audaciously  lewd than men, however depraved, to whom this sexual quality has not  been gratuitously granted, ever appear to be. But these poor ignorant  wretches never had any modesty to lose, when they consigned themselves  to infamy; for modesty is a virtue, not a quality. No, they were only  bashful, shame-faced innocents; and losing their innocence, their  shame-facedness was rudely brushed off; a virtue would have left some  vestiges in the mind, had it been sacrificed to passion, to make us  respect the grand ruin. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Purity of mind, or that genuine  delicacy, which is the only virtuous support of chastity, is near akin  to that refinement of humanity, which never resides in any but  cultivated minds. It is something nobler than innocence, it is the  delicacy of reflections, and not the coyness of ignorance. The reserve  of reason, which, like habitual cleanliness, is seldom seen in any great  degree, unless the soul is active, may easily be distinguished from  rustic shyness or wanton skittishness; and, so far from being  incompatible with knowledge, it is its fairest fruit. What a gross idea  of modesty had the writer of the following remark! 'The lady who asked  the question whether women may be instructed in the modern system of  botany, consistently with female delicacy?-was accused of ridiculous  prudery: nevertheless, if she had proposed the question to me, I should  certainly have answered-They cannot.' Thus is the fair book of knowledge  to be shut with an everlasting seal! On reading similar passages I have  reverentially lifted up my eyes and heart to Him who liveth for ever  and ever, and said, O my Father, hast Thou by the very constitution of  her nature forbid Thy child to seek Thee in the fair forms of truth?  And, can her soul be sullied by the knowledge that awfully calls her to  Thee? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have then philosophically pursued these reflections  till I inferred that those women who have most improved their reason  must have the most modesty-though a dignified sedateness of deportment  may have succeeded the playful, bewitching bashfulness of youth.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n50"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;50&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       And thus have I argued. To render chastity the virtue from which  unsophisticated modesty will naturally flow, the attention should be  called away from employments which only exercise the sensibility; and  the heart made to beat time to humanity, rather than to throb with love.  The woman who has dedicated a considerable portion of her time to  pursuits purely intellectual, and whose affections have been exercised  by humane plans of usefulness, must have more purity of mind, as a  natural consequence, than the ignorant beings whose time and thoughts  have been occupied by gay pleasures or schemes to conquer hearts.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n51"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;51&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  The regulation of the behaviour is not modesty, though those who study  rules of decorum are, in general, termed modest women. Make the heart  clean, let it expand and feel for all that is human, instead of being  narrowed by selfish passions; and let the mind frequently contemplate  subjects that exercise the understanding, without heating the  imagination, and artless modesty will give the finishing touches to the  picture. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      She who can discern the dawn of immortality, in  the streaks that shoot athwart the misty night of ignorance, promising a  clearer day, will respect, as a sacred temple, the body that enshrines  such an improvable soul. True love, likewise, spreads this kind of  mysterious sanctity round the beloved object, making the lover most  modest when in her presence.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n52"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;52&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  So reserved is affection that, receiving or returning personal  endearments, it wishes, not only to shun the human eye, as a kind of  profanation; but to diffuse an encircling cloudy obscurity to shut out  even the saucy sparkling sunbeams. Yet, that affection does not deserve  the epithet of chaste, which does not receive a sublime gloom of tender  melancholy, that allows the mind for a moment to stand still and enjoy  the present satisfaction, when a consciousness of the Divine presence is  felt-for this must ever be the food of joy! &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      As I have  always been fond of tracing to its source in nature any prevailing  custom, I have frequently thought that it was a sentiment of affection  for whatever had touched the person of an absent or lost friend, which  gave birth to that respect for relicks, so much abused by selfish  priests. Devotion, or love, may be allowed to hallow the garments as  well as the person; for the lover must want fancy who has not a sort of  sacred respect for the glove or slipper of his mistress. He could not  confound them with vulgar things of the same kind. This fine sentiment,  perhaps, would not bear to be analyzed by the experimental  philosopher-but of such stuff is human rapture made up!-A shadowy  phantom glides before us, obscuring every other object; yet when the  soft cloud is grasped, the form melts into common air, leaving a  solitary void, or sweet perfume, stolen from the violet, that memory  long holds dear. But, I have tripped unawares on fairy ground, feeling  the balmy gale of spring stealing on me, though november frowns. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       As a sex, women are more chaste than men, and as modesty is the  effect of chastity, they may deserve to have this virtue ascribed to  them in rather an appropriated sense; yet, I must be allowed to add an  hesitating if:-for I doubt whether chastity will produce modesty, though  it may propriety of conduct, when it is merely a respect for the  opinion of the world,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n53"&gt;n53&lt;/a&gt;  and when coquetry and the lovelorn tales of novelists employ the  thoughts. Nay, from experience, and reason, I should be led to expect to  meet with more modesty amongst men than women, simply because men  exercise their understandings more than women. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      But, with  respect to propriety of behaviour, excepting one class of females,  women have evidently the advantage. What can be more disgusting than  that impudent dross of gallantry, thought so manly, which makes many men  stare insultingly at every female they meet? Can it be termed respect  for the sex? No, this loose behaviour shews such habitual depravity,  such weakness of mind, that it is vain to expect much public or private  virtue, till both men and women grow more modest-till men, curbing a  sensual fondness for the sex, or an affectation of manly assurance, more  properly speaking, impudence, treat each other with respect-unless  appetite or passion give the tone, peculiar to it, to their behaviour. I  mean even personal respect-the modest respect of humanity, and  fellow-feeling-not the libidinous mockery of gallantry, nor the insolent  condescension of protectorship. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To carry the observation  still further, modesty must heartily disclaim, and refuse to dwell with  that debauchery of mind, which leads a man coolly to bring forward,  without a blush, indecent allusions, or obscene witticisms, in the  presence of a fellow creature; women are now out of the question, for  then it is brutality. Respect for man, as man, is the foundation of  every noble sentiment. How much more modest is the libertine who obeys  the call of appetite or fancy, than the lewd joker who sets the table in  a roar! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This is one of the many instances in which the  sexual distinction respecting modesty has proved fatal to virtue and  happiness. It is, however, carried still further, and woman, weak woman!  made by her education the slave of sensibility, is required, on the  most trying occasions, to resist that sensibility. 'Can any thing,' says  Knox, 'be more absurd than keeping women in a state of ignorance, and  yet so vehemently to insist on their resisting temptation?'-Thus when  virtue or honour make it proper to check a passion, the burden is thrown  on the weaker shoulders, contrary to reason and true modesty, which, at  least, should render the self-denial mutual, to say nothing of the  generosity of bravery, supposed to be a manly virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In  the same strain runs Rousseau's and Dr. Gregory's advice respecting  modesty, strangely miscalled! for they both desire a wife to leave it in  doubt whether sensibility or weakness led her to her husband's  arms.-The woman is immodest who can let the shadow of such a doubt  remain in her husband's mind a moment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But to state the  subject in a different light.-The want of modesty, which I principally  deplore as subversive of morality, arises from the state of warfare so  strenuously supported by voluptuous men as the very essence of modesty,  though, in fact, its bane; because it is a refinement on lust, that men  fall into who have not sufficient virtue to relish the innocent  pleasures of love. A man of delicacy carries his notions of modesty  still further, for neither weakness nor sensibility will gratify him-he  looks for affection. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Again; men boast of their triumphs  over women, what do they boast of? Truly the creature of sensibility was  surprised by her sensibility into folly-into vice;&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n54"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;54&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  and the dreadful reckoning falls heavily on her own weak head, when  reason wakes. For where art thou to find comfort, forlorn and  disconsolate one? He who ought to have directed thy reason, and  supported thy weakness, has betrayed thee! In a dream of passion thou  consented to wander through flowery lawns, and heedlessly stepping over  the precipice to which thy guide, instead of guarding, lured thee, thou  startest from thy dream only to face a sneering, frowning world, and to  find thyself alone in a waste, for he that triumphed in thy weakness is  now pursuing new conquests; but for thee-there is no redemption on this  side the grave!-And what resource hast thou in an enervated mind to  raise a sinking heart? &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      But, if the sexes be really to  live in a state of warfare, if nature have pointed it out, let them act  nobly, or let pride whisper to them, that the victory is mean when they  merely vanquish sensibility. The real conquest is that over affection  not taken by surprise-when, like Heloisa, a woman gives up all the  world, deliberately, for love. I do not now consider the wisdom or  virtue of such a sacrifice, I only contend that it was a sacrifice to  affection, and not merely to sensibility, though she had her share.-And I  must be allowed to call her a modest woman, before I dismiss this part  of the subject, by saying, that till men are more chaste women will be  immodest. Where, indeed, could modest women find husbands from whom they  would not continually turn with disgust? Modesty must be equally  cultivated by both sexes, or it will ever remain a sickly hot-house  plant, whilst the affectation of it, the fig leaf borrowed by  wantonness, may give a zest to voluptuous enjoyments. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Men  will probably still insist that woman ought to have more modesty than  man; but it is not dispassionate reasoners who will most earnestly  oppose my opinion. No, they are the men of fancy, the favourites of the  sex, who outwardly respect and inwardly despise the weak creatures whom  they thus sport with. They cannot submit to resign the highest sensual  gratification, nor even to relish the epicurism of virtue-self-denial. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To take another view of the subject, confining my remarks to women. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The ridiculous falsities &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n55"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;55&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  which are told to children, from mistaken notions of modesty, tend very  early to inflame their imaginations and set their little minds to work,  respecting subjects, which nature never intended they should think of  till the body arrived at some degree of maturity; then the passions  naturally begin to take place of the senses, as instruments to unfold  the understanding, and form the moral character. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      In  nurseries, and boarding-schools, I fear, girls are first spoiled;  particularly in the latter. A number of girls sleep in the same room,  and wash together. And, though I should be sorry to contaminate an  innocent creature's mind by instilling false delicacy, or those indecent  prudish notions, which early cautions respecting the other sex  naturally engender, I should be very anxious to prevent their acquiring  nasty, or immodest habits; and as many girls have learned very nasty  tricks, from ignorant servants, the mixing them thus indiscriminately  together, is very improper. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To say the truth women are, in  general, too familiar with each other, which leads to that gross degree  of familiarity that so frequently renders the marriage state unhappy.  Why in the name of decency are sisters, female intimates, or ladies and  their waiting-women, to be so grossly familiar as to forget the respect  which one human creature owes to another? That squeamish delicacy which  shrinks from the most disgusting offices when affection  &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n56"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;56&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  or humanity lead us to watch at a sick pillow, is despicable. But, why  women in health should be more familiar with each other than men are,  when they boast of their superiour delicacy, is a solecism in manners  which I could never solve. &lt;/p&gt;     &lt;p&gt;      In order to preserve health  and beauty, I should earnestly recommend frequent ablutions, to dignify  my advice that it may not offend the fastidious ear; and, by example,  girls ought to be taught to wash and dress alone, without any  distinction of rank; and if custom should make them require some little  assistance, let them not require it till that part of the business is  over which ought never to be done before a fellow-creature; because it  is an insult to the majesty of human nature. Not on the score of  modesty, but decency; for the care which some modest women take, making  at the same time a display of that care, not to let their legs be seen,  is as childish as immodest. &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n57"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;57&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       I could proceed still further, till I animadverted on some still more  nasty customs, which men never fall into. Secrets are told-where  silence ought to reign; and that regard to cleanliness, which some  religious sects have, perhaps, carried too far, especially the Essenes,  amongst the Jews, by making that an insult to God which is only an  insult to humanity, is violated in a beastly manner. How can delicate  women obtrude on notice that part of the animal oeconomy, which is so  very disgusting? And is it not very rational to conclude, that the women  who have not been taught to respect the human nature of their own sex,  in these particulars, will not long respect the mere difference of sex  in their husbands? After their maidenish bashfulness is once lost, I, in  fact, have generally observed, that women fall into old habits; and  treat their husbands as they did their sisters or female acquaintance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, women from necessity, because their minds are not  cultivated, have recourse very often to what I familiarly term bodily  wit; and their intimacies are of the same kind. In short, with respect  to both mind and body, there are too intimate. That decent personal  reserve which is the foundation of dignity of character, must be kept up  between woman and woman, or their minds will never gain strength or  modesty. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      On this account also, I object to many females  being shut up together in nurseries, schools, or convents. I cannot  recollect without indignation, the jokes and hoyden tricks, which knots  of young women indulge themselves in, when in my youth accident threw  me, an awkward rustic, in their way. They were almost on a par with the  double meanings, which shake the convivial table when the glass has  circulated freely. But, it is vain to attempt to keep the heart pure,  unless the head is furnished with ideas, and set to work to compare  them, in order to acquire judgment, by generalizing simple ones; and  modesty, by making the understanding damp the sensibility. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       It may be thought that I lay too great a stress on personal reserve; but  it is ever the handmaid of modesty. So that were I to name the graces  that ought to adorn beauty, I should instantly exclaim, cleanliness,  neatness, and personal reserve. It is obvious, I suppose, that the  reserve I mean, has nothing sexual in it, and that I think it equally  necessary in both sexes. So necessary, indeed, is that reserve and  cleanliness which indolent women too often neglect, that I will venture  to affirm that when two or three women live in the same house, the one  will be most respected by the male part of the family, who reside with  them, leaving love entirely out of the question, who pays this kind of  habitual respect to her person. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When domestic friends meet  in a morning, there will naturally prevail an affectionate seriousness,  especially, if each look forward to the discharge of daily duties; and  it may be reckoned fanciful, but this sentiment has frequently risen  spontaneously in my mind, I have been pleased after breathing the  sweet-bracing morning air, to see the same kind of freshness in the  countenances I particularly loved; I was glad to see them braced, as it  were, for the day, and ready to run their course with the sun. The  greetings of affection in the morning are by these means more respectful  than the familiar tenderness which frequently prolongs the evening  talk. Nay, I have often felt hurt, not to say disgusted, when a friend  has appeared, whom I parted with full dressed the evening before, with  her clothes huddled on, because she chose to indulge herself in bed till  the last moment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Domestic affection can only be kept alive  by these neglected attentions; yet if men and women took half as much  pains to dress habitually neat, as they do to ornament, or rather to  disfigure, their persons, much would be done towards the attainment of  purity of mind. But women only dress to gratify men of gallantry; for  the lover is always best pleased with the simple garb that fits close to  the shape. There is an impertinence in ornaments that rebuffs  affection; because love always clings round the idea of home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       As a sex, women are habitually indolent; and every thing tends to  make them so. I do not forget the spurts of activity which sensibility  produces; but as these flights of feelings only increase the evil, they  are not to be confounded with the slow, orderly walk of reason. So great  in reality is their mental and bodily indolence, that till their body  be strengthened and their understanding enlarged by active exertions,  there is little reason to expect that modesty will take place of  bashfulness. They may find it prudent to assume its semblance; but the  fair veil will only be worn on gala days. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Perhaps, there is  not a virtue that mixes so kindly with every other as modesty.-It is  the pale moon-beam that renders more interesting every virtue it  softens, giving mild grandeur to the contracted horizon. Nothing can be  more beautiful than the poetical fiction, which makes Diana with her  silver crescent, the goddess of chastity. I have sometimes thought, that  wandering with sedate step in some lonely recess, a modest dame of  antiquity must have felt a glow of conscious dignity when, after  contemplating the soft shadowy landscape, she has invited with placid  fervour the mild reflection of her sister's beams to turn to her chaste  bosom. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A Christian has still nobler motives to incite her  to preserve her chastity and acquire modesty, for her body has been  called the Temple of the living God; of that God who requires more than  modesty of mien. His eye searcheth the heart; and let her remember, that  if she hope to find favour in the sight of purity itself, her chastity  must be founded on modesty, and not on worldly prudence; or verily a  good reputation will be her only reward; for that awful intercourse,  that sacred communication, which virtue establishes between man and his  Maker, must give rise to the wish of being pure as he is pure! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       After the foregoing remarks, it is almost superfluous to add, that I  consider all those feminine airs of maturity, which succeed bashfulness,  to which truth is sacrificed, to secure the heart of a husband, or  rather to force him to be still a lover when nature would, had she not  been interrupted in her operations, have made love give place to  friendship, as immodest. The tenderness which a man will feel for the  mother of his children is an excellent substitute for the ardour of  unsatisfied passion; but to prolong that ardour it is indelicate, not to  say immodest, for women to feign an unnatural coldness of constitution.  Women as well as men ought to have the common appetites and passions of  their nature, they are only brutal when unchecked by reason: but the  obligation to check them is the duty of mankind, not a sexual duty.  Nature, in these respects, may safely be left to herself; let women only  acquire knowledge and humanity, and love will teach them modesty.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n58"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;58&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  There is no need of falsehoods, disgusting as futile, for studied rules  of behaviour only impose on shallow observers; a man of sense soon sees  through, and despises the affectation. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      The behaviour of  young people, to each other, as men and women, is the last thing that  should be thought of in education. In fact, behaviour in most  circumstances is now so much thought of, that simplicity of character is  rarely to be seen: yet, if men were only anxious to cultivate each  virtue, and let it take root firmly in the mind, the grace resulting  from it, its natural exteriour mark, would soon strip affectation of its  flaunting plumes; because, fallacious as unstable, is the conduct that  is not founded upon truth! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Would ye, O my sisters, really  possess modesty, ye must remember that the possession of virtue, of any  denomination, is incompatible with ignorance and vanity! ye must acquire  that soberness of mind, which the exercise of duties, and the pursuit  of knowledge, alone inspire, or ye will still remain in a doubtful  dependent situation, and only be loved whilst ye are fair! The downcast  eye, the rosy blush, the retiring grace, are all proper in their season;  but modesty, being the child of reason, cannot long exist with the  sensibility that is not tempered by reflection. Besides, when love, even  innocent love, is the whole employ of your lives, your hearts will be  too soft to afford modesty that tranquil retreat, where she delights to  dwell, in close union with humanity. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n49"&gt;[49]  &lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:-1;"&gt; * 'Such is the country-maiden's fright,&lt;br /&gt;When first a red-coat is in sight;&lt;br /&gt;Behind the door she hides her face;&lt;br /&gt;Next time at distance eyes the lace:&lt;br /&gt;She now can all his terrors stand,&lt;br /&gt;Nor from his squeeze withdraws her hand,&lt;br /&gt;She plays familiar in his arms,&lt;br /&gt;And every soldier hath his charms;&lt;br /&gt;From tent to tent she spreads her flame;&lt;br /&gt;For custom conquers fear and shame.'&lt;br /&gt;-[John] Gay. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n50"&gt;[50] Modesty, is the graceful calm virtue of maturity; bashfulness, the charm of vivacious youth. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n51"&gt;[51]  I have considered, as man with man, with medical men, on anatomical  subjects; and compared the proportions of the human body with  artists-yet such modesty did I meet with, that I was never reminded by  word or look of my sex, of the absurd rules which make modesty a  pharisaical cloak of weakness. And I am persuaded that in the pursuit of  knowledge women would never be insulted by sensible men, and rarely by  men of any description, if they did not by mock modesty remind them that  they were women; actuated by the same spirit as the Portugueze ladies,  who would think their charms insulted if, when left alone with a man, he  did not, at least, attempt to be grossly familiar with their persons.  Men are not always men in the company of women, nor would women always  remember that they are women, if they were allowed to acquire more  understanding. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n52"&gt;[52]  Male or female, for the world contains many modest men. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n53"&gt;[53]  The immodest behaviour of many married women, who are nevertheless  faithful to their husbands' beds, will illustrate this remark. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n54"&gt;[54] The poor moth fluttering round a candle, burns its wings. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n55"&gt;[55]  Children very early see cats with their kittens, birds with their young  ones, &amp;amp;c. Why then, are they not to be told that their mothers  carry and nourish them in the same way? As there would then be no  appearance of mystery they would never think of the subject more. Truth  may always be told to children, if it be told gravely; but it is the  immodesty of affected modesty, that does all the mischief, and this  smoke heats the imagination by vainly endeavouring to obscure certain  objects. If, indeed, children could be kept entirely from improper  company, we should never allude to any such subjects; but as this is  impossible, it is best to tell the truth, especially as such  information, not interesting them, will make no impression on their  imagination. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n56"&gt;[56] Affection would rather  make one choose to perform these offices, to spare the delicacy of a  friend, by still keeping a veil over them, for the personal  helplessness, produced by sickness, is of an humbling nature. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n57"&gt;[57]  I remember to have met with a sentence, in a book of education, that  made me smile: 'It would be needless to caution you against putting your  hand, by chance, under your neck-handkerchief, for a modest woman never  did so!' &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n58"&gt;[58] The behaviour of many newly  married women has often disgusted me. The seem anxious never to let  their husbands forget the privilege of marriage; and to find no pleasure  in his society unless he is acting the lover. Short, indeed, must be  the reign of love, when the flame is thus constantly blown up, without  its receiving any solid fewel! &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 8&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Morality Undermined by Sexual Notions of the Importance of a Good Reputation.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       It has long since occurred to me that advice respecting behaviour,  and all the various modes of preserving a good reputation, which have  been so strenuously inculcated on the female world, were specious  poisons, that incrusting morality eat away the substance. And, that this  measuring of shadows produced a false calculation, because their length  depends so much on the height of the sun, and other adventitious  circumstances. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Whence arises the easy fallacious behaviour  of a courtier? From his situation, undoubtedly: for standing in need of  dependents, he is obliged to learn the art of denying without giving  offence, and, of evasively feeding hope with the chameleon's food: thus  does politeness sport with truth, and eating away the sincerity and  humanity natural to man, produce the fine gentleman. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Women  likewise acquire, from a supposed necessity, an equally artificial mode  of behaviour. Yet truth is not with impunity to be sported with, for the  practised dissembler, at last, becomes the dupe of his own arts, loses  that sagacity, which has been justly termed common sense; namely, a  quick perception of common truths: which are constantly received as such  by the unsophisticated mind, though it might not have had sufficient  energy to discover them itself, when obscured by local prejudices. The  greater number of people take their opinions on trust to avoid the  trouble of exercising their own minds, and these indolent beings  naturally adhere to the letter, rather than the spirit of a law, divine  or human. 'Women,' says some author, I cannot recollect who, 'mind not  what only heaven sees.' Why, indeed, should they? it is the eye of man  that they have been taught to dread-and if they can lull their Argus to  sleep, they seldom think of heaven or themselves, because their  reputation is safe; and it is reputation, not chastity and all its fair  train, that they are employed to keep free from spot, not as a virtue,  but to preserve their station in the world. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To prove the  truth of this remark, I need only advert to the intrigues of married  women, particularly in high life, and in countries where women are  suitably married, according to their respective ranks, by their parents.  If an innocent girl become a prey to love, she is degraded for ever,  though her mind was not polluted by the arts which married women, under  the convenient cloak of marriage, practise; nor has she violated any  duty-but the duty of respecting herself. The married woman, on the  contrary, breaks a most sacred engagement, and becomes a cruel mother  when she is a false and faithless wife. If her husband have still an  affection for her, the arts which she must practise to deceive him, will  render her the most contemptible of human beings; and, at any rate, the  contrivances necessary to preserve appearances, will keep her mind in  that childish, or vicious, tumult, which destroys all its energy.  Besides, in time, like those people who habitually take cordials to  raise their spirits, she will want an intrigue to give life to her  thoughts, having lost all relish for pleasures that are not highly  seasoned by hope or fear. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Sometimes married women act still more audaciously; I will mention an instance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       A woman of quality, notorious for her gallantries, though as she  still lived with her husband, nobody chose to place her in the class  where she ought to have been placed, made a point of treating with the  most insulting contempt a poor timid creature, abashed by a sense of her  former weakness, whom a neighbouring gentleman had seduced and  afterwards married. This woman had actually confounded virtue with  reputation; and, I do believe, valued herself on the propriety of her  behaviour before marriage, though when once settled to the satisfaction  of her family, she and her lord were equally faithless,-so that the half  alive heir to an immense estate came from heaven knows where! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To view this subject in another light. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I have known a number of women who, if they did not love their  husbands, loved nobody else, give themselves entirely up to vanity and  dissipation, neglecting every domestic duty; nay, even squandering away  all the money which should have been saved for their helpless younger  children, yet have plumed themselves on their unsullied reputation, as  if the whole compass of their duty as wives and mothers was only to  preserve it. Whilst other indolent women, neglecting every personal  duty, have thought that they deserved their husbands' affection,  because, forsooth, they acted in this respect with propriety. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Weak minds are always fond of resting in the ceremonials of duty, but  morality offers much simpler motives; and it were to be wished that  superficial moralists had said less respecting behaviour, and outward  observances, for unless virtue, of any kind, be built on knowledge, it  will only produce a kind of insipid decency. Respect for the opinion of  the world, has, however, been termed the principal duty of woman in the  most express words, for Rousseau declares, 'that reputation is no less  indispensable than chastity.' 'A man,' adds he, 'secure in his own good  conduct, depends only on himself, and may brave the public opinion: but a  woman, in behaving well, performs but half her duty; as what is thought  of her, is as important to her as what she really is. It follows hence,  that the system of a woman's education should, in this respect, be  directly contrary to that of ours. Opinion is the grave of virtue among  the men; but its throne among women.' It is strictly logical to infer  that the virtue that rests on opinion is merely worldly, and that it is  the virtue of a being to whom reason has been denied. But, even with  respect to the opinion of the world, I am convinced that this class of  reasoners are mistaken. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This regard for reputation,  independent of its being one of the natural rewards of virtue, however,  took its rise from a cause that I have already deplored as the grand  source of female depravity, the impossibility of regaining  respectability by a return to virtue, though men preserve theirs during  the indulgence of vice. It was natural for women then to endeavour to  preserve what once lost-was lost for ever, till this care swallowing up  every other care, reputation for chastity, became the one thing needful  to the sex. But vain is the scrupulosity of ignorance, for neither  religion nor virtue, when they reside in the heart, require such a  puerile attention to mere ceremonies, because the behaviour must, upon  the whole, be proper, when the motive is pure. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To support  my opinion I can produce very respectable authority; and the authority  of a cool reasoner ought to have weight to enforce consideration, though  not to establish a sentiment. Speaking of the general laws of morality,  Dr. Smith observes,-'That by some very extraordinary and unlucky  circumstance, a good man may come to be suspected of a crime of which he  was altogether incapable, and upon that account be most unjustly  exposed for the remaining part of his life to the horror and aversion of  mankind. By an accident of this kind he may be said to lose his all,  notwithstanding his integrity and justice, in the same manner as a  cautious man, notwithstanding his utmost circumspection, may be ruined  by an earthquake or an inundation. Accidents of the first kind, however,  are perhaps still more rare, and still more contrary to the common  course of things than those of the second; and it still remains true,  that the practice of truth, justice, and humanity, is a certain and  almost infallible method of acquiring what those virtues chiefly aim at,  the confidence and love of those we live with. A person may be easily  misrepresented with regard to a particular action; but it is scarce  possible that he should be so with regard to the general tenor of his  conduct. An innocent man may be believed to have done wrong: this,  however, will rarely happen. On the contrary, the established opinion of  the innocence of his manners will often lead us to absolve him where he  has really been in the fault, notwithstanding very strong  presumptions.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I perfectly coincide in opinion with this  writer, for I verily believe that few of either sex were ever despised  for certain vices without deserving to be despised. I speak not of the  calumny of the moment, which hovers over a character, like one of the  dense morning fogs of November, over this metropolis, till it gradually  subsides before the common light of day, I only contend that the daily  conduct of the majority prevails to stamp their character with the  impression of truth. Quietly does the clear light, shining day after  day, refute the ignorant surmise, or malicious tale, which has thrown  dirt on a pure character. A false light distorted, for a short time, its  shadow-reputation; but it seldom fails to become just when the cloud is  dispersed that produced the mistake in vision. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Many  people, undoubtedly, in several respects obtain a better reputation  than, strictly speaking, they deserve; for unremitting industry will  mostly reach its goal in all races. They who only strive for this paltry  prize, like the Pharisees, who prayed at the corners of streets, to be  seen of men, verily obtain the reward they seek; for the heart of man  cannot be read by man! Still the fair fame that is naturally reflected  by good actions, when the man is only employed to direct his steps  aright, regardless of the lookers-on, is, in general, not only more  true, but more sure. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      There are, it is true, trials when the  good man must appeal to God from the injustice of man; and amidst the  whining candour or hissings of envy, erect a pavilion in his own mind to  retire to till the rumour be overpast; nay, the darts of undeserved  censure may pierce an innocent tender bosom through with many sorrows;  but these are all exceptions to general rules. And it is according to  common laws that human behaviour ought to be regulated. The eccentric  orbit of the comet never influences astronomical calculations respecting  the invariable order established in the motion of the principal bodies  of the solar system. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I will then venture to affirm, that  after a man is arrived at maturity, the general outline of his character  in the world is just, allowing for the before-mentioned exceptions to  the rule. I do not say that a prudent, worldly-wise man, with only  negative virtues and qualities, may not sometimes obtain a smoother  reputation than a wiser or a better man. So far from it, that I am apt  to conclude from experience, that where the virtue of two people is  nearly equal, the most negative character will be liked best by the  world at large, whilst the other may have more friends in private life.  But the hills and dales, clouds and sunshine, conspicuous in the virtues  of great men, set off each other; and though they afford envious  weakness a fairer mark to shoot at, the real character will still work  its way to light, though bespattered by weak affection, or ingenious  malice.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n59"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;59&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       With respect to that anxiety to preserve a reputation hardly earned,  which leads sagacious people to analyze it, I shall not make the obvious  comment; but I am afraid that morality is very insidiously undermined,  in the female world, by the attention being turned to the shew instead  of the substance. A simple thing is thus made strangely complicated;  nay, sometimes virtue and its shadow are set at variance. We should  never, perhaps, have heard of Lucretia, had she died to preserve her  chastity instead of her reputation. If we really deserve our own good  opinion we shall commonly be respected in the world; but if we pant  after higher improvement and higher attainments, it is not sufficient to  view ourselves as we suppose that we are viewed by others, though this  has been ingeniously argued, as the foundation of our moral sentiments.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n60"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;60&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  Because each by-stander may have his own prejudices, beside the  prejudices of his age or country. We should rather endeavour to view  ourselves as we suppose that Being views us who seeth each thought ripen  into action, and whose judgment never swerves from the eternal rule of  right. Righteous are all his judgments-just as merciful! &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       The humble mind that seeketh to find favour in His sight, and calmly  examines its conduct when only His presence is felt, will seldom form a  very erroneous opinion of its own virtues. During the still hour of  self-collection the angry brow of offended justice will be fearfully  deprecated, or the tie which draws man to the Deity will be recognized  in the pure sentiment of reverential adoration, that swells the heart  without exciting any tumultuous emotions. In these solemn moments man  discovers the germ of those vices, which like the Java tree shed a  pestiferous vapour around-death is in the shade! and he perceives them  without abhorrence, because he feels himself drawn by some cord of love  to all his fellow-creatures, for whose follies he is anxious to find  every extenuation in their nature-in himself. If I, he may thus argue,  who exercise my own mind, and have been refined by tribulation, find the  serpent's egg in some fold of my heart, and crush it with difficulty,  shall not I pity those who have stamped with less vigour, or who have  heedlessly nurtured the insidious reptile till it poisoned the vital  stream it sucked? Can I, conscious of my secret sins, throw off my  fellow-creatures, and calmly see them drop into the chasm of perdition,  that yawns to receive them.-No! no! The agonized heart will cry with  suffocating impatience-I too am a man! and have vices, hid, perhaps,  from human eye, that bend me to the dust before God, and loudly tell me,  when all is mute, that we are formed of the same earth, and breathe the  same element. Humanity thus rises naturally out of humility, and twists  the cords of love that in various convolutions entangle the heart. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       This sympathy extends still further, till a man well pleased observes  force in arguments that do not carry conviction to his own bosom, and  he gladly places in the fairest light, to himself, the shews of reason  that have led others astray, rejoiced to find some reason in all the  errors of man; though before convinced that he who rules the day makes  his sun to shine on all. Yet, shaking hands thus as it were with  corruption, one foot on earth, the other with bold stride mounts to  heaven, and claims kindred with superiour natures. Virtues, unobserved  by man, drop their balmy fragrance at this cool hour, and the thirsty  land, refreshed by the pure streams of comfort that suddenly gush out,  is crowned with smiling verdure; this is the living green on which that  eye may look with complacency that is too pure to behold iniquity! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But my spirits flag; and I must silently indulge the reverie these  reflections lead to, unable to describe the sentiments, that have calmed  my soul, when watching the rising sun, a soft shower drizzling through  the leaves of neighbouring trees, seemed to fall on my languid, yet  tranquil spirits, to cool the heart that had been heated by the passions  which reason laboured to tame. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The leading principles  which run through all my disquisitions, would render it unnecessary to  enlarge on this subject, if a constant attention to keep the varnish of  the character fresh, and in good condition, were not often inculcated as  the sum total of female duty; if rules to regulate the behaviour, and  to preserve the reputation, did not too frequently supersede moral  obligations. But, with respect to reputation, the attention is confined  to a single virtue-chastity. If the honour of a woman, as it is absurdly  called, be safe, she may neglect every social duty; nay, ruin her  family by gaming and extravagance; yet still present a shameless  front-for truly she is an honourable woman! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Mrs. Macaulay  has justly observed, that 'there is but one fault which a woman of  honour may not commit with impunity.' She then justly and humanely  adds-'This has given rise to the trite and foolish observation, that the  first fault against chastity in woman has a radical power to deprave  the character. But no such frail beings come out of the hands of nature.  The human mind is built of nobler materials than to be easily  corrupted; and with all their disadvantages of situation and education,  women seldom become entirely abandoned till they are thrown into a state  of desperation, by the venomous rancour of their own sex.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, in proportion as this regard for the reputation of chastity is  prized by women, it is despised by men: and the two extremes are equally  destructive to morality. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Men are certainly more under the  influence of their appetites than women; and their appetites are more  depraved by unbridled indulgence and the fastidious contrivances of  satiety. Luxury has introduced a refinement in eating, that destroys the  constitution; and, a degree of gluttony which is so beastly, that a  perception of seemliness of behaviour must be worn out before one being  could eat immoderately in the presence of another, and afterwards  complain of the oppression that his intemperance naturally produced.  Some women, particularly French women, have also lost a sense of decency  in this respect; for they will talk very calmly of an indigestion. It  were to be wished that idleness was not allowed to generate, on the rank  soil of wealth, those swarms of summer insects that feed on  putrefaction, we should not then be disgusted by the sight of such  brutal excesses. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      There is one rule relative to behaviour  that, I think, ought to regulate every other; and it is simply to  cherish such an habitual respect for mankind as may prevent us from  disgusting a fellow-creature for the sake of a present indulgence. The  shameful indolence of many married women, and others a little advanced  in life, frequently leads them to sin against delicacy. For, though  convinced that the person is the band of union between the sexes, yet,  how often do they from sheer indolence, or, to enjoy some trifling  indulgence, disgust? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The depravity of the appetite which  brings the sexes together, has had a still more fatal effect. Nature  must ever be the standard of taste, the gauge of appetite-yet how  grossly is nature insulted by the voluptuary. Leaving the refinements of  love out of the question; nature, by making the gratification of an  appetite, in this respect, as well as every other, a natural and  imperious law to preserve the species, exalts the appetite, and mixes a  little mind and affection with a sensual gust. The feelings of a parent  mingling with an instinct merely animal, give it dignity; and the man  and woman often meeting on account of the child, a mutual interest and  affection is excited by the exercise of a common sympathy. Women then  having necessarily some duty to fulfil, more noble than to adorn their  persons, would not contentedly be the slaves of casual lust; which is  now the situation of a very considerable number who are, literally  speaking, standing dishes to which every glutton may have access. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I may be told that great as this enormity is, it only affects a  devoted part of the sex-devoted for the salvation of the rest. But,  false as every assertion might easily be proved, that recommends the  sanctioning a small evil to produce a greater good; the mischief does  not stop here, for the moral character, and peace of mind, of the  chaster part of the sex, is undermined by the conduct of the very women  to whom they allow no refuge from guilt: whom they inexorably consign to  the exercise of arts that lure their husbands from them, debauch their  sons, and force them, let not modest women start, to assume, in some  degree, the same character themselves. For I will venture to assert,  that all the causes of female weakness, as well as depravity, which I  have already enlarged on, branch out of one grand cause-want of chastity  in men. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This intemperance, so prevalent, depraves the  appetite to such a degree, that a wanton stimulus is necessary to rouse  it; but the parental design of nature is forgotten, and the mere person,  and that for a moment, alone engrosses the thoughts. So voluptuous,  indeed, often grows the lustful prowler, that he refines on female  softness. Something more soft than woman is then sought for; till, in  Italy, and Portugal, men attend the levees of equivocal beings, to sigh  for more than female languor. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To satisfy this genus of men,  women are made systematically voluptuous, and though they may not all  carry their libertinism to the same height, yet this heartless  intercourse with the sex, which they allow themselves, depraves both  sexes, because the taste of men is vitiated; and women, of all classes,  naturally square their behaviour to gratify the taste by which they  obtain pleasure and power. Women becoming, consequently, weaker, in mind  and body, than they ought to be, were one of the grand ends of their  being taken into the account, that of bearing and nursing children, have  not sufficient strength to discharge the first duty of a mother; and  sacrificing to lasciviousness the parental affection, that ennobles  instinct, either destroy the embryo in the womb, or cast it off when  born. Nature in every thing demands respect, and those who violate her  laws seldom violate them with impunity. The weak enervated women who  particularly catch the attention of libertines, are unfit to be mothers,  though they may conceive; so that the rich sensualist, who has rioted  among women, spreading depravity and misery, when he wishes to  perpetuate his name, receives from his wife only an half-formed being  that inherits both its father's and mother's weakness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Contrasting the humanity of the present age with the barbarism of  antiquity, great stress has been laid on the savage custom of exposing  the children whom their parents could not maintain; whilst the man of  sensibility, who thus, perhaps, complains, by his promiscuous amours  produces a most destructive barrenness and contagious flagitiousness of  manners. Surely nature never intended that women, by satisfying an  appetite, should frustrate the very purpose for which it was implanted? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I have before observed, that men ought to maintain the women whom  they have seduced; this would be one means of reforming female manners,  and stopping an abuse that has an equally fatal effect on population and  morals. Another, no less obvious, would be to turn the attention of  woman to the real virtue of chastity; for to little respect has that  woman a claim, on the score of modesty, though her reputation may be  white as the driven snow, who smiles on the libertine whilst she spurns  the victims of his lawless appetites and their own folly. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, she has a taint of the same folly, pure as she esteems herself,  when she studiously adorns her person only to be seen by men, to excite  respectful sighs, and all the idle homage of what is called innocent  gallantry. Did women really respect virtue for its own sake, they would  not seek for a compensation in vanity, for the self-denial which they  are obliged to practise to preserve their reputation, nor would they  associate with men who set reputation at defiance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The two  sexes mutually corrupt and improve each other. This I believe to be an  indisputable truth, extending it to every virtue. Chastity, modesty,  public spirit, and all the noble train of virtues, on which social  virtue and happiness are built, should be understood and cultivated by  all mankind, or they will be cultivated to little effect. And, instead  of furnishing the vicious or idle with a pretext for violating some  sacred duty, by terming it a sexual one, it would be wiser to shew that  nature has not made any difference, for that the unchaste man doubly  defeats the purpose of nature, by rendering women barren, and destroying  his own constitution, though he avoids the shame that pursues the crime  in the other sex. These are the physical consequences, the moral are  still more alarming; for virtue is only a nominal distinction when the  duties of citizens, husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, and directors of  families, become merely the selfish ties of convenience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Why then do philosophers look for public spirit? Public spirit must be  nurtured by private virtue, or it will resemble the factitious sentiment  which makes women careful to preserve their reputation, and men their  honour. A sentiment that often exists unsupported by virtue, unsupported  by that sublime morality which makes the habitual breach of one duty a  breach of the whole moral law. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n59"&gt;[59] I allude to various biographical writings, but particularly to Boswell's Life of Johnson. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n60"&gt;[60] Smith. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 9&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Of the Pernicious Effects Which Arise from the Unnatural  Distinctions Established in Society.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       From the respect paid to property flow, as from a poisoned fountain,  most of the evils and vices which render this world such a dreary scene  to the contemplative mind. For it is in the most polished society that  noisome reptiles and venomous serpents lurk under the rank herbage; and  there is voluptuousness pampered by the still sultry air, which relaxes  every good disposition before it ripens into virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      One  class presses on another; for all are aiming to procure respect on  account of their property: and property, once gained, will procure the  respect due only to talents and virtue. Men neglect the duties incumbent  on man, yet are treated like demi-gods; religion is also separated from  morality by a ceremonial veil, yet men wonder that the world is almost,  literally speaking, a den of sharpers or oppressors. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      There  is a homely proverb, which speaks a shrewd truth, that whoever the  devil finds idle he will employ. And what but habitual idleness can  hereditary wealth and titles produce? For man is so constituted that he  can only attain a proper use of his faculties by exercising them, and  will not exercise them unless necessity, of some kind, first set the  wheels in motion. Virtue likewise can only be acquired by the discharge  of relative duties; but the importance of these sacred duties will  scarcely be felt by the being who is cajoled out of his humanity by the  flattery of sycophants. There must be more equality established in  society, or morality will never gain ground, and this virtuous equality  will not rest firmly even when founded on a rock, if one half of mankind  be chained to its bottom by fate, for they will be continually  undermining it through ignorance or pride. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is vain to  expect virtue from women till they are, in some degree, independent of  men; nay, it is vain to expect that strength of natural affection, which  would make them good wives and mothers. Whilst they are absolutely  dependent on their husbands they will be cunning, mean, and selfish, and  the men who can be gratified by the fawning fondness of spaniel-like  affection, have not much delicacy, for love is not to be bought, in any  sense of the words, its silken wings are instantly shrivelled up when  any thing beside a return in kind is sought. Yet whilst wealth enervates  men; and women live, as it were, by their personal charms, how can we  expect them to discharge those ennobling duties which equally require  exertion and self-denial. Hereditary property sophisticates the mind,  and the unfortunate victims to it, if I may so express myself, swathed  from their birth, seldom exert the locomotive faculty of body or mind;  and, thus viewing every thing through one medium, and that a false one,  they are unable to discern in what true merit and happiness consist.  False, indeed, must be the light when the drapery of situation hides the  man, and makes him stalk in masquerade, dragging from one scene of  dissipation to another the nerveless limbs that hang with stupid  listlessness, and rolling round the vacant eye which plainly tells us  that there is no mind at home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I mean, therefore, to infer  that the society is not properly organized which does not compel men and  women to discharge their respective duties, by making it the only way  to acquire that countenance from their fellow-creatures, which every  human being wishes some way to attain. The respect, consequently, which  is paid to wealth and mere personal charms, is a true north-east blast,  that blights the tender blossoms of affection and virtue. Nature has  wisely attached affections to duties, to sweeten toil, and to give that  vigour to the exertions of reason which only the heart can give. But,  the affection which is put on merely because it is the appropriated  insignia of a certain character, when its duties are not fulfilled, is  one of the empty compliments which vice and folly are obliged to pay to  virtue and the real nature of things. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To illustrate my  opinion, I need only observe, that when a woman is admired for her  beauty, and suffers herself to be so far intoxicated by the admiration  she receives, as to neglect to discharge the indispensable duty of a  mother, she sins against herself by neglecting to cultivate an affection  that would equally tend to make her useful and happy. True happiness, I  mean all the contentment, and virtuous satisfaction, that can be  snatched in this imperfect state, must arise from well regulated  affections; and an affection includes a duty. Men are not aware of the  misery they cause, and the vicious weakness they cherish, by only  inciting women to render themselves pleasing; they do not consider that  they thus make natural and artificial duties clash, by sacrificing the  comfort and respectability of a woman's life to voluptuous notions of  beauty, when in nature they all harmonize. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Cold would be  the heart of a husband, were he not rendered unnatural by early  debauchery, who did not feel more delight at seeing his child suckled by  its mother, than the most artful wanton tricks could ever raise; yet  this natural way of cementing the matrimonial tie, and twisting esteem  with fonder recollections, wealth leads women to spurn. To preserve  their beauty, and wear the flowery crown of the day, which gives them a  kind of right to reign for a short time over the sex, they neglect to  stamp impressions on their husbands' hearts, that would be remembered  with more tenderness when the snow on the head began to chill the bosom,  than even their virgin charms. The maternal solicitude of a reasonable  affectionate woman is very interesting, and the chastened dignity with  which a mother returns the caresses that she and her child receive from a  father who has been fulfilling the serious duties of his station, is  not only a respectable, but a beautiful sight. So singular, indeed, are  my feelings, and I have endeavoured not to catch factitious ones, that  after having been fatigued with the sight of insipid grandeur and the  slavish ceremonies that with cumberous pomp supplied the place of  domestic affections, I have turned to some other scene to relieve my eye  by resting it on the refreshing green every where scattered by nature. I  have then viewed with pleasure a woman nursing her children, and  discharging the duties of her station with, perhaps, merely a servant  maid to take off her hands the servile part of the household business. I  have seen her prepare herself and children, with only the luxury of  cleanliness, to receive her husband, who returning weary home in the  evening found smiling babes and a clean hearth. My heart has loitered in  the midst of the group, and has even throbbed with sympathetic emotion,  when the scraping of the well known foot has raised a pleasing tumult. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Whilst my benevolence has been gratified by contemplating this  artless picture, I have thought that a couple of this description,  equally necessary and independent of each other, because each fulfilled  the respective duties of their station, possessed all that life could  give.-Raised sufficiently above abject poverty not to be obliged to  weigh the consequence of every farthing they spend, and having  sufficient to prevent their attending to a frigid system of oeconomy,  which narrows both heart and mind. I declare, so vulgar are my  conceptions, that I know not what is wanted to render this the happiest  as well as the most respectable situation in the world, but a taste for  literature, to throw a little variety and interest into social converse,  and some superfluous money to give to the needy and to buy books. For  it is not pleasant when the heart is opened by compassion and the head  active in arranging plans of usefulness, to have a prim urchin  continually twitching back the elbow to prevent the hand from drawing  out an almost empty purse, whispering at the same time some prudential  maxim about the priority of justice. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Destructive, however,  as riches and inherited honours are to the human character, women are  more debased and cramped, if possible, by them, than men, because men  may still, in some degree, unfold their faculties by becoming soldiers  and statesmen. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      As soldiers, I grant, they can now only  gather, for the most part, vain glorious laurels, whilst they adjust to a  hair the European balance, taking especial care that no bleak northern  nook or sound incline the beam. But the days of true heroism are over,  when a citizen fought for his country like a Fabricius or a Washington,  and then returned to his farm to let his virtuous fervour run in a more  placid, but not a less salutary, stream. No, our British heroes are  oftener sent from the gaming table than from the plow; and their  passions have been rather inflamed by hanging with dumb suspense on the  turn of a die, than sublimated by panting after the adventurous march of  virtue in the historic page. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The statesman, it is true,  might with more propriety quit the Faro Bank, or card-table, to guide  the helm, for he has still but to shuffle and trick. The whole system of  British politics, if system it may courteously be called, consisting in  multiplying dependents and contriving taxes which grind the poor to  pamper the rich; thus a war. or any wild goose chace, is, as the vulgar  use the phrase, a lucky turn-up of patronage for the minister, whose  chief merit is the art of keeping himself in place. It is not necessary  then that he should have bowels for the poor, so he can secure for his  family the odd trick. Or should some shew of respect, for what is termed  with ignorant ostentation an Englishman's birth-right, be expedient to  bubble the gruff mastiff that he has to lead by the nose, he can make an  empty shew, very safely, by giving his single voice, and suffering his  light squadron to file off to the other side. And when a question of  humanity is agitated he may dip a sop in the milk of human kindness, to  silence Cerberus, and talk of the interest which his heart takes in an  attempt to make the earth no longer cry for vengeance as it sucks in its  children's blood, though his cold hand may at the very moment rivet  their chains, by sanctioning the abominable traffick. A minister is no  longer a minister, than while he can carry a point, which he is  determined to carry.-Yet it is not necessary that a minister should feel  like a man, when a bold push might shake his seat. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, to  have done with these episodical observations, let me return to the more  specious slavery which chains the very soul of woman, keeping her for  ever under the bondage of ignorance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The preposterous  distinctions of rank, which render civilization a curse, by dividing the  world between voluptuous tyrants, and cunning envious dependents,  corrupt, almost equally, every class of people, because respectability  is not attached to the discharge of the relative duties of life, but to  the station, and when the duties are not fulfilled the affections cannot  gain sufficient strength to fortify the virtue of which they are the  natural reward. Still there are some loop-holes out of which a man may  creep, and dare to think and act for himself; but for a woman it is an  herculean task, because she has difficulties peculiar to her sex to  overcome, which require almost superhuman powers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A truly  benevolent legislator always endeavours to make it the interest of each  individual to be virtuous; and thus private virtue becoming the cement  of public happiness, an orderly whole is consolidated by the tendency of  all the parts towards a common centre. But, the private or public  virtue of woman is very problematical; for Rousseau, and a numerous list  of male writers, insist that she should all her life be subjected to a  severe restraint, that of propriety. Why subject her to propriety-blind  propriety, if she be capable of acting from a nobler spring, if she be  an heir of immortality? Is sugar always to be produced by vital blood?  Is one half of the human species, like the poor African slaves, to be  subject to prejudices that brutalize them, when principles would be a  surer guard, only to sweeten the cup of man? Is not this indirectly to  deny woman reason? for a gift is a mockery, if it be unfit for use. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Women are, in common with men, rendered weak and luxurious by the  relaxing pleasures which wealth procures; but added to this they are  made slaves to their persons, and must render them alluring that man may  lend them his reason to guide their tottering steps aright. Or should  they be ambitious, they must govern their tyrants by sinister tricks,  for without rights there cannot be any incumbent duties. The laws  respecting woman, which I mean to discuss in a future part, make an  absurd unit of a man and his wife; and then, by the easy transition of  only considering him as responsible, she is reduced to a mere cypher. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The being who discharges the duties of its station is independent;  and, speaking of women at large, their first duty is to themselves as  rational creatures, and the next, in point of importance, as citizens,  is that, which includes so many, of a mother. The rank in life which  dispenses with their fulfilling this duty, necessarily degrades them by  making them mere dolls. Or, should they turn to something more important  than merely fitting drapery upon a smooth block, their minds are only  occupied by some soft platonic attachment; or, the actual management of  an intrigue may keep their thoughts in motion; for when they neglect  domestic duties, they have it not in their power to take the field and  march and counter-march like soldiers, or wrangle in the senate to keep  their faculties from rusting. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I know that, as a proof of  the inferiority of the sex, Rousseau has exultingly exclaimed, How can  they leave the nursery for the camp!-And the camp has by some moralists  been termed the school of the most heroic virtues; though, I think, it  would puzzle a keen casuist to prove the reasonableness of the greater  number of wars that have dubbed heroes. I do not mean to consider this  question critically; because, having frequently viewed these freaks of  ambition as the first natural mode of civilization, when the ground must  be torn up, and the woods cleared by fire and sword, I do not choose to  call them pests; but surely the present system of war has little  connection with virtue of any denomination, being rather the school of  finesse and effeminacy, than of fortitude. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Yet, if  defensive war, the only justifiable war, in the present advanced state  of society, where virtue can shew its face and ripen amidst the rigours  which purify the air on the mountain's top, were alone to be adopted as  just and glorious, the true heroism of antiquity might again animate  female bosoms.-But fair and softly, gentle reader, male or female, do  not alarm thyself, for though I have compared the character of a modern  soldier with that of a civilized woman, I am not going to advise them to  turn their distaff into a musket, though I sincerely wish to see the  bayonet converted into a pruning-hook. I only recreated an imagination,  fatigued by contemplating the vices and follies which all proceed from a  feculent stream of wealth that has muddied the pure rills of natural  affection, by supposing that society will some time or other be so  constituted, that man must necessarily fulfil the duties of a citizen,  or be despised, and that while he was employed in any of the departments  of civil life, his wife, also an active citizen, should be equally  intent to manage her family, educate her children, and assist her  neighbours. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, to render her really virtuous and useful,  she must not, if she discharge her civil duties, want, individually, the  protection of civil laws; she must not be dependent on her husband's  bounty for her subsistence during his life, or support after his  death-for how can a being be generous who has nothing of its own? or,  virtuous, who is not free? The wife, in the present state of things, who  is faithful to her husband, and neither suckles nor educates her  children, scarcely deserves the name of a wife, and has no right to that  of a citizen. But take away natural rights, and duties become null. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Women then must be considered as only the wanton solace of men, when  they become so weak in mind and body, that they cannot exert themselves,  unless to pursue some frothy pleasure, or to invent some frivolous  fashion. What can be a more melancholy sight to a thinking mind, than to  look into the numerous carriages that drive helter-skelter about this  metropolis in a morning full of pale-faced creatures who are flying from  themselves. I have often wished, with Dr. Johnson, to place some of  them in a little shop with half a dozen children looking up to their  languid countenances for support. I am much mistaken, if some latent  vigour would not soon give health and spirit to their eyes, and some  lines drawn by the exercise of reason on the blank cheeks, which before  were only undulated by dimples, might restore lost dignity to the  character, or rather enable it to attain the true dignity of its nature.  Virtue is not to be acquired even by speculation, much less by the  negative supineness that wealth naturally generates. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, when poverty is more disgraceful than even vice, is not  morality cut to the quick? Still to avoid misconstruction, though I  consider that women in the common walks of life are called to fulfil the  duties of wives and mothers, by religion and reason, I cannot help  lamenting that women of a superiour cast have not a road open by which  they can pursue more extensive plans of usefulness and independence. I  may excite laughter, by dropping an hint, which I mean to pursue, some  future time, for I really think that women ought to have  representatives, instead of being arbitrarily governed without having  any direct share allowed them in the deliberations of government. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, as the whole system of representation is now, in this country,  only a convenient handle for despotism, they need not complain, for they  are as well represented as a numerous class of hard working mechanics,  who pay for the support of royalty when they can scarcely stop their  children's mouths with bread. How are they represented whose very sweat  supports the splendid stud of an heir apparent, or varnishes the chariot  of some female favourite who looks down on shame? Taxes on the very  necessaries of life, enable an endless tribe of idle princes and  princesses to pass with stupid pomp before a gaping crowd, who almost  worship the very parade which costs them so dear. This is mere gothic  grandeur, something like the barbarous useless parade of having  sentinels on horseback at Whitehall, which I could never view without a  mixture of contempt and indignation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      How strangely must the  mind be sophisticated when this sort of state impresses it! But, till  these monuments of folly are levelled by virtue, similar follies will  leaven the whole mass. For the same character, in some degree, will  prevail in the aggregate of society: and the refinements of luxury, or  the vicious repinings of envious poverty, will equally banish virtue  from society, considered as the characteristic of that society, or only  allow it to appear as one of the stripes of the harlequin coat, worn by  the civilized man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In the superiour ranks of life, every  duty is done by deputies, as if duties could ever be waved, and the vain  pleasures which consequent idleness forces the rich to pursue, appear  so enticing to the next rank, that the numerous scramblers for wealth  sacrifice every thing to tread on their heels. The most sacred trusts  are then considered as sinecures, because they were procured by  interest, and only sought to enable a man to keep good company. Women,  in particular, all want to be ladies. Which is simply to have nothing to  do, but listlessly to go they scarcely care where, for they cannot tell  what. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But what have women to do in society? I may be  asked, but to loiter with easy grace; surely you would not condemn them  all to suckle fools and chronicle small beer! No. Women might certainly  study the art of healing, and be physicians as well as nurses. And  midwifery, decency seems to allot to them, though I am afraid the word  midwife, in our dictionaries, will soon give place to accoucheur, and  one proof of the former delicacy of the sex be effaced from the  language. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      They might, also, study politics, and settle  their benevolence on the broadest basis; for the reading of history will  scarcely be more useful than the perusal of romances, if read as mere  biography; if the character of the times, the political improvements,  arts, &amp;amp;c. be not observed. In short, if it be not considered as the  history of man; and not of particular men, who filled a niche in the  temple of fame, and dropped into the black rolling stream of time, that  silently sweeps all before it, into the shapeless void  called-eternity.-For shape, can it be called, 'that shape hath none?' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Business of various kinds, they might likewise pursue, if they were  educated in a more orderly manner, which might save many from common and  legal prostitution. Women would not then marry for a support, as men  accept of places under government, and neglect the implied duties; nor  would an attempt to earn their own subsistence, a most laudable one!  sink them almost to the level of those poor abandoned creatures who live  by prostitution. For are not milliners and mantua-makers reckoned the  next class? The few employments open to women, so far from being  liberal, are menial; and when a superiour education enables them to take  charge of the education of children as governesses, they are not  treated like the tutors of sons, though even clerical tutors are not  always treated in a manner calculated to render them respectable in the  eyes of their pupils, to say nothing of the private comfort of the  individual. But as women educated like gentlewomen, are never designed  for the humiliating situation which necessity sometimes forces them to  fill; these situations are considered in the light of a degradation; and  they know little of the human heart, who need to be told, that nothing  so painfully sharpens sensibility as such a fall in life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Some of these women might be restrained from marrying by a proper spirit  or delicacy, and others may not have had it in their power to escape in  this pitiful way from servitude; is not that government then very  defective, and very unmindful of the happiness of one half of its  members, that does not provide for honest, independent women, by  encouraging them to fill respectable stations? But in order to render  their private virtue a public benefit, they must have a civil existence  in the state, married or single; else we shall continually see some  worthy woman, whose sensibility has been rendered painfully acute by  undeserved contempt, droop like 'the lily broken down by a plow-share.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       It is a melancholy truth; yet such is the blessed effect of  civilization! the most respectable women are the most oppressed; and,  unless they have understandings far superiour to the common run of  understandings, taking in both sexes, they must, from being treated like  contemptible beings, become contemptible. How many women thus waste  life away the prey of discontent, who might have practised as  physicians, regulated a farm, managed a shop, and stood erect, supported  by their own industry, instead of hanging their heads surcharged with  the dew of sensibility, that consumes the beauty to which it at first  gave lustre; nay, I doubt whether pity and love are so near akin as  poets feign, for I have seldom seen much compassion excited by the  helplessness of females, unless they were fair; then, perhaps, pity was  the soft handmaid of love, or the harbinger of lust. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      How  much more respectable is the woman who earns her own bread by fulfilling  any duty, than the most accomplished beauty!-beauty did I say?-so  sensible am I of the beauty of moral loveliness, or the harmonious  propriety that attunes the passions of a well-regulated mind, that I  blush at making the comparison; yet I sigh to think how few women aim at  attaining this respectability by withdrawing from the giddy whirl of  pleasure, or the indolent calm that stupifies the good sort of women it  sucks in. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Proud of their weakness, however, they must  always be protected, guarded from care, and all the rough toils that  dignify the mind.-If this be the fiat of fate, if they will make  themselves insignificant and contemptible, sweetly to waste 'life away,'  let them not expect to be valued when their beauty fades, for it is the  fate of the fairest flowers to be admired and pulled to pieces by the  careless hand that plucked them. In how many ways do I wish, from the  purest benevolence, to impress this truth on my sex; yet I fear that  they will not listen to a truth that dear bought experience has brought  home to many an agitated bosom, nor willingly resign the privileges of  rank and sex for the privileges of humanity, to which those have no  claim who do not discharge its duties. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Those writers are  particularly useful, in my opinion, who make man feel for man,  independent of the station he fills, or the drapery of factitious  sentiments. I then would fain convince reasonable men of the importance  of some of my remarks, and prevail on them to weigh dispassionately the  whole tenor of my observations.-I appeal to their understandings; and,  as a fellow-creature, claim, in the name of my sex, some interest in  their hearts. I entreat them to assist to emancipate their companion, to  make her a help meet for them! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Would men but generously  snap our chains, and be content with rational fellowship instead of  slavish obedience, they would find us more observant daughters, more  affectionate sisters, more faithful wives, more reasonable mothers-in a  word, better citizens. We should then love them with true affection,  because we should learn to respect ourselves; and the peace of mind of a  worthy man would not be interrupted by the idle vanity of his wife, nor  the babes sent to nestle in a strange bosom, having never found a home  in their mother's. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 10&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Parental Affection.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      Parental affection is, perhaps, the blindest modification of perverse self-love; for we have not, like the French &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n61"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;61&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  two terms to distinguish the pursuit of a natural and reasonable  desire, from the ignorant calculations of weakness. Parents often love  their children in the most brutal manner, and sacrifice every relative  duty to promote their advancement in the world.-To promote, such is the  perversity of unprincipled prejudices, the future welfare of the very  beings whose present existence they imbitter by the most despotic  stretch of power. Power, in fact, is ever true to its vital principle,  for in every shape it would reign without controul or inquiry. Its  throne is built across a dark abyss, which no eye must dare to explore,  lest the baseless fabric should totter under investigation. Obedience,  unconditional obedience, is the catch-word of tyrants of every  description, and to render 'assurance doubly sure,' one kind of  despotism supports another. Tyrants would have cause to tremble if  reason were to become the rule of duty in any of the relations of life,  for the light might spread till perfect day appeared. And when it did  appear, how would men smile at the sight of the bugbears at which they  started during the night of ignorance, or the twilight of timid inquiry.  &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      Parental affection, indeed, in many minds, is but a  pretext to tyrannize where it can be done with impunity, for only good  and wise men are content with the respect that will bear discussion.  Convinced that they have a right to what they insist on, they do not  fear reason, or dread the sifting of subjects that recur to natural  justice: because they firmly believe that the more enlightened the human  mind becomes the deeper root will just and simple principles take. They  do not rest in expedients, or grant that what is metaphysically true  can be practically false; but disdaining the shifts of the moment they  calmly wait till time, sanctioning innovation, silences the hiss of  selfishness or envy. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      If the power of reflecting on the  past, and darting the keen eye of contemplation into futurity, be the  grand privilege of man, it must be granted that some people enjoy this  prerogative in a very limited degree. Every thing new appears to them  wrong; and not able to distinguish the possible from the monstrous, they  fear where no fear should find a place, running from the light of  reason, as if it were a firebrand; yet the limits of the possible have  never been defined to stop the sturdy innovator's hand. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Woman, however, a slave in every situation to prejudice, seldom exerts  enlightened maternal affection; for she either neglects her children, or  spoils them by improper indulgence. Besides, the affection of some  women for their children is, as I have before termed it, frequently very  brutish: for it eradicates every spark of humanity. Justice, truth,  every thing is sacrificed by these Rebekah's, and for the sake of their  own children they violate the most sacred duties, forgetting the common  relationship that binds the whole family on earth together. Yet, reason  seems to say, that they who suffer one duty, or affection, to swallow up  the rest, have not sufficient heart or mind to fulfil that one  conscientiously. It then loses the venerable aspect of a duty, and  assumes the fantastic form of a whim. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      As the care of  children in their infancy is one of the grand duties annexed to the  female character by nature, this duty would afford many forcible  arguments for strengthening the female understanding, if it were  properly considered. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The formation of the mind must be  begun very early, and the temper, in particular, requires the most  judicious attention-an attention which women cannot pay who only love  their children because they are their children, and seek no further for  the foundation of their duty, than in the feelings of the moment. It is  this want of reason in their affections which makes women so often run  into extremes, and either be the most fond or most careless and  unnatural mothers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To be a good mother-a woman must have  sense, and that independence of mind which few women possess who are  taught to depend entirely on their husbands. Meek wives are, in general,  foolish mothers; wanting their children to love them best, and take  their part, in secret, against the father, who is held up as a  scarecrow. When chastisement is necessary, though they have offended the  mother, the father must inflict the punishment; he must be the judge in  all disputes: but I shall more fully discuss this subject when I treat  of private education, I now only mean to insist, that unless the  understanding of woman be enlarged, and her character rendered more  firm, by being allowed to govern her own conduct, she will never have  sufficient sense or command of temper to manage her children properly.  Her parental affection, indeed, scarcely deserves the name, when it does  not lead her to suckle her children, because the discharge of this duty  is equally calculated to inspire maternal and filial affection: and it  is the indispensable duty of men and women to fulfil the duties which  give birth to affections that are the surest preservatives against vice.  Natural affection, as it is termed, I believe to be a very faint tie,  affections must grow out of the habitual exercise of a mutual sympathy;  and what sympathy does a mother exercise who sends her babe to a nurse,  and only takes it from a nurse to send it to a school? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In  the exercise of their maternal feelings providence has furnished women  with a natural substitute for love, when the lover becomes only a  friend, and mutual confidence takes place of overstrained admiration-a  child then gently twists the relaxing cord, and a mutual care produces a  new mutual sympathy.-But a child, though a pledge of affection, will  not enliven it, if both father and mother be content to transfer the  charge to hirelings; for they who do their duty by proxy should not  murmur if they miss the reward of duty-parental affection produces  filial duty. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n61"&gt;[61] L'amour propre. L'amour de soi meme. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 11&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Duty to Parents.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       There seems to be an indolent propensity in man to make prescription  always take place of reason, and to place every duty on an arbitrary  foundation. The rights of kings are deduced in a direct line from the  King of kings; and that of parents from our first parent. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Why do we thus go back for principles that should always rest on the  same base, and have the same weight to-day that they had a thousand  years ago-and not a jot more? If parents discharge their duty they have a  strong hold and sacred claim on the gratitude of their children; but  few parents are willing to receive the respectful affection of their  offspring on such terms. They demand blind obedience, because they do  not merit a reasonable service: and to render these demands of weakness  and ignorance more binding, a mysterious sanctity is spread round the  most arbitrary principle; for what other name can be given to the blind  duty of obeying vicious or weak beings merely because they obeyed a  powerful instinct? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The simple definition of the reciprocal  duty, which naturally subsists between parent and child, may be given in  a few words: The parent who pays proper attention to helpless infancy  has a right to require the same attention when the feebleness of age  comes upon him. But to subjugate a rational being to the mere will of  another, after he is of age to answer to society for his own conduct, is  a most cruel and undue stretch of power; and, perhaps, as injurious to  morality as those religious systems which do not allow right and wrong  to have any existence, but in the Divine will. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I never knew a parent who had paid more than common attention to his children, disregarded;&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n62"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;62&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  on the contrary, the early habit of relying almost implicitly on the  opinion of a respected parent is not easily shook, even when matured  reason convinces the child that his father is not the wisest man in the  world. This weakness, for a weakness it is, though the epithet amiable  may be tacked to it, a reasonable man must steel himself against; for  the absurd duty, too often inculcated, of obeying a parent only on  account of his being a parent, shackles the mind, and prepares it for a  slavish submission to any power but reason. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      I distinguish between the natural and accidental duty due to parents. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The parent who sedulously endeavours to form the heart and enlarge  the understanding of his child, has given that dignity to the discharge  of a duty, common to the whole animal world, that only reason can give.  This is the parental affection of humanity, and leaves instinctive  natural affection far behind. Such a parent acquires all the rights of  the most sacred friendship, and his advice, even when his child is  advanced in life, demands serious consideration. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      With  respect to marriage, though after one and twenty a parent seems to have  no right to withhold his consent on any account; yet twenty years of  solicitude call for a return, and the son ought, at least, to promise  not to marry for two or three years, should the object of his choice not  entirely meet with the approbation of his first friend. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, respect for parents is, generally speaking, a much more debasing  principle; it is only a selfish respect for property. The father who is  blindly obeyed, is obeyed from sheer weakness, or from motives that  degrade the human character. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A great proportion of the  misery that wanders, in hideous forms, around the world, is allowed to  rise from the negligence of parents; and still these are the people who  are most tenacious of what they term a natural right, though it be  subversive of the birth-right of man, the right of acting according to  the direction of his own reason. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have already very  frequently had occasion to observe, that vicious or indolent people are  always eager to profit by enforcing arbitrary privileges; and,  generally, in the same proportion as they neglect the discharge of the  duties which alone render the privileges reasonable. This is at the  bottom a dictate of common sense, or the instinct of self-defence,  peculiar to ignorant weakness; resembling that instinct, which makes a  fish muddy the water it swims in to elude its enemy, instead of boldly  facing it in the clear stream. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      From the clear stream of  argument, indeed, the supporters of prescription, of every denomination,  fly; and, taking refuge in the darkness, which, in the language of  sublime poetry, has been supposed to surround the throne of Omnipotence,  they dare to demand that implicit respect which is only due to His  unsearchable ways. But, let me not be thought presumptuous, the darkness  which bides our God from us, only respects speculative truths-it never  obscures moral ones, they shine clearly, for God is light, and never, by  the constitution of our nature, requires the discharge of a duty, the  reasonableness of which does not beam on us when we open our eyes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The indolent parent of high rank may, it is true, extort a shew of  respect from his child, and females on the continent are particularly  subject to the views of their families, who never think of consulting  their inclination, or providing for the comfort of the poor victims of  their pride. The consequence is notorious; these dutiful daughters  become adulteresses, and neglect the education of their children, from  whom they, in their turn, exact the same kind of obedience. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Females, it is true, in all countries, are too much under the dominion  of their parents; and few parents think of addressing their children in  the following manner, though it is in this reasonable way that Heaven  seems to command the whole human race. It is your interest to obey me  till you can judge for yourself; and the Almighty Father of all has  implanted an affection in me to serve as a guard to you whilst your  reason is unfolding; but when your mind arrives at maturity, you must  only obey me, or rather respect my opinions, so far as they coincide  with the light that is breaking in on your own mind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A  slavish bondage to parents cramps every faculty of the mind; and Mr.  Locke very judiciously observes, that 'if the mind be curbed and humbled  too much in children; if their spirits be abased and broken much by too  strict an hand over them; they lose all their vigour and industry.'  This strict hand may in some degree account for the weakness of women;  for girls, from various causes, are more kept down by their parents, in  every sense of the word, than boys. The duty expected from them is, like  all the duties arbitrarily imposed on women, more from a sense of  propriety, more out of respect for decorum, than reason; and thus taught  slavishly to submit to their parents, they are prepared for the slavery  of marriage. I may be told that a number of women are not slaves in the  marriage state. True, but they then become tyrants; for it is not  rational freedom, but a lawless kind of power resembling the authority  exercised by the favourites of absolute monarchs, which they obtain by  debasing means. I do not, likewise, dream of insinuating that either  boys or girls are always slaves, I only insist that when they are  obliged to submit to authority blindly, their faculties are weakened,  and their tempers rendered imperious or abject. I also lament that  parents, indolently availing themselves of a supposed privilege, damp  the first faint glimmering of reason, rendering at the same time the  duty, which they are so anxious to enforce, an empty name; because they  will not let it rest on the only basis on which a duty can rest  securely: for unless it be founded on knowledge, it cannot gain  sufficient strength to resist the squalls of passion, or the silent  sapping of self-love. But it is not the parents who have given the  surest proof of their affection for their children, or, to speak more  properly, who by fulfilling their duty, have allowed a natural parental  affection to take root in their hearts, the child of exercised sympathy  and reason, and not the over-weening offspring of selfish pride, who  most vehemently insist on their children submitting to their will merely  because it is their will. On the contrary, the parent, who sets a good  example, patiently lets that example work; and it seldom fails to  produce its natural effect-filial reverence. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Children  cannot be taught too early to submit to reason, the true definition of  that necessity, which Rousseau insisted on, without defining it; for to  submit to reason is to submit to the nature of things, and to that God,  who formed them so, to promote our real interest. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Why  should the minds of children be warped as they just begin to expand,  only to favour the indolence of parents, who insist on a privilege  without being willing to pay the price fixed by nature? I have before  had occasion to observe, that a right always includes a duty, and I  think it may, likewise, fairly be inferred, that they forfeit the right,  who do not fulfil the duty. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is easier, I grant, to  command than reason; but it does not follow from hence that children  cannot comprehend the reason why they are made to do certain things  habitually: for, from a steady adherence to a few simple principles of  conduct flows that salutary power which a judicious parent gradually  gains over a child's mind. And this power becomes strong indeed, if  tempered by an even display of affection brought home to the child's  heart. For, I believe, as a general rule, it must be allowed that the  affection which we inspire always resembles that we cultivate; so that  natural affections, which have been supposed almost distinct from  reason, may be found more nearly connected with judgment than is  commonly allowed. Nay, as another proof of the necessity of cultivating  the female understanding, it is but just to observe, that the affections  seem to have a kind of animal capriciousness when they merely reside in  the heart. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is the irregular exercise of parental  authority that first injures the mind, and to these irregularities girls  are more subject than boys. The will of those who never allow their  will to be disputed, unless they happen to be in a good humour, when  they relax proportionally, is almost always unreasonable. To elude this  arbitrary authority girls very early learn the lessons which they  afterwards practise on their husbands; for I have frequently seen a  little sharp-faced miss rule a whole family, excepting that now and then  mamma's angry will burst out of some accidental cloud;-either her hair  was ill dressed,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n63"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;63&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  or she had lost more money at cards, the night before, than she was  willing to own to her husband; or some such moral cause of anger. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       After observing sallies of this kind, I have been led into a  melancholy train of reflection respecting females, concluding that when  their first affection must lead them astray, or make their duties clash  till they rest on mere whims and customs, little can be expected from  them as they advance in life. How indeed can an instructor remedy this  evil? for to teach them virtue on any solid principle is to teach them  to despise their parents. Children cannot, ought not, to be taught to  make allowance for the faults of their parents, because every such  allowance weakens the force of their parents, because every such  allowance weakens the force of reason in their minds, and makes them  still more indulgent to their own. It is one of the most sublime virtues  of maturity that leads us to be severe with respect to ourselves, and  forbearing to others; but children should only be taught the simple  virtues, for if they begin too early to make allowance for human  passions and manners, they wear off the fine edge of the criterion by  which they should regulate their own, and become unjust in the same  proportion as they grow indulgent. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The affections of  children, and weak people, are always selfish; they love their  relatives, because they are beloved by them, and not on account of their  virtues. Yet, till esteem and love are blended together in the first  affection, and reason made the foundation of the first duty, morality  will stumble at the threshold. But, till society is very differently  constituted, parents, I fear, will still insist on being obeyed, because  they will be obeyed, and constantly endeavour to settle that power on a  Divine right which will not bear the investigation of reason. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n62"&gt;[62] Dr. Johnson makes the same observation. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n63"&gt;[63]  I myself heard a little girl once say to a servant, 'My mama has been  scolding me finely this morning, because her hair was not dressed to  please her.' Though this remark was pert, it was just. And what respect  could a girl acquire for such a parent without doing violence to reason?  &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 12&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;On National Education.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       The good effects resulting from attention to private education will  ever be very confined, and the parent who really puts his own hand to  the plow, will always, in some degree, be disappointed, till education  becomes a grand national concern. A man cannot retire into a desert with  his child, and if he did he could not bring himself back to childhood,  and become the proper friend and play-fellow of an infant or youth. And  when children are confined to the society of men and women, they very  soon acquire that kind of premature manhood which stops the growth of  every vigorous power of mind or body. In order to open their faculties  they should be excited to think for themselves; and this can only be  done by mixing a number of children together, and making them jointly  pursue the same objects. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A child very soon contracts a  benumbing indolence of mind, which he has seldom sufficient vigour  afterwards to shake off, when he only asks a question instead of seeking  for information, and then relies implicitly on the answer he receives.  With his equals in age this could never be the case, and the subjects of  inquiry, though they might be influenced, would not be entirely under  the direction of men, who frequently damp, if not destroy, abilities, by  bringing them forward too hastily: and too hastily they will infallibly  be brought forward, if the child could be confined to the society of a  man, however sagacious that man may be. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Besides, in youth  the seeds of every affection should be sown, and the respectful regard,  which is felt for a parent, is very different from the social affections  that are to constitute the happiness of life as it advances. Of these  equality is the basis, and an intercourse of sentiments unclogged by  that observant seriousness which prevents disputation, though it may not  inforce submission. Let a child have ever such an affection for his  parent, he will always languish to play and prattle with children; and  the very respect he feels, for filial esteem always has a dash of fear  mixed with it, will, if it do not teach him cunning, at least prevent  him from pouring out the little secrets which first open the heart to  friendship and confidence, gradually leading to more expansive  benevolence. Added to this, he will never acquire that frank  ingenuousness of behaviour, which young people can only attain by being  frequently in society where they dare to speak what they think; neither  afraid of being reproved for their presumption, nor laughed at for their  folly. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Forcibly impressed by the reflections which the  sight of schools, as they are at present conducted, naturally suggested,  I have formerly delivered my opinion rather warmly in favour of a  private education; but further experience has led me to view the subject  in a different light. I still, however, think schools, as they are now  regulated, the hot-beds of vice and folly, and the knowledge of human  nature, supposed to be attained there, merely cunning selfishness. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       At school boys become gluttons and slovens, and, instead of  cultivating domestic affections, very early rush into the libertinism  which destroys the constitution before it is formed; hardening the heart  as it weakens the understanding. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I should, in fact, be  averse to boarding-schools, if it were for no other reason than the  unsettled state of mind which the expectation of the vacations produce.  On these the children's thoughts are fixed with eager anticipating  hopes, for, at least, to speak with moderation, half of the time, and  when they arrive they are spent in total dissipation and beastly  indulgence. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, on the contrary, when they are brought up  at home, though they may pursue a plan of study in a more orderly manner  than can be adopted when near a fourth part of the year is actually  spent in idleness, and as much more in regret and anticipation; yet they  there acquire too high an opinion of their own importance, from being  allowed to tyrannize over servants, and from the anxiety expressed by  most mothers, on the score of manners, who, eager to teach the  accomplishments of a gentleman, stifle, in their birth, the virtues of a  man. Thus brought into company when they ought to be seriously  employed, and treated like men when they are still boys, they become  vain and effeminate. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The only way to avoid two extremes  equally injurious to morality, would be to contrive some way of  combining a public and private education. Thus to make men citizens two  natural steps might be taken, which seem directly to lead to the desired  point; for the domestic affections, that first open the heart to the  various modifications of humanity, would be cultivated, whilst the  children were nevertheless allowed to spend great part of their time, on  terms of equality, with other children. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I still recollect,  with pleasure, the country day school; where a boy trudged in the  morning, wet or dry, carrying his books, and his dinner, if it were at a  considerable distance; a servant did not then lead master by the hand,  for, when he had once put on coat and breeches, he was allowed to shift  for himself, and return alone in the evening to recount the feats of the  day close at the parental knee. His father's house was his home, and  was ever after fondly remembered; nay, I appeal to many superiour men,  who were educated in this manner, whether the recollection of some shady  lane where they conned their lesson; or, of some stile, where they sat  making a kite, or mending a bat, has not endeared their country to them?  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, what boy ever recollected with pleasure the years he  spent in close confinement, at an academy near London? unless, indeed,  he should, by chance, remember the poor scare-crow of an usher, whom he  tormented; or, the tartman, from whom he caught a cake, to devour it  with a cattish appetite of selfishness. At boarding-schools of every  description, the relaxation of the junior boys is mischief; and of the  senior, vice. Besides, in great schools, what can be more prejudicial to  the moral character than the system of tyranny and abject slavery which  is established amongst the boys, to say nothing of the slavery to  forms, which makes religion worse than a farce? For what good can be  expected from the youth who receives the sacrament of the Lord's supper,  to avoid forfeiting half a guinea, which he probably afterwards spends  in some sensual manner? Half the employment of the youths is to elude  the necessity of attending public worship; and well they may, for such a  constant repetition of the same thing must be a very irksome restraint  on their natural vivacity. As these ceremonies have the most fatal  effect on their morals, and as a ritual performed by the lips, when the  heart and mind are far away, is not now stored up by our church as a  bank to draw on for the fees of the poor souls in purgatory, why should  they not be abolished? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But the fear of innovation, in this  country, extends to every thing.-This is only a covert fear, the  apprehensive timidity of indolent slugs, who guard, by sliming it over,  the snug place, which they consider in the light of an hereditary  estate; and eat, drink, and enjoy themselves, instead of fulfilling the  duties, excepting a few empty forms, for which it was endowed. These are  the people who most strenuously insist on the will of the founder being  observed, crying out against all reformation, as if it were a violation  of justice. I am now alluding particularly to the relicks of popery  retained in our colleges, when the protestant members seem to be such  sticklers for the established church; but their zeal never makes them  lose sight of the spoil of ignorance, which rapacious priests of  superstitious memory have scraped together. No, wise in their  generation, they venerate the prescriptive right of possession, as a  strong hold, and still let the sluggish bell tinkle to prayers, as  during the days when the elevation of the host was supposed to atone for  the sins of the people, lest one reformation should lead to another,  and the spirit kill the letter. These Romish customs have the most  baneful effect on the morals of our clergy; for the idle vermin who two  or three times a day perform in the most slovenly manner a service which  they think useless, but call their duty, soon lose a sense of duty. At  college, forced to attend or evade public worship, they acquire an  habitual contempt for the very service, the performance of which is to  enable them to live in idleness. It is mumbled over as an affair of  business, as a stupid boy repeats his task, and frequently the college  cant escapes from the preacher the moment after he has left the pulpit,  and even whilst he is eating the dinner which he earned in such a  dishonest manner. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Nothing, indeed, can be more irreverent  than the cathedral service as it is now performed in this country,  neither does it contain a set of weaker men than those who are the  slaves of this childish routine. A disgusting skeleton of the former  state is still exhibited; but all the solemnity that interested the  imagination, if it did not purify the heart, is stripped off. The  performance of high mass on the continent must impress every mind, where  a spark of fancy glows, with that awful melancholy, that sublime  tenderness, so near akin to devotion. I do not say that these devotional  feelings are of more use, in a moral sense, than any other emotion of  taste; but I contend that the theatrical pomp which gratifies our  senses, is to be preferred to the cold parade that insults the  understanding without reaching the heart. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Amongst remarks  on national education, such observations cannot be misplaced, especially  as the supporters of these establishments, degenerated into  puerilities, affect to be the champions of religion.-Religion, pure  source of comfort in this vale of tears! how has thy clear stream been  muddied by the dabblers, who have presumptuously endeavoured to confine  in one narrow channel, the living waters that ever flow towards God-the  sublime ocean of existence! What would life be without that peace which  the love of God, when built on humanity, alone can impart? Every earthly  affection turns back, at intervals, to prey upon the heart that feeds  it; and the purest effusions of benevolence, often rudely damped by man,  must mount as a free-will offering to Him who gave them birth, whose  bright image they faintly reflect. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In public schools,  however, religion, confounded with irksome ceremonies and unreasonable  restraints, assumes the most ungracious aspect: not the sober austere  one that commands respect whilst it inspires fear; but a ludicrous cast,  that serves to point a pun. For, in fact, most of the good stories and  smart things which enliven the spirits that have been concentrated at  whist, are manufactured out of the incidents to which the very men  labour to give a droll turn who countenance the abuse to live on the  spoil. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      There is not, perhaps, in the kingdom, a more  dogmatical, or luxurious set of men, than the pedantic tyrants who  reside in colleges and preside at public schools. The vacations are  equally injurious to the morals of the masters and pupils, and the  intercourse, which the former keep up with the nobility, introduces the  same vanity and extravagance into their families, which banish domestic  duties and comforts from the lordly mansion, whose state is awkwardly  aped. The boys, who live at a great expence with the masters and  assistants, are never domesticated, though placed there for that  purpose; for, after a silent dinner, they swallow a hasty glass of wine,  and retire to plan some mischievous trick, or to ridicule the person or  manners of the very people they have just been cringing to, and whom  they ought to consider as the representatives of their parents. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Can it then be a matter of surprise that boys become selfish and  vicious who are thus shut out from social converse? or that a mitre  often graces the brow of one of these diligent pastors? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The  desire of living in the same style, as the rank just above them,  infects each individual and every class of people, and meanness is the  concomitant of this ignoble ambition; but those professions are most  debasing whose ladder is patronage; yet, out of one of these professions  the tutors of youth are, in general, chosen. But, can they be expected  to inspire independent sentiments, whose conduct must be regulated by  the cautious prudence that is ever on the watch for preferment? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       So far, however, from thinking of the morals of boys, I have heard  several masters of schools argue, that they only undertook to teach  Latin and Greek; and that they had fulfilled their duty, by sending some  good scholars to college. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A few good scholars, I grant,  may have been formed by emulation and discipline; but, to bring forward  these clever boys, the health and morals of a number have been  sacrificed. The sons of our gentry and wealthy commoners are mostly  educated at these seminaries, and will any one pretend to assert that  the majority, making every allowance, come under the description of  tolerable scholars? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is not for the benefit of society  that a few brilliant men should be brought forward at the expence of the  multitude. It is true, that great men seem to start up, as great  revolutions occur, at proper intervals, to restore order, and to blow  aside the clouds that thicken over the face of truth; but let more  reason and virtue prevail in society, and these strong winds would not  be necessary. Public education, of every denomination, should be  directed to form citizens; but if you wish to make good citizens, you  must first exercise the affections of a son and a brother. This is the  only way to expand the heart; for public affections, as well as public  virtues, must ever grow out of the private character, or they are merely  meteors that shoot athwart a dark sky, and disappear as they are gazed  at and admired. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Few, I believe, have had much affection for  mankind, who did not first love their parents, their brothers, sisters,  and even the domestic brutes, whom they first played with. The exercise  of youthful sympathies forms the moral temperature; and it is the  recollection of these first affections and pursuits that gives life to  those that are afterwards more under the direction of reason. In youth,  the fondest friendships are formed, the genial juices mounting at the  same time, kindly mix; or, rather the heart, tempered for the reception  of friendship, is accustomed to seek for pleasure in something more  noble than the churlish gratification of appetite. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In order  then to inspire a love of home and domestic pleasures, children ought  to be educated at home, for riotous holidays only make them fond of home  for their own sakes. Yet, the vacations, which do not foster domestic  affections, continually disturb the course of study, and render any plan  of improvement abortive which includes temperance; still, were they  abolished, children would be entirely separated from their parents, and I  question whether they would become better citizens by sacrificing the  preparatory affections, by destroying the force of relationships that  render the marriage state as necessary as respectable. But, if a private  education produce self-importance, or insulate a man in his family, the  evil is only shifted, not remedied. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This train of  reasoning brings me back to a subject, on which I mean to dwell, the  necessity of establishing proper day-schools. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But, these  should be national establishments, for whilst schoolmasters are  dependent on the caprice of parents, little exertion can be expected  from them, more than is necessary to please ignorant people. Indeed, the  necessity of a master's giving the parents some sample of the boys  abilities, which during the vacation is shewn to every visitor,&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n64"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;64&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  is productive of more mischief than would at first be supposed. For it  is seldom done entirely to speak with moderation, by the child itself;  thus the master countenances falsehood, or winds the poor machine up to  some extraordinary exertion, that injures the wheels, and stops the  progress of gradual improvement. The memory is loaded with  unintelligible words, to make a shew of, without the understanding's  acquiring any distinct ideas; but only that education deserves  emphatically to be termed cultivation of mind, which teaches young  people how to begin to think. The imagination should not be allowed to  debauch the understanding before it gained strength, or vanity will  become the forerunner of vice: for every way of exhibiting the  acquirements of a child is injurious to its moral character. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       How much time is lost in teaching them to recite what they do not  understand? whilst, seated on benches, all in their best array, the  mammas listen with astonishment to the parrot-like prattle, uttered in  solemn cadences, with all the pomp of ignorance and folly. Such  exhibitions only serve to strike the spreading fibres of vanity through  the whole mind; for they neither teach children to speak fluently, nor  behave gracefully. So far from it, that these frivolous pursuits might  comprehensively be termed the study of affectation; for we now rarely  see a simple, bashful boy, though few people of taste were ever  disgusted by that awkward sheepishness so natural to the age, which  schools and an early introduction into society, have changed into  impudence and apish grimace. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Yet, how can these things be  remedied whilst school-masters depend entirely on parents for a  subsistence; and, when so many rival schools hang out their lures, to  catch the attention of vain fathers and mothers, whose parental  affection only leads them to wish that their children should outshine  those of their neighbours? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Without great good luck, a  sensible, conscientious man, would starve before he could raise a  school, if he disdained to bubble weak parents by practising the secret  tricks of the craft. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In the best regulated schools,  however, where swarms are not crammed together, many bad habits must be  acquired; but, at common schools, the body, heart, and understanding,  are equally stunted, for parents are often only in quest of the cheapest  school, and the master could not live, if he did not take a much  greater number than he could manage himself; nor will the scanty  pittance, allowed for each child, permit him to hire ushers sufficient  to assist in the discharge of the mechanical part of the business.  Besides, whatever appearance the house and garden may make, the children  do not enjoy the comfort of either, for they are continually reminded  by irksome restrictions that they are not at home, and the state-rooms,  garden, &amp;amp;c. must be kept in order for the recreation of the parents;  who, of a Sunday, visit the school, and are impressed by the very  parade that renders the situation of their children uncomfortable. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       With what disgust have I heard sensible women, for girls are more  restrained and cowed than boys, speak of the wearisome confinement,  which they endured at school. Not allowed, perhaps, to step out of one  broad walk in a superb garden, and obliged to pace with steady  deportment stupidly backwards and forwards, holding up their heads and  turning out their toes, with shoulders braced back, instead of bounding,  as nature directs to complete her own design, in the various attitudes  so conducive to health.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n65"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;65&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  The pure animal spirits, which make both mind and body shoot out, and  unfold the tender blossoms of hope, are turned sour, and vented in vain  wishes or pert repinings, that contract the faculties and spoil the  temper; else they mount to the brain, and sharpening the understanding  before it gains proportionable strength, produce that pitiful cunning  which disgracefully characterizes the female mind-and I fear will ever  characterize it whilst women remain the slaves of power! &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       The little respect paid to chastity in the male world is, I am  persuaded, the grand source of many of the physical and moral evils that  torment mankind, as well as of the vices and follies that degrade and  destroy women; yet at school, boys infallibly lose that decent  bashfulness, which might have ripened into modesty, at home. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       And what nasty indecent tricks do they not also learn from each other,  when a number of them pig together in the same bedchamber, not to speak  of the vices, which render the body weak, whilst they effectually  prevent the acquisition of any delicacy of mind. The little attention  paid to the cultivation of modesty, amongst men, produces great  depravity in all the relationships of society; for, to purify the heart,  and first call forth all the youthful powers, to prepare the man to  discharge the benevolent duties of life, is sacrificed to premature  lust; but, all the social affections are deadened by the selfish  gratifications, which very early pollute the mind, and dry up the  generous juices of the heart. In what an unnatural manner is innocence  often violated; and what serious consequences ensue to render private  vices a public pest. Besides, an habit of personal order, which has more  effect on the moral character, than is, in general, supposed, can only  be acquired at home, where that respectable reserve is kept up which  checks the familiarity, that sinking into beastliness, undermines the  affection it insults. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have already animadverted on the  bad habits which females acquire when they are shut up together; and, I  think, that the observation may fairly be extended to the other sex,  till the natural inference is drawn which I have had in view  throughout-that to improve both sexes they ought, not only in private  families, but in public schools, to be educated together. If marriage be  the cement of society, mankind should all be educated after the same  model, or the intercourse of the sexes will never deserve the name of  fellowship, nor will women ever fulfil the peculiar duties of their sex,  till they become enlightened citizens, till they become free by being  enabled to earn their own subsistence, independent of men; in the same  manner, I mean, to prevent misconstruction, as one man is independent of  another. Nay, marriage will never be held sacred till women, by being  brought up with men, are prepared to be their companions rather than  their mistresses; for the mean doublings of cunning will ever render  them contemptible, whilst oppression renders them timid. So convinced am  I of this truth, that I will venture to predict that virtue will never  prevail in society till the virtues of both sexes are founded on reason;  and, till the affections common to both are allowed to gain their due  strength by the discharge of mutual duties. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Were boys and  girls permitted to pursue the same studies together, those graceful  decencies might early be inculcated which produce modesty without those  sexual distinctions that taint the mind. Lessons of politeness, and that  formulary of decorum, which treads on the heels of falsehood, would be  rendered useless by habitual propriety of behaviour. Not, indeed, put on  for visitors like the courtly robe of politeness, but the sober effect  of cleanliness of mind. Would not this simple elegance of sincerity be a  chaste homage paid to domestic affections, far surpassing the  meretricious compliments that shine with false lustre in the heartless  intercourse of fashionable life? But, till more understanding  preponderates in society there will ever be a want of heart and taste,  and the harlot's rouge will supply the place of that celestial suffusion  which only virtuous affections can give to the face. Gallantry, and  what is called love, may subsist without simplicity of character; but  the main pillars of friendship, are respect and confidence-esteem is  never founded on it cannot tell what! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      A taste for the fine  arts requires great cultivation; but not more than a taste for the  virtuous affections; and both suppose that enlargement of mind which  opens so many sources of mental pleasure. Why do people hurry to noisy  scenes, and crowded circles? I should answer, because they want activity  of mind, because they have not cherished the virtues of the heart. They  only, therefore, see and feel in the gross, and continually pine after  variety, finding every thing that is simple insipid. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This  argument may be carried further than philosophers are aware of, for if  nature destined woman, in particular, for the discharge of domestic  duties, she made her susceptible of the attached affections in a great  degree. Now women are notoriously fond of pleasure; and, naturally must  be so according to my definition, because they cannot enter into the  minutiae of domestic taste; lacking judgment, the foundation of all  taste. For the understanding, in spite of sensual cavillers, reserves to  itself the privilege of conveying pure joy to the heart. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       With what a languid yawn have I seen an admirable poem thrown down, that  a man of true taste returns to, again and again with rapture; and,  whilst melody has almost suspended respiration, a lady has asked me  where I bought my gown. I have seen also an eye glanced coldly over a  most exquisite picture, rest, sparkling with pleasure, on a caricature  rudely sketched; and whilst some terrific feature in nature has spread a  sublime stillness through my soul, I have been desired to observe the  pretty tricks of a lap-dog, that my perverse fate forced me to travel  with. Is it surprising that such a tasteless being should rather caress  this dog than her children? Or, that she should prefer the rant of  flattery to the simple accents of sincerity? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      To illustrate  this remark, I must be allowed to observe, that men of the first genius,  and most cultivated minds, have appeared to have the highest relish for  the simple beauties of nature; and they must have forcibly felt, what  they have so well described, the charm which natural affections, and  unsophisticated feelings spread round the human character. It is this  power of looking into the heart, and responsively vibrating with each  emotion, that enables the poet to personify each passion, and the  painter to sketch with a pencil of fire. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      True taste is ever  the work of the understanding employed in observing natural effects;  and till women have more understanding, it is vain to expect them to  possess domestic taste. Their lively senses will ever be at work to  harden their hearts, and the emotions struck out of them will continue  to be vivid and transitory, unless a proper education store their mind  with knowledge. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is the want of domestic taste, and not  the acquirement of knowledge, that takes women out of their families,  and tears the smiling babe from the breast that ought to afford it  nourishment. Women have been allowed to remain in ignorance, and slavish  dependence, many, very many years, and still we hear of nothing but  their fondness of pleasure and sway, their preference of rakes and  soldiers, their childish attachment to toys, and the vanity that makes  them value accomplishments more than virtues. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      History  brings forward a fearful catalogue of the crimes which their cunning has  produced, when the weak slaves have had sufficient address to  over-reach their masters. In France, and in how many other countries,  have men been the luxurious despots, and women the crafty  ministers?-Does this prove that ignorance and dependence domesticate  them? Is not their folly the by-word of the libertines, who relax in  their society; and do not men of sense continually lament that an  immoderate fondness for dress and dissipation carries the mother of a  family for ever from home? Their hearts have not been debauched by  knowledge, or their minds led astray by scientific pursuits; yet, they  do not fulfil the peculiar duties which as women they are called upon by  nature to fulfil. On the contrary, the state of warfare which subsists  between the sexes, makes them employ those wiles, that often frustrate  the more open designs of force. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      When, therefore, I call  women slaves, I mean in a political and civil sense; for, indirectly  they obtain too much power, and are debased by their exertions to obtain  illicit sway. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let an enlightened nation &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n66"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;66&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  then try what effect reason would have to bring them back to nature,  and their duty; and allowing them to share the advantages of education  and government with man, see whether they will become better, as they  grow wiser and become free. They cannot be injured by the experiment;  for it is not in the power of man to render them more insignificant than  they are at present. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      To render this practicable, day  schools, for particular ages, should be established by government, in  which boys and girls might be educated together. The school for the  younger children, from five to nine years of age, ought to be absolutely  free and open to all classes.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n67"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;67&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  A sufficient number of masters should also be chosen by a select  committee, in each parish, to whom any complaint of negligence, &amp;amp;c.  might be made, if signed by six of the children's parents. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;       Ushers would then be unnecessary; for I believe experience will ever  prove that this kind of subordinate authority is particularly injurious  to the morals of youth. What, indeed, can tend to deprave the character  more than outward submission and inward contempt? Yet how can boys be  expected to treat an usher with respect, when the master seems to  consider him in the light of a servant, and almost to countenance the  ridicule which becomes the chief amusement of the boys during the play  hours? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But nothing of this kind could occur in an  elementary day-school, where boys and girls, the rich and poor, should  meet together. And to prevent any of the distinctions of vanity, they  should be dressed alike, and all obliged to submit to the same  discipline, or leave the school. The school-room ought to be surrounded  by a large piece of ground, in which the children might be usefully  exercised, for at this age they should not be confined to any sedentary  employment for more than an hour at a time. But these relaxations might  all be rendered a part of elementary education, for many things improve  and amuse the senses, when introduced as a kind of show, to the  principles of which, dryly laid down, children would turn a deaf ear.  For instance, botany, mechanics, and astronomy. Reading, writing,  arithmetic, natural history, and some simple experiments in natural  philosophy, might fill up the day; but these pursuits should never  encroach on gymnastic plays in the open air. The elements of religion,  history, the history of man, and politics, might also be taught by  conversations, in the socratic form. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      After the age of nine,  girls and boys, intended for domestic employments, or mechanical  trades, ought to be removed to other schools, and receive instruction,  in some measure appropriated to the destination of each individual, the  two sexes being still together in the morning; but in the afternoon, the  girls should attend a school, where plain-work, mantua-making,  millinery, &amp;amp;c. would be their employment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The young  people of superior abilities, or fortune, might now be taught, in  another school, the dead and living languages, the elements of science,  and continue the study of history and politics, on a more extensive  scale, which would not exclude polite literature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Girls and  boys still together? I hear some readers ask: yes. And I should not  fear any other consequence than that some early attachment might take  place; which, whilst it had the best effect on the moral character of  the young people, might not perfectly agree with the views of the  parents, for it will be a long time, I fear, before the world will be so  far enlightened that parents, only anxious to render their children  virtuous, shall allow them to choose companions for life themselves. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, this would be a sure way to promote early marriages, and  from early marriages the most salutary physical and moral effects  naturally flow. What a different character does a married citizen assume  from the selfish coxcomb, who lives, but for himself, and who is often  afraid to marry lest he should not be able to live in a certain style.  Great emergencies excepted, which would rarely occur in a society of  which equality was the basis, a man can only be prepared to discharge  the duties of public life, by the habitual practice of those inferiour  ones which form the man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In this plan of education the  constitution of boys would not be ruined by the early debaucheries,  which now make men so selfish, or girls rendered weak and vain, by  indolence, and frivolous pursuits. But, I presuppose, that such a degree  of equality should be established between the sexes as would shut out  gallantry and coquetry, yet allow friendship and love to temper the  heart for the discharge of higher duties. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      These would be  schools of morality-and the happiness of man, allowed to flow from the  pure springs of duty and affection, what advances might not the human  mind make? Society can only be happy and free in proportion as it is  virtuous; but the present distinctions, established in society, corrode  all private, and blast all public virtue. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I have already  inveighed against the custom of confining girls to their needle, and  shutting them out from all political and civil employments; for by thus  narrowing their minds they are rendered unfit to fulfil the peculiar  duties which nature has assigned them. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Only employed about  the little incidents of the day, they necessarily grow up cunning. My  very soul has often sickened at observing the sly tricks practised by  women to gain some foolish thing on which their silly hearts were set.  Not allowed to dispose of money, or call any thing their own, they learn  to turn the market penny; or, should a husband offend, by staying from  home, or give rise to some emotions of jealousy-a new gown, or any  pretty bawble, smooths Juno's angry brow. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But these  littlenesses would not degrade their character, if women were led to  respect themselves, if political and moral subjects were opened to them;  and, I will venture to affirm, that this is the only way to make them  properly attentive to their domestic duties.-An active mind embraces the  whole circle of its duties, and finds time enough for all. It is not, I  assert, a bold attempt to emulate masculine virtues; it is not the  enchantment of literary pursuits, or the steady investigation of  scientific subjects, that leads women astray from duty. No, it is  indolence and vanity-the love of pleasure and the love of sway, that  will reign paramount in an empty mind. I say empty emphatically, because  the education which women now receive scarcely deserves the name. For  the little knowledge that they are led to acquire, during the important  years of youth, is merely relative to accomplishments; and  accomplishments without a bottom, for unless the understanding be  cultivated, superficial and monotonous is every grace. Like the charms  of a made up face, they only strike the senses in a crowd; but at home,  wanting mind, they want variety. The consequence is obvious; in gay  scenes of dissipation we meet the artificial mind and face, for those  who fly from solitude dread, next to solitude, the domestic circle; not  having it in their power to amuse or interest, they feel their own  insignificance, or find nothing to amuse or interest themselves. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, what can be more indelicate than a girl's coming out in the  fashionable world? Which, in other words, is to bring to market a  marriageable miss, whose person is taken from one public place to  another, richly caparisoned. Yet, mixing in the giddy. circle under  restraint, these butterflies long to flutter at large, for the first  affection of their souls is their own persons, to which their attention  has been called with the most sedulous care whilst they were preparing  for the period that decides their fate for life. Instead of pursuing  this idle routine, sighing for tasteless shew, and heartless state, with  what dignity would the youths of both sexes form attachments in the  schools that I have cursorily pointed out; in which, as life advanced,  dancing, music, and drawing, might be admitted as relaxations, for at  these schools young people of fortune ought to remain, more or less,  till they were of age. Those, who were designed for particular  professions, might attend, three or four mornings in the week, the  schools appropriated for their immediate instruction. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I  only drop these observations at present, as hints; rather, indeed, as an  outline of the plan I mean, than a digested one; but I must add, that I  highly approve of one regulation mentioned in the pamphlet  &lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n68"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;68&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  already alluded to, that of making the children and youths independent  of the masters respecting punishments. They should be tried by their  peers, which would be an admirable method of fixing sound principles of  justice in the mind, and might have the happiest effect on the temper,  which is very early soured or irritated by tyranny, till it becomes  peevishly cunning, or ferociously overbearing. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      My  imagination darts forward with benevolent fervour to greet these amiable  and respectable groups, in spite of the sneering of cold hearts, who  are at liberty to utter, with frigid self-importance, the damning  epithet-romantic; the force of which I shall endeavour to blunt by  repeating the words of an eloquent moralist.-'I know not whether the  allusions of a truly humane heart, whose zeal renders every thing easy,  be not preferable to that rough and repulsing reason, which always finds  in indifference for the public good, the first obstacle to whatever  would promote it.' &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I know that libertines will also  exclaim, that woman would be unsexed by acquiring strength of body and  mind, and that beauty, soft bewitching beauty! would no longer adorn the  daughters of men. I am of a very different opinion, for I think that,  on the contrary, we should then see dignified beauty, and true grace; to  produce which, many powerful physical and moral causes would  concur.-Not relaxed beauty, it is true, or the graces of helplessness;  but such as appears to make us respect the human body as a majestic pile  fit to receive a noble inhabitant, in the relics of antiquity. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       I do not forget the popular opinion that the Grecian statues were not  modelled after nature. I mean, not according to the proportions of a  particular man; but that beautiful limbs and features were selected from  various bodies to form an harmonious whole. This might, in some degree,  be true. The fine ideal picture of an exalted imagination might be  superiour to the materials which the statuary found in nature, and thus  it might with propriety be termed rather the model of mankind than of a  man. It was not, however, the mechanical selection of limbs and  features; but the ebullition of an heated fancy that burst forth, and  the fine senses and enlarged understanding of the artist selected the  solid matter, which he drew into this glowing focus. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I  observed that it was not mechanical, because a whole was produced-a  model of that grand simplicity, of those concurring energies, which  arrest our attention and command our reverence. For only insipid  lifeless beauty is produced by a servile copy of even beautiful nature.  Yet, independent of these observations, I believe that the human form  must have been far more beautiful than it is at present, because extreme  indolence, barbarous ligatures, and many causes, which forcibly act on  it, in our luxurious state of society, did not retard its expansion, or  render it deformed. Exercise and cleanliness appear to be not only the  surest means of preserving health, but of promoting beauty, the physical  causes only considered; yet, this is not sufficient, moral ones must  concur, or beauty will be merely of that rustic kind which blooms on the  innocent, wholesome, countenances of some country people, whose minds  have not been exercised. To render the person perfect, physical and  moral beauty ought to be attained at the same time; each lending and  receiving force by the combination. Judgment must reside on the brow,  affection and fancy beam in the eye, and humanity curve the cheek, or  vain is the sparkling of the finest eye or the elegantly turned finish  of the fairest features: whilst in every motion that displays the active  limbs and well-knit joints, grace and modesty should appear. But this  fair assemblage is not to be brought together by chance; it is the  reward of exertions calculated to support each other; for judgment can  only be acquired by reflection, affection by the discharge of duties,  and humanity by the exercise of compassion to every living creature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Humanity to animals should be particularly inculcated as a part of  national education, for it is not at present one of our national  virtues. Tenderness for their humble dumb domestics, amongst the lower  class, is oftener to be found in a savage than a civilized state. For  civilization prevents that intercourse which creates affection in the  rude hut, or mud hovel, and leads uncultivated minds who are only  depraved by the refinements which prevail in the society, where they are  trodden under foot by the rich, to domineer over them to revenge the  insults that they are obliged to bear from their superiours. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       This habitual cruelty is first caught at school, where it is one of  the rare sports of the boys to torment the miserable brutes that fall in  their way. The transition, as they grow up, from barbarity to brutes to  domestic tyranny over wives, children, and servants, is very easy.  Justice, or even benevolence, will not be a powerful spring of action  unless it extend to the whole creation; nay, I believe that it may be  delivered as an axiom, that those who can see pain, unmoved, will soon  learn to inflict it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The vulgar are swayed by present  feelings, and the habits which they have accidentally acquired; but on  partial feelings much dependence cannot be placed, though they be just;  for, when they are not invigorated by reflection, custom weakens them,  till they are scarcely perceptible. The sympathies of our nature are  strengthened by pondering cogitations, and deadened by thoughtless use.  Macbeth's heart smote him more for one murder, the first, than for a  hundred subsequent ones, which were necessary to back it. But, when I  used the epithet vulgar, I did not mean to confine my remark to the  poor, for partial humanity, founded on present sensations, or whim, is  quite as conspicuous, if not more so, amongst the rich. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The  lady who sheds tears for the bird starved in a snare, and execrates the  devils in the shape of men, who goad to madness the poor ox, or whip  the patient ass, tottering under a burden above its strength, will,  nevertheless, keep her coachman and horses whole hours waiting for her,  when the sharp frost bites, or the rain beats against the well-closed  windows which do not admit a breath of air to tell her how roughly the  wind blows without. And she who takes her dogs to bed, and nurses them  with a parade of sensibility, when sick, will suffer her babes to grow  up crooked in a nursery. This illustration of my argument is drawn from a  matter of fact. The woman whom I allude to was handsome, reckoned very  handsome, by those who do not miss the mind when the face is plump and  fair; but her understanding had not been led from female duties by  literature, nor her innocence debauched by knowledge. No, she was quite  feminine, according to the masculine acceptation of the word; and, so  far from loving these spoiled brutes that filled the place which her  children ought to have occupied, she only lisped out a pretty mixture of  French and English nonsense, to please the men who flocked round her.  The wife, mother, and human creature, were all swallowed up by the  factitious character which an improper education and the selfish vanity  of beauty had produced. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I do not like to make a distinction  without a difference, and I own that I have been as much disgusted by  the fine lady who took her lap-dog to her bosom instead of her child; as  by the ferocity of a man, who, beating his horse, declared, that he  knew as well when he did wrong, as a Christian. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      This brood  of folly shews how mistaken they are who, if they allow women to leave  their harams, do not cultivate their understandings, in order to plant  virtues in their hearts. For had they sense, they might acquire that  domestic taste which would lead them to love with reasonable  subordination their whole family, from their husband to the house-dog;  nor would they ever insult humanity in the person of the most menial  servant by paying more attention to the comfort of a brute, than to that  of a fellow-creature. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      My observations on national  education are obviously hints; but I principally wish to enforce the  necessity of educating the sexes together to perfect both, and of making  children sleep at home that they may learn to love home; yet to make  private support, instead of smothering, public affections, they should  be sent to school to mix with a number of equals, for only by the  jostlings of equality can we form a just opinion of ourselves. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       To render mankind more virtuous, and happier of course, both sexes  must act from the same principle; but how can that be expected when only  one is allowed to see the reasonableness of it? To render also the  social compact truly equitable, and in order to spread those  enlightening principles, which alone can meliorate the fate of man,  women must be allowed to found their virtue on knowledge, which is  scarcely possible unless they be educated by the same pursuits as men.  For they are now made so inferiour by ignorance and low desires, as not  to deserve to be ranked with them; or, by the serpentine wrigglings of  cunning they mount the tree of knowledge, and only acquire sufficient to  lead men astray. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is plain from the history of all  nations, that women cannot be confined to merely domestic pursuits, for  they will not fulfil family duties, unless their minds take a wider  range, and whilst they are kept in ignorance they become in the same  proportion the slaves of pleasure as they are the slaves of man. Nor can  they be shut out if great enterprises, though the narrowness of their  minds often make them mar, what they are unable to comprehend. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       The libertinism, and even the virtues of superiour men, will always  give women, of some description, great power over them; and these weak  women, under the influence of childish passions and selfish vanity, will  throw a false light over the objects which the very men view with their  eyes, who ought to enlighten their judgment. Men of fancy, and those  sanguine characters who mostly hold the helm of human affairs, in  general, relax in the society of women; and surely I need not cite to  the most superficial reader of history the numerous examples of vice and  oppression which the private intrigues of female favourites have  produced; not to dwell on the mischief that naturally arises from the  blundering interposition of well-meaning folly. For in the transactions  of business it is much better to have to deal with a knave than a fool,  because a knave adheres to some plan; and any plan of reason may be seen  through much sooner than a sudden flight of folly. The power which vile  and foolish women have had over wise men, who possessed sensibility, is  notorious; I shall only mention one instance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Who ever  drew a more exalted female character than Rousseau? though in the lump  he constantly endeavoured to degrade the sex. And why was he thus  anxious? Truly to justify to himself the affection which weakness and  virtue had made him cherish for that fool Theresa. He could not raise  her to the common level of her sex; and therefore he laboured to bring  woman down to her's. He found her a convenient humble companion, and  pride made him determine to find some superiour virtues in the being  whom he chose to live with; but did not her conduct during his life, and  after his death, clearly shew how grossly he was mistaken who called  her a celestial innocent. Nay, in the bitterness of his heart, he  himself laments, that when his bodily infirmities made him no longer  treat her like a woman, she ceased to have an affection for him. And it  was very natural that she should, for having so few sentiments in  common, when the sexual tie was broken, what was to hold her? To hold  her affection whose sensibility was confined to one sex, nay, to one  man, it requires sense to turn sensibility into the broad channel of  humanity; many women have not mind enough to have an affection for a  woman, or a friendship for a man. But the sexual weakness that makes  woman depend on man for a subsistence, produces a kind of cattish  affection which leads a wife to purr about her husband as she would  about any man who fed and caressed her. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Men are, however,  often gratified by this kind of fondness, which is confined in a beastly  manner to themselves; but should they ever become more virtuous, they  will wish to converse at their fire-side with a friend, after they cease  to play with a mistress. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Besides, understanding is  necessary to give variety and interest to sensual enjoyments, for low,  indeed, in the intellectual scale, is the mind that can continue to love  when neither virtue nor sense give a human appearance to an animal  appetite. But sense will always preponderate; and if women be not, in  general, brought more on a level with men, some superiour woman, like  the Greek courtezans, will assemble the men of abilities around them,  and draw from their families many citizens, who would have stayed at  home had their wives had more sense, or the graces which result from the  exercise of the understanding and fancy, the legitimate parents of  taste. A woman of talents, if she be not absolutely ugly, will always  obtain great power, raised by the weakness of her sex; and in proportion  as men acquire virtue and delicacy, by the exertion of reason, they  will look for both in women, but they can only acquire them in the same  way that men do. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In France or Italy, have the women  confined themselves to domestic life? though they have not hitherto had a  political existence, yet, have they not illicitly had great sway?  corrupting themselves and the men with whose passions they played. In  short, in whatever light I view the subject, reason and experience  convince me that the only method of leading women to fulfil their  peculiar duties, is to free them from all restraint by allowing them to  participate in the inherent rights of mankind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Make them  free, and they will quickly become wise and virtuous, as men become more  so; for the improvement must be mutual, or the injustice which one half  of the human race are obliged to submit to, retorting on their  oppressors, the virtue of men will be worm-eaten by the insect whom he  keeps under his feet. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Let men take their choice, man and  woman were made for each other, though not to become one being; and if  they will not improve women, they will deprave them! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I  speak of the improvement and emancipation of the whole sex, for I know  that the behaviour of a few women, who, by accident, or following a  strong bent of nature, have acquired a portion of knowledge superiour to  that of the rest of their sex, has often been over-bearing; but there  have been instances of women who, attaining knowledge, have not  discarded modesty, nor have they always pedantically appeared to despise  the ignorance which they laboured to disperse in their own minds. The  exclamations then which any advice respecting female learning, commonly  produces, especially from pretty women, often arise from envy. When they  chance to see that even the lustre of their eyes, and the flippant  sportiveness of refined coquetry will not always secure them attention,  during a whole evening, should a woman of a more cultivated  understanding endeavour to give a rational turn to the conversation, the  common source of consolation is, that such women seldom get husbands.  What arts have I not seen silly women use to interrupt by flirtation, a  very significant word to describe such a manoeuvre, a rational  conversation which made the men forget that they were pretty women. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       But, allowing what is very natural to man, that the possession of  rare abilities is really calculated to excite over-weening pride,  disgusting in both men and women-in what a state of inferiority must the  female faculties have rusted when such a small portion of knowledge as  those women attained, who have sneeringly been termed learned women,  could be singular?-Sufficiently so to puff up the possessor, and excite  envy in her contemporaries, and some of the other sex. Nay, has not a  little rationality exposed many women to the severest censure? I advert  to well known facts, for I have frequently heard women ridiculed, and  every little weakness exposed, only because they adopted the advice of  some medical men, and deviated from the beaten track in their mode of  treating their infants. I have actually heard this barbarous aversion to  innovation carried still further, and a sensible woman stigmatized as  an unnatural mother, who has thus been wisely solicitous to preserve the  health of her children, when in the midst of her care she has lost one  by some of the casualties of infancy, which no prudence can ward off.  Her acquaintance have observed, that this was the consequence of  new-fangled notions-the new-fangled notions of ease and cleanliness. And  those who pretending to experience, though they have long adhered to  prejudices that have, according to the opinion of the most sagacious  physicians, thinned the human race, almost rejoiced at the disaster that  gave a kind of sanction to prescription. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Indeed, if it  were only on this account, the national education of women is of the  utmost consequence, for what a number of human sacrifices are made to  that moloch prejudice! And in how many ways are children destroyed by  the lasciviousness of man? The want of natural affection, in many women,  who are drawn from their duty by the admiration of men, and the  ignorance of others, render the infancy of man a much more perilous  state than that of brutes; yet men are unwilling to place women in  situations proper to enable them to acquire sufficient understanding to  know how even to nurse their babes. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      So forcibly does this  truth strike me, that I would rest the whole tendency of my reasoning  upon it, for whatever tends to incapacitate the maternal character,  takes woman out of her sphere. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But it is vain to expect the  present race of weak mothers either to take that reasonable care of a  child's body, which is necessary to lay the foundation of a good  constitution, supposing that it do not suffer for the sins of its  fathers; or, to manage its temper so judiciously that the child will not  have, as it grows up, to throw off all that its mother, its first  instructor, directly or indirectly taught; and unless the mind have  uncommon vigour, womanish follies will stick to the character throughout  life. The weakness of the mother will be visited on the children! And  whilst women are educated to rely on their husbands for judgment, this  must ever be the consequence, for there is no improving an understanding  by halves, nor can any being act wisely from imitation, because in  every circumstance of life there is a kind of individuality, which  requires an exertion of judgment to modify general rules. The being who  can think justly in one track, will soon extend its intellectual empire;  and she who has sufficient judgment to manage her children, will not  submit, right or wrong, to her husband, or patiently to the social laws  which make a nonentity of a wife. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      In public schools women,  to guard against the errors of ignorance, should be taught the elements  of anatomy and medicine, not only to enable them to take proper care of  their own health, but to make them rational nurses of their infants,  parents, and husbands; for the bills of mortality are swelled by the  blunders of self-willed old women, who give nostrums of them own without  knowing any thing of the human frame. It is likewise proper only in a  domestic view, to make women acquainted with the anatomy of the mind, by  allowing the sexes to associate together in every pursuit; and by  leading them to observe the progress of the human understanding in the  improvement of the sciences and arts; never forgetting the science of  morality, or the study of the political history of mankind. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       A man has been termed a microcosm; and every family might also be  called a state. States, it is true, have mostly been governed by arts  that disgrace the character of man; and the want of a just constitution,  and equal laws, have so perplexed the notions of the worldly wise, that  they more than question the reasonableness of contending for the rights  of humanity. Thus morality, polluted in the national reservoir, sends  off streams of vice to corrupt the constituent parts of the body  politic; but should more noble, or rather, more just principles regulate  the laws, which ought to be the government of society, and not those  who execute them, duty might become the rule of private conduct. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Besides, by the exercise of their bodies and minds women would  acquire that mental activity so necessary in the maternal character,  united with the fortitude that distinguishes steadiness of conduct from  the obstinate perverseness of weakness. For it is dangerous to advise  the indolent to be steady, because they instantly become rigorous, and  to save themselves trouble, punish with severity faults that the patient  fortitude of reason might have prevented. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      But fortitude  presupposes strength of mind; and is strength of mind to be acquired by  indolent acquiescence? by asking advice instead of exerting the  judgment? by obeying through fear, instead of practising the  forbearance, which we all stand in need of ourselves?-The conclusion  which I wish to draw, is obvious; make women rational creatures, and  free citizens, and they will quickly become good wives, and mothers;  that is-if men do not neglect the duties of husbands and fathers. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Discussing the advantages which a public and private education  combined, as I have sketched, might rationally be expected to produce, I  have dwelt most on such as are particularly relative to the female  world, because I think the female world oppressed; yet the gangrene,  which the vices engendered by oppression have produced, is not confined  to the morbid part, but pervades society at large: so that when I wish  to see my sex become more like moral agents, my heart bounds with the  anticipation of the general diffusion of that sublime contentment which  only morality can diffuse.  &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n64"&gt;[64]  I now particularly allude to the numerous academies in and about  London, and to the behaviour of the trading part of this great city. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n65"&gt;[65]  I remember a circumstance that once came under my own observation, and  raised my indignation. I went to visit a little boy at a school where  young children were prepared for a larger one. The master took me into  the school-room, &amp;amp;c. but whilst I walked down a broad gravel walk, I  could not help observing that the grass grew very luxuriantly on each  side of me. I immediately asked the child some questions, and found that  the poor boys were not allowed to stir off the walk, and that the  master sometimes permitted sheep to be turned in to crop the untrodden  grass. The tyrant of this domain used to sit by a window that overlooked  the prison yard, and one nook turning from it, where the unfortunate  babes could sport freely, he enclosed, and planted it with potatoes. The  wife likewise was equally anxious to keep the children in order, lest  they should dirty or tear their clothes. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n66"&gt;[66] France. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n67"&gt;[67]  Treating this part of the subject, I have borrowed some hints from a  very sensible pamphlet, written by the late bishop of Autun on Public  Education. &lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name="n68"&gt;[68] The Bishop of Autun's. &lt;/a&gt;  &lt;hr width="50%"&gt;    &lt;center&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Chapter 13&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Some  Instances of the Folly Which the Ignorance of Women Generates; with  Concluding Reflections on the Moral Improvement That a Revolution in  Female Manners Might Naturally Be Expected to Produce.&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;       There are many follies, in some degree, peculiar to women: sins  against reason of commission as well as of omission; but all flowing  from ignorance or prejudice, I shall only point out such as appear to be  particularly injurious to their moral character. And in animadverting  on them, I wish especially to prove, that the weakness of mind and body,  which men have endeavoured, impelled by various motives, to perpetuate,  prevents their discharging the peculiar duty of their sex: for when  weakness of body will not permit them to suckle their children, and  weakness of mind makes them spoil their tempers-is woman in a natural  state? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;hr width="50%"&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;p&gt;      One glaring instance of the weakness which proceeds from ignorance, first claims attention, and calls for severe reproof. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       In this metropolis a number of lurking leeches infamously gain a  subsistence by practising on the credulity of women, pretending to cast  nativities, to use the technical phrase; and many females who, proud of  their rank and fortune, look down on the vulgar with sovereign contempt,  shew by this credulity, that the distinction is arbitrary, and that  they have not sufficiently cultivated their minds to rise above vulgar  prejudices. Women, because they have not been led to consider the  knowledge of their duty as the one thing necessary to know, or, to live  in the present moment by the discharge of it, are very anxious to peep  into futurity, to learn what they have to expect to render life  interesting, and to break the vacuum of ignorance. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I must  be allowed to expostulate seriously with the ladies who follow these  idle inventions; for ladies, mistresses of families, are not ashamed to  drive in their own carriages to the door of the cunning man.&lt;a href="http://etext.virginia.edu/etcbin/toccer-new2?id=WolVind.sgm&amp;amp;images=images/modeng&amp;amp;data=/texts/english/modeng/parsed&amp;amp;tag=public&amp;amp;part=all#n69"&gt;&lt;sup&gt;69&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  And if any of them should peruse this work, I entreat them to answer to  their own hearts the following questions, not forgetting that they are  in the presence of God. &lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p&gt;      Do you believe that there is but one God, and that he is powerful, wise, and good? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Do you believe that all things were created by him, and that all beings are dependent on him? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Do you rely on his wisdom, so conspicuous in his works, and in your  own frame, and are you convinced that he has ordered all things which do  not come under the cognizance of your senses, in the same perfect  harmony, to fulfil his designs? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Do you acknowledge that the  power of looking into futurity, and seeing things that are not, as if  they were, is an attribute of the Creator? And should he, by an  impression on the minds of his creatures, think fit to impart to them  some event hid in the shades of time yet unborn, to whom would the  secret be revealed by immediate inspiration? The opinion of ages will  answer this question-to reverend old men, to people distinguished for  eminent piety. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The oracles of old were thus delivered by  priests dedicated to the service of the God who was supposed to inspire  them. The glare of worldly pomp which surrounded these impostors, and  the respect paid to them by artful politicians, who knew how to avail  themselves of this useful engine to bend the necks of the strong under  the dominion of the cunning, spread a sacred mysterious veil of sanctity  over their lies and abominations. Impressed by such solemn devotional  parade, a Greek, or Roman lady might be excused, if she inquired of the  oracle, when she was anxious to pry into futurity, or inquire about some  dubious event: and her inquiries, however contrary to reason, could not  be reckoned impious.-But, can the professors of Christianity ward off  that imputation? Can a Christian suppose that the favourites of the most  High, the highly favoured, would be obliged to lurk in disguise, and  practise the most dishonest tricks to cheat silly women out of the  money-which the poor cry for in vain? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Say not that such  questions are an insult to common sense-for it is your own conduct, O ye  foolish women! which throws an odium on your sex! And these reflections  should make you shudder at your thoughtlessness, and irrational  devotion.-For I do not suppose that all of you laid aside your religion,  such as it is, when you entered those mysterious dwellings. Yet, as I  have throughout supposed myself talking to ignorant women, for ignorant  ye are in the most emphatical sense of the word, it would be absurd to  reason with you on the egregious folly of desiring to know what the  Supreme Wisdom has concealed. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Probably you would not  understand me, were I to attempt to shew you that it would be absolutely  inconsistent with the grand purpose of life, that of rendering human  creatures wise and virtuous: and that, were it sanctioned by God, it  would disturb the order established in creation; and if it be not  sanctioned by God, do you expect to hear truth? Can events be foretold,  events which have not yet assumed a body to become subject to mortal  inspection, can they be foreseen by a vicious worldling, who pampers his  appetites by preying on the foolish ones? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Perhaps,  however, you devoutly believe in the devil, and imagine, to shift the  question, that he may assist his votaries; but, if really respecting the  power of such a being, an enemy to goodness and to God, can you go to  church after having been under such an obligation to him? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       From these delusions to those still more fashionable deceptions,  practised by the whole tribe of magnetisers, the transition is very  natural. With respect to them, it is equally proper to ask women a few  questions. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Do you know any thing of the construction of the  human frame? If not, it is proper that you should be told what every  child ought to know, that when its admirable oeconomy has been disturbed  by intemperance or indolence, I speak not of violent disorders, but of  chronical diseases, it must be brought into a healthy state again, by  slow degrees, and if the functions of life have not been materially  injured, regimen, another word for temperance, air, exercise, and a few  medicines, prescribed by persons who have studied the human body, are  the only human means, yet discovered, of recovering that inestimable  blessing health, that will bear investigation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Do you then  believe that these magnetisers, who, by hocus pocus tricks, pretend to  work a miracle, are delegated by God, or assisted by the solver of all  these kind of difficulties-the devil? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Do they, when they  put to flight, as it is said, disorders that have baffled the powers of  medicine, work in conformity to the light of reason? or, do they effect  these wonderful cures by supernatural aid? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      By a  communication, an adept may answer, with the world of spirits. A noble  privilege, it must be allowed. Some of the ancients mention familiar  daemons, who guarded them from danger by kindly intimating, we cannot  guess in what manner, when any danger was nigh; or, pointed out what  they ought to undertake. Yet the men who laid claim to this privilege,  out of the order of nature, insisted that it was the reward, or  consequence, of superiour temperance and piety. But the present workers  of wonders are not raised above their fellows by superiour temperance or  sanctity. They do not cure for the love of God, but money. These are  the priests of quackery, though it is true they have not the convenient  expedient of selling masses for souls in purgatory, or churches where  they can display crutches, and models of limbs made sound by a touch or a  word. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      I am not conversant with the technical terms, or  initiated into the arcana, therefore, I may speak improperly; but it is  clear that men who will not conform to the law of reason, and earn a  subsistence in an honest way, by degrees, are very fortunate in becoming  acquainted with such obliging spirits. We cannot, indeed, give them  credit for either great sagacity or goodness, else they would have  chosen more noble instruments, when they wished to shew themselves the  benevolent friends of man. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      It is, however, little short of blasphemy to pretend to such powers! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       From the whole tenour of the dispensations of Providence, it appears  evident to sober reason, that certain vices produce certain effects; and  can any one so grossly insult the wisdom of God, as to suppose that a  miracle will be allowed to disturb his general laws, to restore to  health the intemperate and vicious, merely to enable them to pursue the  same course with impunity? Be whole, and sin no more, said Jesus. And,  are greater miracles to be performed by those who do not follow his  footsteps, who healed the body to reach the mind? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      The  mentioning of the name of Christ, after such vile impostors, may  displease some of my readers-I respect their warmth; but let them not  forget that the followers of these delusions bear his name, and profess  to be the disciples of him, who said, by their works we should know who  were the children of God or the servants of sin. I allow that it is  easier to touch the body of a saint, or to be magnetised, than to  restrain our appetites or govern our passions; but health of body or  mind can only be recovered by these means, or we make the Supreme Judge  partial and revengeful. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;      Is he a man that he should change,  or punish out of resentment? He-the common father, wounds but to heal,  says reason, and our irregularities producing certain consequences, we  are forcibly shewn the nature of vice; that thus learning to know good  from evil, by experience, we may hate one and love the other, in  proportion to the wisdom which we attain. The poison contains the  antidote; and we either reform our evil habits and cease to sin against  our own bodies, to use the forcible language of scripture, or a  premature death, the punishment of sin, snaps the thread of life. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;       Here an awful stop is put to our inquiries.-But, why should I conceal  my sentiments? Considering the attributes of God, I believe that  whatever punishment may follow, will t
